Question Posted Wednesday October 28 2009, 1:58 pm
So I've been talking to this guy for awhile We hang out every weekend.. we both don't hang out or hook up with anyother guys/girls. And I like him alot... but problem.. He denies likeing me and won't date me... He claims that he can't like/date anyone because he got hurt bad in his past, but people that know him says He's never stuck with one girl for this long and usually he'd at least hook up with other people too so I dont know what to do... Oh and worst of all... I lost my virginity to him. What do I do with him ? Hellllllllp ? please & thank you :)
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Michelle333 answered Friday October 30 2009, 5:41 pm: Awww honey don't waste your time with him...he is just using you. He clearly is a guy who is enjoying his young years and doesn't want a serious commitment. Also, he denies liking you and that is horrible. And if it is true that he was hurt in the past then that explains he detached behavior towards girls. He probably doesn't want anything serious because he doesn't want to get hurt again and is probably hurting girls like you that end up falling for him. I advice you to leave him right away and don't have sex with him anymore. He will never be serious with you nor care about your feelings. He just sees you as one more girl that he sleeps with. Please honey don't put yourself through this. [ Michelle333's advice column | Ask Michelle333 A Question ]
TheRandomJuggalette answered Friday October 30 2009, 5:11 pm: dude he wouldnt date you and he claims he doesnt like you but u had sex with him??? wtf?? that wasnt really smart at all --not tryna put you down here-- but he's probably one of those sex crazed guys that are into hook-ups and not relationships. he probably can tell that you like him alot and he's probably scared that you expect him to be in a committed realtionship/ [ TheRandomJuggalette's advice column | Ask TheRandomJuggalette A Question ]
One_Whisper answered Friday October 30 2009, 2:49 am: If he denies having interest in you than I wouldn't waste your time waiting for something too happen. If people have said this guy likes to date girls and doesn't stick around for a long period of time well than clearly the guy isn't interested in committing himself to one person. Move on [ One_Whisper's advice column | Ask One_Whisper A Question ]
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