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Q: How does anorexia harm you or your body? I know pukeing will stain your teeth but what else?? cuz if thats it, then whats the harm right?
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i think you might mean bulemia. bulemia is when you "binge" which means you eat a lot of things fast, usually very unhealthy, and force yourself to throw up after. this disorder screws up your metabolism, good chemicals in your body, and some of your body functions. this is very serious, its not just about staining your teeth. but if you mean anorexia- thts when you starve yourself, and thats definetly not healthy either. your body isnt gettin the proper nutrition it needs. all eating disorders screw up chemical balances in your body. if you have one of them, i suggest you go to somebody that can help you.
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Q: are saltine crackers and pretzals really healthy for you?? or are they just as bad as chips?
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they are definetly healthier than other chips. theyre not bad for you, theyre actually probably some of the healthiest "snack" foods.
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Q: Girls: Do you think it would be cute for a guy to ask before kissing a girl? Would you find that cute or weird?
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awwww the guys a cutie. depends on situation, but mostly it would be cute. dont ask a lot for sure, but especially if its her first i definetly think its cute!
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Q: Alright...well my hair is extremely thick and frizzy and poofy in the humidity. I straighten it and that seems to help. but i was wondering...is it true that if you get your hair thinned out it grows back thicker? thanks ill rate
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ive gotten my hair thinned over 10 times! it doesnt grow back thicker at all...just start off slow with thinnning it. they thinned mine too much once and im not gettin it thinned again. i straightened mine everyday and put some product in it. a cheap product to help frizziness is garnier fructise smoothing milk. also a good cheap straightener is vidal sassoon-ceramic, walgreens for $25. hope this is all helpful!
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Q: what are some good hair straighteners that won't really damage your hair alot
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Chi is awesome if you want to spend tons of money. my friend bought one for $200! but the one i use which works wonders on my hair i bought at walgreens for $25-vidal sassoon ceramic straightener. cheap but works really good and i have thick wavy hair! hope this helps!
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Q: ok.. i get my braces off soon (august) and i was wondering if anyone knows any good products to whiten your teeth??? i checked my dentist but the lazer treatment is 500$ and not including the stuff you have to keep putting on your teeth every so often.i just want something cheap and easy to start out with. Thanks!!!
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crest white at night stuff...like you paint it on before you go to sleep. 15$. cheapest stuff that whitens basically. or i use remembrandt (sp?) and you just use it as a toothpaste and it kinda helps a lil. i just got my braces off 2 weeks ago too! yeah so for now im using the remembrandt and then soon im buying the crest stuff. hope it all works out!
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Q: ok i have this g/f and i really care for her and i even love her but i dont think she understands exactly how much i care she is always flirtin with other boys and she gots mad at me all the time and i dont kno wat to do she says she really cares for me too and at times she shows it but at other times i fill like im not even datin her i have tried to tell her and talk to her but then she gits mad at me...please help me
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if shes not giving her time in the relationship, you shouldnt be wasting your time. i know you love her and its basically impossible to give up a really good relationship. but you hve to realize that you deserve better than her, and she doesnt deserve your love. i wish guys were more committed in relationships like you are. she should NOT be flirting with other guys, and when you try to tell her that she should listen and really try not to flirt. i really hope you work out this situation and hopefully it will all go well. please tell me how it goes!
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Q: okay heres the downlow. Whenever my boyfriend is around girls he always flirts with them, even if i'm right there. then when i talk to him about he'll either say i never did that or oh i'm sorry i won't do it again, but he never changes! I don't know what i should do. Part of me wants to break up with him and another part of me doesn't! So what should i do!!??
I'm 13,Female
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what i would do is breakup with him. you definetly deserve better than him! if you're doing everything for him, he should be doing everything for you. not flirting with other girls! especially in front of you. hes not giving you his best, so hes just wasting your time. your totally better than him and he doesnt deserve your lovin. i was in a sim sit...the guy wasnt working as hard as i was in the relationship and finally i let it go because i knew i could get someone better. try to find the strength to let it go and find someone better. hope this all works out!
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Q: I don't know if I'm the only one who has this problem or what, but if someone does or knows how to help it, please reply!
Like, I have a pretty flat stomach, but it's like, after I eat, it sticks out and it's noticeable (at least to me, I suck it in around people) but it's like I'll wake up in the morning and it looks great but after I eat anything it's way bloated. I was wondering if anyone knew any exersises I could do or any tips to help stop that. Thanks!
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sry to say theres nothing really that helps that. i get it too, its just after eating and your full of fresh food so yeah ur stomach pokeso out. but no one really notices that so dont even worry about it. i love how my stomach looks in the morning though because you havent eaten anything in awhile so it looks really flat and good. tips: id just say if you're really conscience about it just suck it in...but no one really notices so its kinda hard to say. just do crunches to keep your stomach flat all the time. hope this helps!
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Q: ok, well i am 13, 5'4" and i weigh 123lbs.Is that ok, cause my sister is 16, the same height, and 110 lbs. am i over weight???
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umm....not giving away anything but im basically the same as you. pretty much identical...ive asked this question about myself a lot too. everyone says im not overweight. and seriously that is not overweight at all. you dont want to be a stick. that is perfect weight and dnot think about losing weight...dont worry aobut it. your only 13! just keep doin what ur doin. hope this all is helpful!
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Q: How do I make a picture black && white? I tryed it on paint but it turns completly black. Thanks!
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i have a kodak program that does it with my pictures, but you cant just use pain i dont think. i think you need a professional or picture program that can edit your pictures. hopefully this helps!
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Q: I am not big AT ALL, I am very little and I am NOT bragging. I am 13 years old and I'm female, guys don't really want to go out with me because I'm so thin. how do I got more meat on my bones faster than a few mounths or weeks?
P.S. I am 65 pounds.
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well first of all im not sure how tall you are so your weight could be normal if your really short, or you could just be naturally really really skinny. i know ur not anorexic or what other people said cus u obviously want to gain weight. the fastest way to put on weight is to definetly start working out, not to burn calories, but to put on muscle which will make you appear more "meaty", and will put on more weight than fat and will make you look better than if you gained that weight in fat. also in the food department, still try to eat somewhat healthy, dont overstock on the sweets, but do eat lots of good carbs and protein which is still healthy but will put on weight that isnt bad. hope this all works out!
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Q: I know this may sound weird, but i'm a girl, and i like hanging out with boys more than I do girls. It just seems that theres always awkward silences and I don't know what to say with girls. With boys, I can just act like myself and whats on my mind around them. Its not that im not friends with girls, i actually do have alot. but its more fun with boys. should I try to hang out with my own sex more or is this ok?? I feel a little weird and different thats all.
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no thts normal. everyone likes boys. sometimes i feel that guys understand me more than girls. it just depends on the situation. you have friends that are girls too so its not like you only become friends with guys. so nothing to worry about. sometimes guys can just relate to you more than girls can, and sometimes girls can just be stupid and not relate to other girls. (i am a girl, sry for admitting girls can be stupid)so to sum it up, its all good-nothing to worry about!
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Q: I wish i had best friends but i dont. I want to be friends with certain people but i dont know how to fit into heir group.
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um....yeah as long as you have friends dont worry about best friends. i mean some groups are just equally good of friends with everyone. you dont need 1 or 2 "best friends." dont change yourself to fit in with the certain people's group cus theyre jsut gonna like the someone you changed yourself into for them to like instead of actually liking you for you. just act yourself and people will appreciate you for you. its better to act yourself and have one true friend than change yourself and have no one liking the actual true you. sorry if that whole thing sounded mean (didnt mean it to be) but i did that whole thing cus i was in like 2 to most popular group and i wanted to be in the popular group and i just tried hard and when i really got to know all them, some of them i really became good friends with, but others werent worth my effort in trying to be friends with them. i hope this all helped you. sry cus its long. but hope everything works out for the best!
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Q: Well i broke up with my bf after we dated for 7 months i felt like i wanted to experience more things so i broke up with him.. and now im dating him again and i dunno if i rly love him in my heart i see us starting a family together but i kinda feel like i want some1 new but im not for sure.. wat should i do??
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im not sure if this is the most brilliant answer or the best, but this is what i would do. i would ask the guy if you can have a break because you want to explore your options. make sure to explain its not completely splitting up, because your just not sure if hes totally the right one. what your doing would just be confirming that if you kiss another guy, and its not the same as kissing him, its dull and isnt his kiss, it means that you really do like ur bf and he probably is the right one for you. since in your heart your not sure, hopefully he would understand that and give you a break. its not right to think about starting a family with someone who youre not sure if you want or have doubts. i really hope the best for you and hope everything goes well.
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Q: Hi my name is Bill. Im 15 and I currently attend a christian church. As a baby my parents werent married, my mom ran away, my dad couldnt afford a baby soo he left me with his parents. I grew up with my grandparents till right before my 15th b-day when my grandma died from carcinoid cancer. after that i weant to live with my dad. instead of being distanced from God I feel closer. my pastor said im the strongest person he's met. what does he mean by that? by the way i want to go to olivet collage and become a youth pastor myself.
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awwww ur soo sweet. i wish the world had some more good guys like you. the pastor means that you have a great personality and are close to god. also that he just feels close to you and he really thinks highly of you. you really are a great person to go through all that. i hope the best for you in life and i hope you go far. by the way...im christian myself and its great that you want to become a youth pastor. i think thts awesome.just keep doin what ur doin...yeah leave me a message.
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Q: Is there some kind of lotion or creme to help me get rid of stretch marks.....I kinda of grew alot and have them so....Can I get rid of them....I've also heard that Shea butter helps....Does it?
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yeah shea butter, or cocoa butter. go to a drug store and get some of that stuff and apply it night and day, the more times the better. also just try massaging that area and it will help loosen up the skin already so you wont get more. hope it works!
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Q: what do i tell to adoctor who wants to look down there? even females make me feel self consious. I will not let them touch me or look me down there or take my shirt off. Please help me i want to tell them not to but how. Is there any other way that they can see if im healthy! Im scared out of my mind.
Im sooooooooo scared that i feel dizzy. I cant go through this. I will rate really high to any 1!!
thanks 8 (
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i know, i hate that too. it really sucks. but theyre not trying to do that cus there a perv, just cus they need to make sure your healthy. if they want to do a full exam down there just tell them i really dont feel comfortable. and since your dizzy cus your just soo nervous, just try to calm down and think about how it will be over soon. there really is no other way to see that your healthy! sry to say. ask them if they absolutely need to check up/down to not have to take your shirt/shorts off, but just go up the shirt/down the shorts. sry...i know it sucks. hope it goes well!
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Q: OK..I ALWAYS go to bed late. If I try to go to bed early, i still don't go to bed until about
3-4AM. I've tried not to stay on the computer and tried to clear my mind and everything and i still cant sleep. After that i have a tendancy to wake up a tiny bit late (10-11 AM)..And i mean a couple times i may get to bed if I'm lucky around 1AM..i dont know what to do and my mom just thinks that i stay up on purpose so she doesnt wanna help me..what do you thinks wrong?? is there anything to prevent this from happening anymore?? thanks!!!
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its summer. i do the exact same thing, and i had to go to a camp so i had to be put on a schedule before i went. so what i had to do was wake up at 7AM! and not take a nap the whole day and you will get really really tired so your body will be ready to go to bed earlier that night. so i did that for a week and just wake up early and go to bed around 10 every night. i meditate while in bed- (clears your head and bores you so you go to sleep). also if your desperate go to a drugstore and ask for over the counter sleeping aids.hope your sleeping deal works out!
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Q: i get these really bad tension headaches almost every day. they just come on at any time of the day and they're mostly always in my temples or the back of my head. my jaw gets really stiff and clenched up. sometimes they get so bad i have to vomit (which always makes the headache almost immediately go away). are there any sort of special muscle relaxant medications i should take? any relaxation excercises i could do? please help. these headaches interfere with my everyday life. i can hardly function when i have them.
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since you can barely function with them. go to a doctor. i had that happen i think 2 summers ago where everyday i couldnt think, i was about to burst into tears because i had horrible headaches. so i went to a doctor, got a CT scan just to amke sure everything was normal. then i got really really strong medicine (dont wana say the name just in case idk why) and those "knocked" out the headaches and i still get normal ones but not as bad as i used to have. so try going to a doctor and ask for medicine. hope you feel better!
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hey im here for anyone who wants good advice. i love giving advice to people-it comes naturally.i love sports!ive been through a lot so feel free to ask me anything.i love guys! i love hanging out with friends, shopping,reading, playing sports,and just being me. much love.
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