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lost and confused
ok i have this g/f and i really care for her and i even love her but i dont think she understands exactly how much i care she is always flirtin with other boys and she gots mad at me all the time and i dont kno wat to do she says she really cares for me too and at times she shows it but at other times i fill like im not even datin her i have tried to tell her and talk to her but then she gits mad at me...please help me
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if shes not giving her time in the relationship, you shouldnt be wasting your time. i know you love her and its basically impossible to give up a really good relationship. but you hve to realize that you deserve better than her, and she doesnt deserve your love. i wish guys were more committed in relationships like you are. she should NOT be flirting with other guys, and when you try to tell her that she should listen and really try not to flirt. i really hope you work out this situation and hopefully it will all go well. please tell me how it goes! <3hey...yeah u responded back. i dont have yahoo but if you have an advicenators column-can u give me that? cus then i can leave stuff in your inbox...so yeah just respond back! thanks...
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let her know how much you care.talk to her about it but dont be demanding or anything. just let her know that BOTH OF YOU have been sort of growing apart and that you guys need to get together and do something, like go out on a date, or stay at home and cuddle up to watch movies, either way. trust me i've been in the GIRLS part of the story. all i needed was for someone to confront me, and yes i did get mad at first, but i liked this guy, and i relized you know maybe i just need to look at it in his point of view. jut try a night or day out together.
hope i helped
x0x0 vanna =)
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ok thats really hard for you.. i dont think she understands i am sure she really cares about you but she dosent understand what she is supposed to do. maybe she feels confused and she dosent want to talk about it so she lets it out. Try to set her down and talk to her calmly just say something like "listen i really feel uncomferable when you talk to other boys like when you flirt maybe you dont notice but i do" and she shud understand...
&` good luckkk i hope i helped!!
-haley-
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You should go do something with her that she really loves to do even if it costs money because it will be worth it to find out how she feels about you..after you do that thing sit down with her somewhere and hold her hands and and make sure you look into her eyes when you talk to her..not her mouth not her boobs..her eyes and say i dont think you realize it but i love you and care about you so much..now do you feel the sam eabout me because at times its like you dont even kno im there! i've never felt this way before about anyone and it hurts to see you flirting with other guys when you say you care about me! that shud work but lemme clear this up...plz tell me you're the type that gets jealous when she talks to a guy because that isnt flirting its just talking so before you do this ask yourself that question...hope i helped x0x *Caitie*
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well first of all im sure she cares for you. but the whole flirting with other guys jsut might her personality. like some people are jsut really freindly. im sure if you sit her down and make sure that she understands that it hurts you that she will stop.
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Aww sweetii..You need to tell her it hurtz when she flirtz wit otha guyz.if she does care about you she wouldnt be flirtin wit otha guyz.if she does get mad at you mabey itz cuz mabey shez trin to play you.if she cared she wouldnt get mad for your opion..tell me how it goes
good luck i hope i helped
megz
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Hmm tough situation.. and probably something that you need to decide you'reself cuz none of will know you personally. But you need to have a talk with you're gf about how you feel. And tell her you dont like how she always flirts with other guys. And if she refuses to listen to something that is important to you, then im sorry but she has to go. Its best for you & her. End it now before you get to serious. I hope i helped. Let me know<33
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wow, thats not good. ok you need to have a SERIOUS talk with her. say something like....listen i really like you and i care alot about you, but lately youve been acting like your interested in other guys. i hope i helped out. ♥ cookierat123
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hey i can't relate with you thats how my last relation ship was just tell her that you really care and you need to know cuase other words your just waisting your short life with her
hope i helped
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well.. all i can rlly tell you.. is that ur gf has some connection issues..* you need to find a time where you both can sit and talk about every thing with no interuptions and try not to argue or fight abt every little thing.. i have friends who may be in the same situation as yourself.. and all you can do is try.. follow your heart with watever seems to flow in the rite direction..* if you rlly love her.. and she loves you.. then things will go through in the rite direction.. just follow wat you feel is rite and trust in urself! do wat you wanna do! follow your heart! hope i helped you out!! ~the butterfly chick!
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