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should i be madd at her ok heres the deal i was going out with this kid about a year ago and we ended up breaking up because i caught him with another girl but i dont care any more he is definately out of my system but afyer we broke up he started getting really close with my cousin it botherd me at first but now i dont care .... she ends up telling him that she loves him and he has a girl friend and hes telling her to just wait for him and basically saying that when i get tired of my girl i'll move on 2 you ... so then he ends up asking her out while he has a girl and when she tells me he did she said she wants to so bad but she wont and making it all my fault. the thing is i really dont care about him but thats my cousin and you just dont do that 2 your family . should i be mad at her if she went out with him?
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You shouldn't be mad at her for wanting to go out with him. You should be mad at her for going out with him while he already has a girlfriend. Tel her how you feel about the situation. it will be hard but worth it. She is your cousin and loves you; i'm sure your opinion will mean something to her. ]
Well, you really are the only one to decide if you should be mad or not. If you're mad, that's completely understandable. If you're not, you're not. You shouldn't force yourself to be mad. Yes, it is a pretty shallow thing to do. Your cousin should know that any ex's are still ex's & you did date him once. If he's dating your cousin, you'll have to see him more often. Talk to her about it. The relationship you guys have is way more important than the relationship with him. Guys come & go & plus he has a girlfriend.
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well idk because thats bad to a family member to date your ex and i don't want her to get her feelings hurt because you know hes gonna dump her for someone else anyday but i think you shouldn't get mad at her i think you should talk it over with her ]
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