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Am I in trouble?
my boyfriend and i were laying in bed together, and i gave him a handjob. he didn't ejaculate, but he almost did.. soon after, i was laying in the same spot where he was with no underwear or anything. also, he fingered me after. i've heard of something called "pre-cum" and how it could get you pregnant, so is it possible that he could have "pre-came" and it could have gotten on me from the sheets or his fingers, and i could have gotten pregnant?
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Actually, it is possible. The chances are lower than if he were to actually inset his penis into you (because there would been more pre-ejaculate inside you) but you can still get pregnant by inserting fingers that have sperm on them into your vagina. I'm not kidding. I will explain.
Sperm swim by a little fluttering tail. This means that sperm need a moist environment. The entire goal of the sperm is to reach your egg. That is the ONLY drive they have within them. They know where it is and that they have to swim like hell to get to it. If they land in an environment that isn't moist they will use the fluids they came out with to try to make it to a more moist area. This is how women get pregnant when their partners cum on them. It's also how women get pregnant when they have anal sex--the cum can slide down from one hole and onto the other one! No insertion required.
This means that if a guy ejaculates (cums) ON your vagina you can risk a pregnancy. It doesn't have to be "shot" into you or something like some other Advicenators think, apparently. Moist is moist and swimming is swimming. Your vagina is ONLY 3 to 4 inches long. The environment is perfect conditions for the sperm to swim in--moist and warm.
ONE sperm needs to survive to enter your vagina. That is all it takes to fertilize your one egg. That sperm doesn't care if it's going to take an extra 3 inches to get into your uterus, he's still going to swim like hell to reach your egg. The moistness of the vagina coupled with the warmth can allow him to live longer even, especially if your mucus is fertile (near ovulation, typically).
So, if your partner had moist cum--pre-cum or regular cum--on his fingers and then inserted them into you then you could be pregnant.
Your partner (and you when you do it yourself) should wash his hands before inserting his fingers into you. Fingernails harbor some nasty, nasty things under them. Studies have found HPV strains and herpes. In your case, sperm could have still been alive when he inserted them into you.
Please, be smarter next time.
I can't believe nobody here seems to understand the idea of sperm being able to swim. It's really sad that myths like this are still going around. If a person ejaculates ON your vagina--not IN it--you have pretty much the same risk with getting pregnant. If a person inserts cummy fingers in you, you're at risk! I'm not sure how hard it is to figure out but it is serious.
Watch for your period this coming month and choose your actions more carefully next time.
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yes pre cum can get u pregnant but please do not worry there wouldn't be enough pre cum on his fingers and he couldn't go up deep enough so dont worry but if your worried try to be more careful hope i helped
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Negative. This only happens on television drama shows, if that. lol.
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definitely not woman!! lol it has to actually go in far enough to fertilize an egg!! and even if it was on his finger its not nearly enough to do that! lol. so you'll be okay :]
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You should be fine, If he was inside you without a condom than I'd start to worry.
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