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Due to assholes on the site and people who have no idea what the hell they are talking about I have left the site. Ahem, Dangernerd...Who likes to make assumptions about people when they do not know them ;) Then has brass balls to go search up whatever information he can gather so he has back fire to use whenever he feels like starting a little hissy fit. Let me remind those who read this, Dangernerd has a nasty tendency of using what you post on the site against you if you where to ever have a problem with someone on the site. Mind you, He likes to gather false information in a way that he thinks will benefit him in the long run. This site is run by someone who doesn't have class, Who likes to pigeon hole people. The same guy who supposedly is running an "ADVICE" column but somehow has pre-teens asking about sex and how to do sexual things to their "partners" this site is also filled with people giving advice that is NOT helpful or use full in any form rather than most encouraging the young ones. Well lets get to the bottom of it, This site is a laughing matter. Dangernerd is a joke and couldn't be a bigger clown ;)
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ok i always talk about how i want kids right now.. and im 17 female and my bf is going to be 18. he told me at least wait til im 18 so our parents cant tell us anything cause they already tell us stuff and were both still virgins! so they just act stupid! well anyways i have a baby brother that is going to be 4 in december..everytime he is around when my boyfriend is wich is like every single time! my boyfriend gives him like 98% of his time and attention wile i only get like 2%. it super sucks and ive already tried talking to him abotu it. and he says well hes a kid he needs attention too!
well when my baby brother is with me and were by ourselves hes all nice and loving and cute! then once he gets with me and my boyfriend of almost 11 months then hes all mean to me and stays in his arms the entire time! and he bees mean to me so i be mean back then my bf starts telling me crap. well he never fails to mention.. "and u want kids? you cant even handle your own baby brother" and i say well its cause hes my brother! its suposed to be like that. any other kid i can. he doesnt believe me. but when i try to be nice and sweet to my baby brother to show him my baby brother keeps acting up with me. so its super hard. what can i do to prove to him i can handle kids. i want them id be a good mom, and i want to live my life with him and our future kids?! someone please help me.
It's not just about wanting kids and being able to handle the pressure.
You are 17 years old, Even 18 is still way to young to even be thinking of having a child. A child should have parents who have a strong steady go, A providing home and the income is enough to support that child and by that means a full time job that doesn't pay minimum wage. A child needs a doctor, food, crib, clothes, and a whole lot more. Imagine having a good couple hundred dollars and just ripping them in half in just a weeks time. Formula alone these days are NOT cheap and depending on what brand you buy diapers cost a good 18-20 bucks. No matter what kind of child you have someday it will not be easy. Every woman experiences a loss at one point in their lives were they feel the need to have a child and this feeling often comes at a young age, This is were many people get themselves when they are not ready for it. I suggest spending time with someone who has children and by that two, three kids..and see if you still want a child. It is much more than cuteness, having a child is not a puppy. Do I think you would be a good Mom? No, not right now but in the future sure I don't see why not.
so i have this short part of a song stuck in my head and i cant figure out what songs its from.
its like "na na na na , na na na na na, na na na na na. " and repeats. cant really explain . kinda an upbeat song. pleasee help!
I'm going to take a wild guess at this...
There is a song called "Manamana" that was sung by the muppets
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hTkGXuiT55w&feature=related
Maybe it is an oldies song you are talking about?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jsaTElBljOE
I got a text from my girlfriend last night saying that her parents are making us break up because they found out that I touched her in innapropriate places. She is only fifteen and I am eighteen. I need to know what to do to. I don't want us to break up but her parents can get me in a lot of trouble if I don't obey their wishes. If I could have a second chance, I wouldn't touch her anywhere. Right now, I just think I need someone to talk to. I have had suicidal thoughts and that's not normal for me and I don't like it. Please please tell me what I can do!
I agree with the first person
Right now your only option is to respect the parents wishes. She is a minor, You are the adult.
At the age of 18, Dating a minor is not only illegal but you are taking a risk of being caught. Right now you need to ride it out. Killing yourself is not the answer, Not only will you hurt the ones you love but life is no more and you can't take it back. You are 18, There will be many more woman that you will date in your time. Right now I think your best bet is to stay single for awhile and when you are ready to date again look for woman of age. I'm not going to sugarcoat but you need to except what you did was wrong and forget the second chance with her. If her parents are trying to break you two up now than second chance doesn't look like an option.
21/f and he's like 23 or 24...
Okay I was talking this guy named jose back in june of 2009. He found me on a website and the conversations were good. I was actually interested in him and vice-versa. He always complemented me and told me all the sweet things I don't hear so much. So I allowed him to talk to my friend samantha because I wanted her to see if she thought he was a good guy for me. HOWEVER, he was sitten here telling her the same things he was telling me. So I busted him we he tried to jump stupid with me (and that was about meeting up with him cause I'm not to fond about meeting up with people I don't really know). So he felt like crap and pleaded to me that I am the only one he wants and blah blah. He admitted to his mistake and apologized for it. Then I randomly messaged him in August of 2009. We started talking again, and it was like the connection was stronger than before. So I finally decided to meet up with him. He was nice and all, but he kept touching me (and it was irritating me), then he wanted to make out like every 5 seconds (and that irritated me too), not to mention that I wasn't even attracted to him in person. He just pretty much smothered me and I felt like he was rushing things which was not what I wanted. Anyhow, shortly thereafter, I stopped talking to him again....
Now he found me again on his phone. And I figured what's wrong with being friends with him, so we ended up talking on the phone for like 2 hours! (Mind you, I HATE talking on the phone).... he kept telling me to let him prove to me that he is a good man and he want's to cook for me and start things off fresh again. He told me that I am the most wonderful girl that he's ever talked to because other females are not on my "level".
I simply just live for success. Failure to me is not an option so I am very pro education. I'm in school, work at a school, and studying to be a teacher.
Anyhow, I am trying to figure out why God has put him back into my life. Don't get me wrong, his personality is what I perfer but I am kinda not attracted to him. I mean is attraction important? I'm not fine but not ugly either (So idk what he sees). Should I talk to him again and see where it goes? I seriously have my guard up because I've been single for 3 years and have been used for sex by guys that I thought LIKED me. I'll be honest when I say I am sick of it and my heart has turned black. I TRUST NO MAN. But as other person sometimes it get's lonely. So I was wondering try again or move around? Thanks for your help as it is GREATLY GREATLY APPRECIATED!!!
Sounds like the guy is all for sex, Some guys are funny like that. You mentioned you've met the guy off the internet this makes me ask how well do you really know this guy?
1. You weren't attracted to him
2. He had already raised a red flag by flirting with your friend
3. If he really was into you he would probably respect you enough to slow things down instead of trying to get in your pants.
Sometimes guys who are desperate to get something out of girls will do just about anything and say just about anything to accomplish their goal. Obviously the guy is a sweet talker, Doesn't sound trustworthy, All for sex and maybe somewhat of a stalker? I think you sound much smarter than that. Move on
18, Female
I have a job interview this Tuesday at Rue 21 (a clothing store). Subway is the only other job I have ever had, and I was related to the manager, so getting the job wasn't an issue. The problem now is I have no idea what to expect at my interview.
I am really stressing out, because I have been putting in job applications for the past six months, and this is the first call back I have received. I don't want to blow this. What should I expect? What questions will be asked? How early should I arrive? What should I wear? I definitely don't want to be underdressed, but I also don't want to look stupid by getting all dolled up.
Help?!
Tips for an interview:
Make sure you look good (Clean clothes) nothing baggy, ripped, short, or too revealing.
You should always arrive at least 15 minutes early (Gives a good impression)
Try not to act overly nervous, Stay calm
More than likely you will be asked..
"Why do you want to work at the store"
"What didn't you like about your last job"
"What did you like about your last job"
my boyfriend and i were laying in bed together, and i gave him a handjob. he didn't ejaculate, but he almost did.. soon after, i was laying in the same spot where he was with no underwear or anything. also, he fingered me after. i've heard of something called "pre-cum" and how it could get you pregnant, so is it possible that he could have "pre-came" and it could have gotten on me from the sheets or his fingers, and i could have gotten pregnant?
You should be fine, If he was inside you without a condom than I'd start to worry.
so i was with this kid for a year. then he went to college and we broke up shortly after, basically because he wanted to be single but he said it was cause i deserved better. we tlked for a little while after we broke up but eventually i told him it was too much and i just needed to stop talking to him for a little while so that i could get over him and be ok on my own. he asked to get back together the other night but said that if we get back together i have to deal with the fact that when he goes out and parties girls are gonna dance on him and grind on him and its just the way it has to be. so i said no and said i dont deserve that and didnt go back to him. so its been a few days and im a complete wreck. its now been two months sense we broke up and i cant get over him. i dont know what to do. no matter what i do, i cant get over him, i cut him out of my life, and i still cried myself to sleep about it every night, and i still missed him everyday. i dont know what to do. i want to get over him, and i want to stop loving him, everyone says it just takes time but its been two months.. i just want it to stop hurting.... help me please.. :(
Healing is time, It doesn't happen overnight. Despite how long we have been with someone everyone heals at there own pace and we all grieve in our own ways. Two months has passed it's good you've cut contact but now it's time to move on to the next healing process which is focusing on yourself. Spend time with friends and family and keeping yourself occupied. You have a life to live, There will be many more guys that will come along but right now you need to relax and breathe. Try not to think about it, As hard as that is to do it will only cause you more stress.
my guy friend who ive dated a few times and broke up with long complicated stuff, but today he had to leave and he was like bye squid. what does that mean? lol please help=]
LOL! sorry
I have no idea...but a squid is a fish. I would ask him what he meant by that maybe you misheard him?
Okay, I'm fourteen(female) and I'm a freshman in highschool. So here's the deal. There's this sophomore(male) (almost sixteen) Ive been "talking" to for the past few months, and I realllllly like him. He knows I like him, and he likes me too and I guess you could say we date a little but it's nothing exclusive and we agreed to take it very slow. Well then there is this junior boy... I do not like him, at all. In fact, he creeps me out a little and he's been trying to ask me out lately. He's asked me to go on like three dates and I've said no each time. I've told him everything; that I'm kind of involved with someone else, I'm not interested, my parents won't let me... (all of those things are true by the way. And since I'm like young for my grade, he's like three years older than me) He doesn't seem to get the point. I could just totally bitch him out and turn him down cold but he's like a popular junior guy. Really popular. And if he got mad at me, he could definitely make my life hell... So now I don't know what to do. Oh and by the way, this junior guy only wants "to f*** me" as he's basically told me... So what should I do about the junior and how should I handle the sophomore who is starting to get really jelous and angry... What should I do???
If you like the sophomore than stick with him, The junior on the other hand if he gives you the impression that he is all for sex than your probably right. If he asked you out and you told him no than good for you. If he keeps asking than I would be straight forward about it by saying "I am not interested in you and I have a boyfriend" than walk away. What should you do about it? Move on, Stick with the sophomore and ignore the junior if you two are dating than sooner or later he should get a hint. Ignore it
So I've been talking to this guy for awhile We hang out every weekend.. we both don't hang out or hook up with anyother guys/girls. And I like him alot... but problem.. He denies likeing me and won't date me... He claims that he can't like/date anyone because he got hurt bad in his past, but people that know him says He's never stuck with one girl for this long and usually he'd at least hook up with other people too so I dont know what to do... Oh and worst of all... I lost my virginity to him. What do I do with him ? Hellllllllp ? please & thank you :)
If he denies having interest in you than I wouldn't waste your time waiting for something too happen. If people have said this guy likes to date girls and doesn't stick around for a long period of time well than clearly the guy isn't interested in committing himself to one person. Move on
About 7 months ago I was at my best guy friend's house and we were talking. One thing led to another and I ended up losing my virginity to him that night. I had never messed around with anyone before and so it was a big deal for me. He, on the other hand, had been with a few girls before and had been diagnosed with HIV a couple of years ago. I knew him when he was diagnosed and remember thinking it was really awful. It was pretty devastated at the time.
Anyway, when we had sex we used a condom so I wouldn't get HIV or AIDS and I wouldn't get pregnant. They were normal condoms--nothing ribbed or ultra thin.
Well, over the past few months I've been really sick and it was like I couldn't shake it. I didn't know what was up with me and so I ended up going to the doctor. He couldn't figure out what was wrong right away so they took some blood samples and decided to test for STDs since I had lost my virginity.
My doctor called me this morning and told me I need to come in so they can talk to me about my results. I practically had to beg him to tell me what was going on over the phone. He ended up saying that I needed to come in tomorrow if possible and asked if my partner (the guy I lost my virginity to) had HIV or AIDS. I told him yes but we used a condom and the doctor told me that I had contracted HIV and that I need to come in urgently so they can talk to me about it and figure out their plan of action in treatments.
Obviously I haven't seen my doctor yet and I plan on going on Wednesday to see him (today is Monday) but I can't figure out how I contracted HIV from my best guy friend if we used a condom! I made double sure that the condom didn't break and our sex only lasted like 5 minutes because it did hurt to lose my virginity. I don't get it.
How did I get HIV? We used a condom, it didn't break, and we only had sex ONCE for 5 minutes! What happened?!
Condoms don't always protect you, They could be ripped, expired, it could of broke or you didn't get lucky. If a doctor calls back after doing test than most of the time it is because something went wrong with the test and out of privacy of the patient the doctors are not supposed to give you that sort of information over the phone that is why he/she had asked you to come in person. Five minutes of sex is quick but it doesn't always mean you are safe. You're best option right now is to go and see the doctor in person.
Ok, so I'm a sophmore and there's this guy that i really like, and i think he likes me too. You see he is in three of my class periods but he NEVER sits next to me (thats why i think he might not like me) but he is always looking at me whenever i look up at him. So i think he DOES like me is because of yesterday. During Biology the teacher asked me a question i didnt know and he lipped the answer to me, but i missed read it and got the answer wrong, and he was smirking at me. Then in spanish 2 he was walking towards me like he was going to sit in the empty seat next to me but one of his friends called him over and he frowned and walked away, towards his friends. Then, later on that day, in study hall i was doing my some work on my essay due and looked up, just to think of a word, and saw him staring at me -- smiling. I blushed, errg, and he laughed and i looked down with emberresment. He laughed and looked down, too. I looked back up and he was staring at me smiling, again! So i shot him a confused look. He dropped his smile then turned his head to the side because the door opened, but i didnt look. He turned back to me looking really surprised so i turned and saw a guy with tissue paper hanging out of the backside of his pants and turned back to him. We were looking at each other for ten seconds, stunned, and broke out laughing -- quietly. Then his laugh broke out this surprised me because whenever he talked to me it was always soft and quiet, but this was loud, really loud. Everyone looked at him and he just said "Oh, sorry" (which was also loud) and just looked down. I started laughing harder then snorted -- yikes -- so now everyones eyes were on me, including his, and he started laughing and shaking his head and looked down.
So from this can you tell if he likes me or if he just thinks im a weirdo?
It's pretty obvious the guy likes you, If you feel the same way ask him out
Icaught my dad cheating on my mom almost three years ago. walked down stairs saw him on a web cam with another women.... we stopped talking all summer, i never told my mom, i could never ever let my parents split and ruin my life, i was 15, now im almost 18. we finally kinda have a relationship, i mean.. i guess we talk. it kills me everyday, we hardly saw hi, and i never do anything with him. i caught him on weird chat sites.... all the time. and tonight, i found it again, on yahoo. i found his user name, a reallyy fuckin weird one for him, i luv9999... what the hel am i supposed to do. ive been depressedover this shit, for the fact my dad is a fake, im the only one that knows, and my mom is my best friend and im hiding this from her. its killing me. i go to collehge in a year so i cant wait to get out but to know im leaving her here with him. lately two people my parents knew husbands have been arrested for sexual predators with lil kids. it kills me, what if its that? god what am i supposed to do. i cant handle this, i cant see my family part, and i dont even know
3 years is a long time to cheat on a spouse. I personally think you should have a talk with Mom and let her know what is really going on. As heartbreaking as it will be to you and your mother solid proof is always good to have. Make sure when you talk to Mom you let her know that if she needs support she can talk to you. I know it's hard..but it helps to lean on one another than to fall of a cliff head on...
13 year old boy in melbourne looking for a girl around carnigie or chadstone friedship or more
This is not a dating site...If you are looking for a girlfriend you might want to try a dating site.
alright im a 16 year old female. I am curretnly on a birth control pill for my cramps. I was on my sugar pills this week. Today i went to visit a friend at his house and things got a little more than friendly. I ended up having sex with him, twice It was my first time and it was unprotected. I know it was hugly iresponsable but it was one of those thing that just happend and then later your going oh my god i cant belive that i did that. He did pull out both times but im still worried. I am on my period also. Great combination i know. like I said it just happened. I am worried that he might have gotten me pregnant. I was just wondering what are the chances now?
There is always a chance of pregnancy there is no such things as 100% safe sex. I would take a test but wait a good 2 weeks for a more accurate result. If you don't want pregnancy right now then I advise you to seek some kind of birth control
hey i am 18/f. and im broke! i have no job. i did have one but i quit. i asked if they were hiring again but they aren't. then i got another job but i got fired. Now my mom won't give me any money. i only have a little over $1800 in my bank account. i am worried be cause i know this won't last me a very long time and i need that money for gas. i am interested in working with children, i have started looking for volunteering hours at churches, working with kids, but i noticed churches won't hire you unless you're christian. and daycares won't hire me bec ause i have no experience :( help!!
Some daycares require a license and a BCI check. If you want to work with children right now you might want to do volunteer work to gain experience and look for something on the side in the meantime. Most jobs where you quit will not hire you back because they would rather hire someone who is going to do the job and won't put the workers on the spot. I would save the money you have now as long as you possibly can and start putting in applications everywhere.
How do you get dog crap off of flipflops?
lmao sorry..
You can use gloves, paper towel then wash them down with water
how do you clear any drugs out of your system !!! fast...
Drink tons of water flush it out of your system will it work? MAYBE depending on how soon you take the test.
So my brother showed me this clip and i find it hillarious! but i have no clue what they are talking about. if anyone can give me a full translation or even just a summary of whats going on that would be awsome!
thanks in advance.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y90ONojCc6Q
btw. i was high when i first saw this. and it was great.
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16/f
i've only had two boyfriends, i went out with my ex for 2 and a half years(8th to 10th grade), he moved upstate last year and we remained friends for awhile until we got into a fight and didn't talk for a long time. i was in deep love with him, and use to cry about missing him all the time. all of a sudden we started talking as friends again.. now i'm in 11th grade & have a new boyfriend since last week, i like him & he makes me laugh. I dont understand how i feel though. Like i use to cry about my ex and now when i hear songs that remind me of him i don't anymore? Have i moved on? I can't tell. Yet i still feel like i'm sort of still in love with my ex, i told him how i feel and he said he felt the same way. Maybe i'm just young and naive and dont understand what i'm talking about? HELP PLEASE =/
The truth is we never forget our first. We can move on, Fall in love again and meet someone new but our memories are always there. From the sound of it yes I think you have moved on. You've met someone new you laugh and you like him therefore you have found happiness again.