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Hey! I'm Anneke! I am brutally honest and always say whats on my mind.I guess you could call me a Typical Teen, since I'm always mad at my parents or embarrassed by them for some reason or another..

Ask me anything, & I'll give you my best possible answer.

Oh! & sometimes I can be silly! =]
Gender: Female
Location: Georgia
Age: 13
AIM: on ehh kaa
Member Since: March 22, 2006
Answers: 11
Last Update: June 8, 2007
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ok , sometimes out of no where i'll get pains in random places. Sometimes i'll get little pains on the inner part of my arms and they feel like i'm getting a shot. They only last for a couple of minutes. the past couple of day's i've been having pains on the top of my thumb , and i look and there isn't no scratch or anything. I get pains sometimes when i breath in and they hurt so bad. I get them mostly in my arms and my neck and stuff is this normal ? Nobody else i know have these problems. :/

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go to the doctor.
DUHHH!


First off before you start reading this , i DON'T want anyone to write me telling me how bad Marijuana is. This is a serious problem to me and by you telling me how much you disagree with weed , is not going to make my situation better.

I've been smoking for about a year and half.
[weed].
I don't smoke cigs though.
When i get done smoking weed , i get really bad pains in the back of my head and sometimes on the top. Sometimes it feels like my brain is jumping up and down inside of my skull. Now i know weed isn't good for your brain and such but are these pains normal? sometimes they really almost make me cry. My brain doesn't always hurt but it's been hurting lately and i was wondering what could be the cause and how to fix it ?

Should i stop smoking for a while ?

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stop smoking weed and the smoking weed pains will stop.
DUHHHH!


ok there are these shoes called crocs I think. they are those plastic type shoes that are like 8 dollars at walmart. people have told me they are comfy but i dont see it ... they are hard plastic basically. Are they really comfy? will they help me if im on my feet say, 9 or so hours a day? (link)
Why don't you try them on, dummy?
No one else can tell you whats comfortable for you feet! DUHHH!


ok heres the deal i was going out with this kid about a year ago and we ended up breaking up because i caught him with another girl but i dont care any more he is definately out of my system but afyer we broke up he started getting really close with my cousin it botherd me at first but now i dont care .... she ends up telling him that she loves him and he has a girl friend and hes telling her to just wait for him and basically saying that when i get tired of my girl i'll move on 2 you ... so then he ends up asking her out while he has a girl and when she tells me he did she said she wants to so bad but she wont and making it all my fault. the thing is i really dont care about him but thats my cousin and you just dont do that 2 your family . should i be mad at her if she went out with him? (link)
You shouldn't be mad at her for wanting to go out with him. You should be mad at her for going out with him while he already has a girlfriend. Tel her how you feel about the situation. it will be hard but worth it. She is your cousin and loves you; i'm sure your opinion will mean something to her.


I absolutely love to read. Can anyone give me lots of great teen books (novels are great!) that you absolutely loved...Most likely if a lot of people have read it, ive read it too. so think of some good ones that not many have read. some examples of my faves are Looking For Alaska, and Hard Love. Just looking for some more options!Thanks a bunch.
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Some of my favorites are "The face on the Milk Carton" series by Caroline Cooney & the "Uglies" Series by Scott Westerfeld. Hope I helped!

Anneke x33


I've known this girl since kindergarden and we used to be really tight. Now, im 13 and she has horrible personal hygene,spits when she talks, and yet I still think she is a genuinely sweet person. She is sometimes really mean to me and says I'm fat or that im a big and I eat too much. Yet, she is practiccally emaciated and barely eats anything. I'm embarassed to be in public with her. I know that when you are "friends" with someone you should NEVER EVER be embarassed of them, but why do i feel this way? I've talked to her about her hygene but she thinks everything is fine and that her 5 inch long nails are "pretty". I've also told her that It hurts me to tell me im fat because well im 4.11 and im 90 pounds :-\. She has no friends and her family is taking me on a cruise for spring break. I feel like the reason im staying friends with her is because of the cruise.

What is wrong with me im not a mean person!! (link)
First of all, I have a friend thats about your height. & In personal fitness class one day, the coach said she was under weight and needed to be 90pounds. SO DON'T WORRY! Your "friend" might just be jealous.

2nd of all, I think you should either work things out with her or not be her friend. If she embarrasses you, why?! I deffinatly can't help with that situattion if you don't tell me why.

Please leave a message on my page! I'll try to help you out some more!

Anneke x33



Hi. I'm female (obviously) and I'm 16 years old.

I think I might have a yeast infection, but what are the symptonms, and could it possibly be something else?

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My cousin & her Daughter both go a yeast infection, & I'll let you know, the didn't go through anything truley serious. You could tell the both had it because part of their lips became white. They both recoverd quickly, it was just a matter of letting it heal on its own.

Hope I helped!

Anneke x33


What is a good snack but is healthy at the same time? Recipes please!

~TurrrrrrtleMolly (link)
One of my favorite snacks is Healthy Strawberries in not-so-Healthy Sugar!


i keep falling asleep in his class. i'm a junior and have the most dreadful class of american history. he's a great guy, don't get me wrong, but the class feels like it lasts 2 hours...and i keep falling asleep halfway into it. i try to stay awake and still take notes, but half a sentence into writing i suddenly wake up and find that i have only scribbled every other letter together into a giant mush.

he mostly talks, and his notes on the screen are just for reference (very little), so you have to pay attention if you want to know what something means. any advice? what would be the best way to take notes on his speech: outline, bullet, sentence, etc. thanks in advance. (link)
First of all, This happened to my cousin & it turned out she had a mild-sort-of Narcolepsie.

Second of all, If its not something as serious as above, bullets are the best way for me to take notes!

Hope I helped!

Anneke x33


Someone who sits next to me in one of my classes ONLY talks about herself. ALWAYS! She'll ask how I am and stuff, and even if I say "Not so good.." she'll say "Oh my gosh! I was crying all last night because Andrew (bf) said he can't trust me and idk what to do." It annoys me so much. And it's all dramatic stuff. One day she's bragging about her huge basket of valentine candy and the next she has red eyes from crying all night.

She came in class one day and said "Omg someone told me to leave and I asked why and they said because I always bring drama to the group and I don't!" How do I deal with this? (link)
Wow. She is one Brat. The only thing I can think of to tell you is that you need to ignore her. When she asks "how are you?!" or whatever, I would simply say good. & then I would Put no attention on here what-so-ever. If she sees that you could really care less about her problems when you've got your own, I think she would get the picture and stop talking to you about it.

I hope I helped!

Anneke x33


I think i might have ocd...cuz like weird things happen to me like i was sitting in my room and i coodnt concentrate on anything but washing me hands...i started shaking and i got dizzy until i washed them and this morning i was getting my deoderant out and something in my cupboard fell over and i closed the door.....i walked away but all i cood think of was fixing it and it started to drive me crazy and i had 2 fix it and like it happens all the time (link)
I'm pretty sure that if thats all thats happened, your fine.I'e done that plenty of times where I HAD to fix someting just because it was bugging me and didn't look right. If these feelings related to OCD keep occuring, I would deffinatly suggest going to someone about it. Like a doctor or a parent. Even your school nurse!

Hope I helped,
Anneke




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