what do i tell to adoctor who wants to look down there? even females make me feel self consious. I will not let them touch me or look me down there or take my shirt off. Please help me i want to tell them not to but how. Is there any other way that they can see if im healthy! Im scared out of my mind.
Im sooooooooo scared that i feel dizzy. I cant go through this. I will rate really high to any 1!!
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[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Health & Fitness category? Maybe give some free advice about: Health? beachhun101 answered Monday July 11 2005, 4:47 pm: i know, i hate that too. it really sucks. but theyre not trying to do that cus there a perv, just cus they need to make sure your healthy. if they want to do a full exam down there just tell them i really dont feel comfortable. and since your dizzy cus your just soo nervous, just try to calm down and think about how it will be over soon. there really is no other way to see that your healthy! sry to say. ask them if they absolutely need to check up/down to not have to take your shirt/shorts off, but just go up the shirt/down the shorts. sry...i know it sucks. hope it goes well! [ beachhun101's advice column | Ask beachhun101 A Question ]
karenR answered Friday July 8 2005, 9:25 am: There are some tests that can be done no other way I'm afraid. They aren't pleasant but have to be done. The doctor will always have a nurse in the room with you. Should anyway, if not demand one. You of course have the right to refuse any treatment you don't want. You simply say so. They cannot touch you without permission. They are not perverts however (lol). If you ever want birth control, or to have babies though the doctor will have to look first! :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
Sammerz619 answered Thursday July 7 2005, 2:56 pm: Well next time you go to the doctor bring your mom in the room with you and while your waiting for the doctor, tell your mom that you really dont want them looking at you there. Because if you say something they will just keep going because they think you dont really mean it. But if your mom says something then they have to stop.Really. Plus just remember they r doctors and they cannot judge you and they do the same thing to everyone. I kno it feels creepy and you feel exposed, but its still there job. Well i hope i helped! Sammerz [ Sammerz619's advice column | Ask Sammerz619 A Question ]
moliciousxo answered Thursday July 7 2005, 2:18 pm: If you don't feel comfortable telling the doctor then you should tell your mom or some one who will tlak to the doctor instead of you. I don't think there is any other way but i'm not quite sure. I hope I helped.
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M_to_the_E_to_the_L answered Thursday July 7 2005, 11:12 am: You just have to get into thte mind set that they are there to help you. They see down there numberous times throughout the day so they aren't going to judge you or go tell there doctor friends abotu you. They just need to make sure you are healthy. Telling them not to go there is liek telling your mechanic not to look under the hood. [ M_to_the_E_to_the_L's advice column | Ask M_to_the_E_to_the_L A Question ]
blue_eyed_beuty answered Wednesday July 6 2005, 6:28 pm: calm down! doctors dont talk about yur boobs or nething else when u leave! they keep it all to themselves cause they dont care! its theyre job. doctors are not PERVES! wut the hec i sup with that? come ON! it is theyre job! but if youre not comfortable ask! it never hurts to ask! just say "um do you think i could keep my clothes on please?" i kno if i asked my doctor that, shed say its fine! so take a DEEP breath! ((a couple of em)) nd practice taking off yur clothes in front of yur friends to make it easier! NO IM KIDDING!!! dont do that :-/ lolz. ok well hope i helped!
khicachic07 answered Wednesday July 6 2005, 5:00 pm: you shouldn't let anybody look at you any where with out clothes on even if the doctor if female it's not right not even for you parents if your parents tell them its ok to look it your body if you feel unconf. them straight out they need to know they need to respect you and your personal space
WTF answered Wednesday July 6 2005, 4:41 pm: just dont go to the doctor, they have to do crap like that for a physical or whatever reason youre going. [ WTF's advice column | Ask WTF A Question ]
soccerplayer5674 answered Wednesday July 6 2005, 4:40 pm: Doctors arent pervs like what it says up top ok? They are just there to help you and your not alone they have to do that to anyone and there isnt another way to see if your healthy in those areas, its really nothing to be worried about, you can go through with it, and see if your mom or dad or whoever can come in the room if your that nervous bc then they really can't do anything ok? Hope I helped! [ soccerplayer5674's advice column | Ask soccerplayer5674 A Question ]
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