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This is really really bad
I got a text from my girlfriend last night saying that her parents are making us break up because they found out that I touched her in innapropriate places. She is only fifteen and I am eighteen. I need to know what to do to. I don't want us to break up but her parents can get me in a lot of trouble if I don't obey their wishes. If I could have a second chance, I wouldn't touch her anywhere. Right now, I just think I need someone to talk to. I have had suicidal thoughts and that's not normal for me and I don't like it. Please please tell me what I can do!
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I agree with the first person
Right now your only option is to respect the parents wishes. She is a minor, You are the adult.
At the age of 18, Dating a minor is not only illegal but you are taking a risk of being caught. Right now you need to ride it out. Killing yourself is not the answer, Not only will you hurt the ones you love but life is no more and you can't take it back. You are 18, There will be many more woman that you will date in your time. Right now I think your best bet is to stay single for awhile and when you are ready to date again look for woman of age. I'm not going to sugarcoat but you need to except what you did was wrong and forget the second chance with her. If her parents are trying to break you two up now than second chance doesn't look like an option.
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Well this is a very difficult situation because she is underage. Have you talked to her about it? Maybe there is a way to get back on her parent's good sides...like maybe she could suggest you to come over for dinner with her parents or something. I know you don't want to break up I know hwo you feel but this situation seems a bit complicated and she is young. Talk to her about it and see if there is anything you can do to reassure her parents that your not a jerk. Parents tend to be overprotective anyway and she is on her way to becoming an adult. Ask her is this what she wants or what or parents want?
I think you should go see a guidance counselor ASAP. Thinking that any suicidal thoughts is NEVER good so definitely go see someone as soon as you can!
Good luck!
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first of relax
second take it easy
third if you really want something withthis girl please...just stay alive guy if you kill yourself youll never have the chance to redeem yourself. As for the parents...just hear my opinion ok? You ARE AN ADULT SHE IS NOT! ok? You did a NO NO ok? so what should you do? let her be. You are not in california i imagine or else youd be writing here rather than typing. They are in their legal right to tell you to back off, and if they want to press charges they could very well do so...so like i said relax and give her the space her parents are asking for. im not saying this relationship is gonna work but i am saying that if they do not press any charges let her mature and in a few years if shes still interested in you then at least itll be legal. got it? You really need to be man right now and accept what you did was wrong and that the only reason you feel bad is cause you got caught not cause you regret doing what you did. be brave man!! you were brave enough to touch her a minor innapropriate ways so now you have time to make a diffrence in her and your life, dont even try and get near her to appologize right now you need to stay sane, be strong and of strong courage, DO NOT go and try to get sympathy your not the victim here you are an adult and adults accpet errors and accpet responsibility and the consequences, the only thing you will accomplish by doing something dumb or crazy is dishonor your name, i know it seem sharsh what im telling you regardless im not saying to go kill yourself. just obey and stay single for a while obviously sex is not important and nore is obeying the law so just listen to them and leave their daughter alone think about it howd you react if someone did that to your sister or daughter or wife? think about it!!
i hate to say this but i really dont care if you low grade me..but i really do hope this helps
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