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im going to sleep over my friends house today..but the thing is i havent seen her in a yr and we were really friends b4 but weve been talking on the internet alot, the problem isnt lik im scared shes a creep its just that im scared it will be awkward! i can get really shy sometimes and the number 1 thing i hate is awkward silences!! is there any thing to do to make sure we'll both have fun???
p.s. i sweat alot too so is there anything i can do for that?
-awkward
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Well if you talk to her on the internet and you talk to her today ask her what she likes to do to past time and kinda plan what your going to do. If not call her house and have a conversation with her and maybe you can get an idea from that (tell her that you dont like awkward silence and she cal tell you what she doesn't like).
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I dont know what to do about the swaeting thing sorry =(.
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awkward;;
well ii`ve come to notice that if you talk about your life like your friendsz and your love life and stuff that people never get bored;; tell storiesz about thingsz that you`ve done since you`ve last seen her just keep the talk interesting;; buht don`t talk TOO much. you can alwaysz talk about music for example: "have you heard the new song by Keith Urban?" "do you like it?" stuff like. and for your sweating problem.. well just try different deoderantsz and make sure it isz an antipersperant also and find the wun that worksz best for you. =)
hope ii helped!! ...Am
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Try playing video games or watching a movie. Go to the mall, or go bowling. If you both do something together, you'll have something to talk about. If you start to feel embarassed, remember that this is your friend-- she's not going to make fun of you, or anything. Be stupid, or be crazy... she'll most likely do the same, and you both will have a really.. interesting.. time.
As for the sweating thing, use a strong deoderant. Try using baby powder on your skin.
Inbox me if you need anything else.
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Well, I think you and your friend should try to stay busy. Play games and watch movies and make casual comments about it if you're real shy. Or you can reflect on old memories the two of you had. Or ask each other questions about each others life, like whats going on in it. Good luck!
P.S. for the sweating thing- take a shower the night before, wear deoderant but look for an antiperspirant & deoderant because antiperspirants actually stop you from sweating in the first place, deoderants just make you smell good. Try Teen Spirit Stick!
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Aw, lol. Well just like bring up old memories or something you both know about, and it will be WAY easier to talk, and eventually you'll both start laughing which will break all the tension/awkwardness in the room. Lol, you used to be good friends, so it should come natural when you get back together. You'll have a good time, just like agree on a movie and such and talk.
BTW - The sweating thing, I suggest getting a deodarant thats antiperspirant. Such as Dove, and Secret, too excellent deodarants, and if you jsut relax you won't sweat as much. Most if from stress, actually, so just like chill and you should be fine!
Hope you have funn! :)
♥ J
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Well i think you guys should try talking about something you both like(TV shows, movies, ice cream, anything)If anything gets awkward try to think of something you guys did a year ago. Its always fun to bring up old memories.Well i hope i helped!Sammerz
ps. the sweat thing...try new deodorant
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Just be calm when you walk in and don't make yourself feel uncomfortable just be calm and theres this game you guyz can play called confess or stress kind of like truth or dare♥
HERES HOW U PLAY♥
1.you will need two dice if you roll an even # you confess somthin embarassing
2.if you roll an odd # you have to do somthin stressful ♥ thats all i can think of hope i helped Bye♥
P.S If you are that worried about sweating then bring some deoderant :-)♥lol...
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ok yeah awkwardness sux..well i think to eliminate akwardness you should be outgoing and fun! like suggest to
-make prank phone calls..maybe even video tape them...me and my friends did that..tons of fun
-suggest playing slip n slide, twister, video games,
-play spider..its a fun game if there is a big room...when its dark one person is blindfolded and waits outside the room..the others hide and dojnt let the other person tag them..its funny to watch them bump into things
-go online and have funny convos with strangers
-take funny pics
-dress up
-talk about your friends..funny stories...gossip..etc. she can fill you in on hers too
-play the either or game..me and my friend jes love this game lol
"would you rather have sex with ____ or ___ "lol its fun
-dance to music
about the sweating part sorry...ok try using babypowder where you sweat after you get out of the shower..drink water to help cool you down..sweating stinks but we all do it
have fun!
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