ok so i went out with this guy for like 2 days. then he broke up with me and my best friend told me to go ask him out for her. i really regret asking him cuz theyve been going out for 2 months now. i still really like him and he said that if him and my bff broke up he would probably go out with me again. but my best friend said that if i ever go out with him again she would hate me. im afraid that if i go out with him again that he'll break up with me again and break my heart in pieces. i dont know if i should go out with him again.
please help!!
thanks in advance. =)
sis321 answered Thursday August 3 2006, 9:01 pm: if he says he likes her and says he likes u then he is a player and let him go youll find someone who likes you and wants you and noone else there are other fish in the sea.GOOD LUCK
AmandasAdvice answered Thursday August 3 2006, 8:32 pm: hey the truth is, what you do is up to you. your basic options are:
1. forget about this guy because he's not worth losing a friendship
2. ignore your friend and go out with him *if* they break up
let me just give you some pointers:
1. your friend shouldn't act like this. if she cared enough about your friendship she wouldn't let a guy get in the way. it's wrong to hate someone over a silly thing like a guy, and it sounds like she's not being such a great friend right now.
2. this guy doesn't seem like he's worth all the trouble he's already putting you [and your friend] through, and he is being unloyal to your friend by talking about going out with his ex [you] while he is going out with his current girlfriend [your friend]. i think you should just simply forget about him and find yourself a guy that is perfect for you, not your friend too.
leighaXcore answered Thursday August 3 2006, 8:23 pm: Well it doesnt sound like your friend is being a very GOOD friend. she should understand that you still like him,especially that shes the reason you broke up in the first place! I fshes really your frind,you need to talk to her and she'd understand. Hope i helped
PrEpCuTiE442 answered Thursday August 3 2006, 8:10 pm: Well if I was you I would go with what you wanna do because if she is reely a good friend then she will not end up hating you because she went out with him right after you and him broke up and that probally made you feel sad right?? [ PrEpCuTiE442's advice column | Ask PrEpCuTiE442 A Question ]
AskAndy answered Thursday August 3 2006, 7:30 pm: About your friend, shes not that great friend. You asked out your ex for HER because you are a good friend. So now if he wants you again and they break up and you get with him, she shouldnt be pissed, because they wouldnt be together in the first place without you. it musthave been torture to hand over a guy you like to your friend. now about the guy. you shouldnt really go out with him anyway. he goes out with your bff after breaking up with you, then MIGHT want you again. you need to rethink how great you ex was, and how nice your bff is. [ AskAndy's advice column | Ask AskAndy A Question ]
saleeha answered Thursday August 3 2006, 6:45 pm: well take a minute to realize...is this guy really the right one for you? if yes then you should take a chance to go out with him again. and if your best friend is really what she says she is then she won't get mad at you once she's broken up with him. once they break up...don't go for him right then and there. take a while for your friend to forget him or atleast get over him then take a chance. and if he does break your heart then just assume that he isn't good enough for you and he never was. there are plenty of guys in the world. there is always 1 that is perfect. in love, heartbreaks and breakups and get togethers are common so don't worry about it. just get over it if he dumps you again. [ saleeha's advice column | Ask saleeha A Question ]
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