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I have an extremley low self esteem...really low. But people tell me that I'm pretty...I can't believe it...So every time I go somewhere I am upset and thinking that I'm hideous and my self confidence is seriously so low...I don't know...what should I do...
www.myspace.com/rockstolemysoul
That's me...
I don't understand why I have such a low self image...but what should I do about it?
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your very pretty, nice job whatever you did editing pics or w/e to add words and stuff =-]
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You really are a beautiful girl, But I think it's just your attitude that needs a little work.
Music... Does the kind of music that you listen to have lyrics that make you feel good? If not, might I suggest listening to some that does? Like any music that is degrading towards women is not something to listen to.
Clothes... Maybe you should wear clothes that make you feel good, clean and beautiful inside and out. It's okay to look good, but make sure that people like you for other reasons, too.
Compliments... Why would people say those nice things about you if they weren't true? Instead of saying that you are horrible every time someone gives you a compliment, you can say, 'Thank you' or you can say something nice back. It feels good, you know?
Good luck... hope I helped!
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I think.. someone is myspace site whorin'. If you think your so ugly then why are you postin pics of your self in your bra & underwear and not to mention all the other pics where if you actually did have a shirt on, you pulled it up so ppl could see even more skin. Sounds like a cry for attention. I'll take my 1 and be movin on now...
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ok i just took a look at your myspace and im one to tell you if your actually ugly or drop dead gorgeous if you were ugly id tell you and you are NOT ugly...your gorgeous..drop dead gorgeous so never think your not and walk around knowin you are because then people will know you are too
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You are so NOT hideous! Do you watch Days of our lives? Probably not, but I am addicted. You remind me of the girl who plays Abby Deveroux and she is absolutely beautiful! Looking at your myspace, I wouldn't think you were someone with a low self esteem. You seem very confident. I guess that proves that you can't judge a book by it's cover, huh? If I were you, I would go out and get some new clothes. Maybe get highlights in your hair, get your nails done...pamper yourself a little. That always makes me feel better.
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how can you have a low self esteem and still put pictures of you in your underwear on myspace? your not hideous, you must be pretty enough if your boyfriend is going out with you(i assumed the guy you were kissing was your bf). but seriously there's nothing wrong with you. if you think people dont like you then its probably because of your personality not your looks.
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Who says you're hideous?? From the looks of it nobody has told you this outright. & besides, you arent truly ugly until your personality gets ugly. Thats when you should worry. & from the sound of things... you get comments that you're gorgeous quite often ^-^
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Now this made me think.
Ever got the totally wrong impression on someone?
I did just now..
By looking at your pictures, my first thought was "she's pretty. and knows it"
and it's hard to believe you have low self esteem when you're on view to the world grabbing your boobs ;]
I guess everyone has the same thoughts about themselves deep down, but not everyone thinks about it in the same way you do.
You will overcome this, it might take time, but just remind yourself;
You are beautiful. and if you don't love and have high expectations of yourself, who will?
Cheer up. Or if it will make you feel better, change something about yourself. New hair/makeup etc. Not that I personally think you need to, because you're great as you are.
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i dont understand why you would have low self esteem... youre beautiful.
i would die to have your hair. its so long and pretty. i checked out your myspace.
theres not too much you can do to make your self esteem better, except for convince yourself that youre beautiful and just awesome.
theres no reason for you too have a low self image.
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Oh my lord, you are freakin' gorgeous!! Did you see some of the comments people left yaa?!?! They obviously agree with me too. To boost your self esteem, you should give your self a new look that you might like better. You have really long pretty hair, so maybe you could try cutting it shorter? I noticed when I cut my hair its just a new look and it brings out my face because no ones looking at my long hair anymore. Or you could always go to your hair dresser and ask what hair style would bring out your features. Side bangs always look cute on people. Also, get highlights. If you have brown hair, get red or blonde high lights, and if your a blonde maybe put some brown highlights to give you dirty blonde. You have AMAZING eyes!! You need to make them stand out more. Mascara, eye shadow, and eyeliner will help you there. If you already use that stuff, then try different things with it like a darker line of eyeliner and different colors of eye shadow. Play around with the make up until you find something you like. Also, maybe try a new style of clothes. I don't mean you should go from prep to goth, I just mean you should try different colors and different kinds of shirts. For example, if you always wear black, try a brighter color like pink etc. If you only wear 1 type of shirt alot, for example polos, then try different kinds of shirts. Look around other stores too then just what you usually shop in. Wear alot of accesories, like necklaces bracelets belts etc. Just give yourself a WHOLE new look, changing hair make up and clothes and whatever you want to change. If you like the changes, it will boost up your self esteem. Only change things about you that you will like in the long run. You have to believe that your pretty. Its true! I don't just tell anyone on the street that they're pretty. I speak my mind and if somebody looks like shit I tell them. You're a pretty girl. If you don't like yourself, how do you expect others to? You can only change yourself so much, so just be happy you're alive. Some people have missing body parts, and some have lukemia, cancer,diabetes, depression. There's a uncountable list of horrible things that poor people are going through. It almost makes you seem selfish if you're complaining over something stupid like saying your ugly, when children are deformed or deaf or almost dead because of cancer. Be happy that your living and your not on your death bed. The poor humans that are suffering would give anything to be you right now. Everyone has stuff that they hate about themselves, so you either gotta change it if you can, or live with it. Complaining about it, or making yourself un-confident can not change it. Either take action or get over it and live with it. If people say your pretty, believe it. If they say you're ugly, they're jealous. So just love yourself, and God will help you get through your problems.
Best of luck.
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