Member Since: October 28, 2009
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Last Update: October 30, 2009
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im 13 nearly 14 and im 9st im medium boned. i feel fat and overweight i have been called this at school ive tried everything not eating, throwing up after eating doing exercise non stop dieting but i cant loose weight what shall i do? i like this guy but i am too fat to ask him as he goes for pretty skinny small girls with blonde hair??? (link)
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LISTEN NEVER throw up don't put yourself in that position you can develop a horrible eating disorder. He is the thing about gaining weight and losing weight. The best and easiest way to lose weight is to exercise and eat healthy foods. You said that you exercised but you didn't loose weight. If you exercised correctly there is no reason why you can't lose the weight. I suggest you go to the gym and get a trainer that will make an exercise work out just for what you need. Also look into seeing a nutrition that can guide you into eating the right foods. I encourage you do take action on this for health reasons. Its not good to be over weight and if you don't do anything about it, it will only get worse. Do this to better yourself and be healthy not because you want a guy to like you. A guy that likes you just for your looks is not worth it. A guy that is interested more in you personality is definitely the type of guy you want to date. Take care and please really try and lose the weight for your health.
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I have known this girl for about 5 years, and she considers me her best friend (not necessarily mutual). I have been noticing some things I do not like about her. I'm 23 and she's 22--it's been happening since right when we were younger Now I am very easy going usually and I can talk a lot too, but she is not very polite about things like when she talks she interrupts ALL THE TIME. She also seems to act like just because she goes to the gym now she is the prettiest girl in the world--she's always acted like this before, but it's even more now. I don't go to the gym and am a size 6--I am curvy kind of like the shape of Kate Winselt and I am very proud of it and love it--my bf does too:) She has said things, since going to the gym like "Oh yeah, didn't you gain weight? How much?" Just because I made the mistake of mentioning it. Now, this does NOT make me insecure about that I look like-- I want to get that clear, because I really love my body size 2 (like I was) or size 6. I find it kind of fake that she brings it up like she's curious though. I feel like she has other motives and that is what bothers me about it.
Also, she seems angry when we go to this bar and I always get in free. She said to me on the phone the other day "It's cause you dress sexy." I dress in black dress pants and short sleeved tops (I'm actually quite conservative for my age) when I go out, so that was an excuse! She then told me the same door guy said to her when I wasn't out with her one time, "Oh! I should have let you in. You're lookin good!" I didn't see the pt of that, since I don't brag that I always get in free, even dressed in a classy way, I just get in and when someone asks I say I don't know how much it is cause I didn't pay.
It seems that she needs to make some excuse for me getting in like she said one time "Oh cause he's a white guy." Cause I am white and he is and she's Hispanic. I guess I am giving this example, because it seems like she always has to be on top when it comes to her friends, and when she isn't she will make excuses for why someone else gets male attention and she doesn't, when she usually does all the time.
She even does this with little things. For instance, out in public she always nags me to go to the bathroom with her--which I have always despised--going to bathroom in groups. She will then cut in front of me if I am in front, even if I have a good lead on her to where we are going. It's like she always has to be "on top" figuratively and literally. I don't know what to do, but it is getting on my nerves so much I think I will blow up soon at her. I mean, she is a good friend, whenever I was in a bad state with my bf she was always there for me, but this is making what good things she has done seem less and less important (link)
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Hey girl I had the same issue and the best thing to do is tell her. You know each other for a long time and if she really cares about you enough and your friendship she will change her ways. If not then you guys will move on and not be friends anymore; who needs someone so negative and competitive in their lives? In my case I told her and she told me that she didn't have a problem with the way she is and the she will not change for anyone...we aren't friends anymore and I feel soooo much better because she was quite annoying.
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So I've been talking to this guy for awhile We hang out every weekend.. we both don't hang out or hook up with anyother guys/girls. And I like him alot... but problem.. He denies likeing me and won't date me... He claims that he can't like/date anyone because he got hurt bad in his past, but people that know him says He's never stuck with one girl for this long and usually he'd at least hook up with other people too so I dont know what to do... Oh and worst of all... I lost my virginity to him. What do I do with him ? Hellllllllp ? please & thank you :) (link)
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Awww honey don't waste your time with him...he is just using you. He clearly is a guy who is enjoying his young years and doesn't want a serious commitment. Also, he denies liking you and that is horrible. And if it is true that he was hurt in the past then that explains he detached behavior towards girls. He probably doesn't want anything serious because he doesn't want to get hurt again and is probably hurting girls like you that end up falling for him. I advice you to leave him right away and don't have sex with him anymore. He will never be serious with you nor care about your feelings. He just sees you as one more girl that he sleeps with. Please honey don't put yourself through this.
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I've been with my boyfriend for 10 months today, and it's just not the same. We both know things have changed. He told me he still loves me a lot, and i feel the same way about him, but we're bored. Nothing to do. I want to be with him so much, but it's just so frustrating and it hurts because he doesn't show me that he cares about me anymore the way he used to. I'm so tired of feeling so lost in our relationship, but I'm afraid of losing him. I love him and want to be with him, but I'm so tired of not feeling like he cares.
I've tried and tried talking to him about it and nothing really gets resolved, except that he still loves me.
Can anyone please help.
I really need any advice that can be given.
Thanks you. (link)
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I went out with this guy for over 3 yrs and we just go to this point in the relationship where i felt like he didn't care for me and all he said was "i love you" well he ended up breaking up with me and turns out he stopped loving me and just didn't want to be in a relationship. I know everyone is different so i don't know what your issues are. I know you've tried talking to him about it and have gotten no where. the best thing i can tell you is to tell him that you feel like this isn't a relationship anymore and what you need and want out of it. and that if he loves you he needs to show you because all you feel is pain not love. Ask him what you can do to improve the relationship and then tell him what you want him to do for you. I hope it works out for you two
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I like this guy i dated,but i dumped him for the dumbest of reason.I still liked him when i dumped him.one of my best friends started dating him..now me and her aren't so close,but the resons isnt cause of him.(we just kinda grew apart).now i know this is going to sound sick,but i need help on how to break them up.if you knew how much i liked him, you wouldn't think of me so badly.PLEASE help me! (link)
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The previous person gave you good advice I would just like to add something. No matter how much you like him you can't intervene in their relationship it is not fair to them. For all you know he doesn't like you anymore and he is happy with her. I think the right thing to do it just wait until they naturally break up and then approach him. Because even if he would leave her for you but if he doesn't really like you as much or doesn't want to be with you anymore, your relationship won't last.
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i have been with my girlfriend for 4 months our sex life was amazing we took showers together slept naked but its all stopped its like i have to beg to bbe romantic to her whats happening or how can i make the good times come back? (link)
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I really feel you on this one because my boyfriend of over two years was the same. I suggest you tell your girlfriend how you feel. You have to let her know how much you loved the romance you used to have and that you will like to rekindle it. Ask her if there is anything that was bothering her that made her stop wanting since you have to beg her. Also ask her if there is something that you are doing or not doing that has made her change her mind. Keep in mind that there maybe something deep than just the actual sex. Maybe there is a lack of communication all together in the relationship and that is why she is kinda distant.
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ok this is kinda random but im a girl and im wondering when your making out and your boyfriend is feeling you up(breasts) what are you suppose to do? keep kissing or what? where do your hands go??? (link)
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There is no right answer for this question it all depends on what you want to touch on him and what you are feeling. Don't think too much about it if he is feeling on your breasts touch him all over his back or caress his head/hair. Grab his neck or his hands to let him know you are enjoying him feeling up on you.
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i realllly wanna make out with himm, but like id ont know what to do hah im kinda shyy so yehah. but like when we hang out and stuff we always cuddle and hes always holding me. we kiss everytime we're together but i reallly wanna makeout with himm. helppp.
thanks :] (link)
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When you kiss him just keep on kissing him and take control. He probably hasn't done it because he knows you are shy and doesn't want to make you feel rushed. Like I said when you guys are kissing don't stop at a pop kiss just continue and make out with him.
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hey! im 16/f.
my boyfriend and i had rough unprotected sex (dont worry i'm on the birth control pill) ... he lasted much longer then he usually does, we used some KY jelly and it was like warming ahha. idkkkk. like ive never had such rough sex in my life ahah, and no it wasnt my first time i lost my virginity a year ago.
well. the day after.. i have a slight pain in my vagina, and a light bleeding. its not like redredred. its like a pinkish red. i just ended my period the morning before but it was completely over by the time we had intercourse.
is everything okay with me? i know for a fact im not pregnant he didnt "let out" inside of me. i know that doesnt mean im preg. but im on birth control so im okayyy i rarely use condoms with him.
but is this normal? did he tear something? idkk whats going on im a little bit worried.
thanks in advance=] (link)
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I want to worn you that I don't know the answer to this but I went on another website to read up on it and here are some of the posisbilities
That he popped your cherry (according to what I read it doesn't always pop the first time you have sex)
Another possibility is that he teared some of your vaginal wall since it's sensitive but they say that is normal
I think the second possibility is what might have happened to you again this has never happened to me so I can't speak from experience but if the bleeding continues and you notice that you it continues to hurt a lot then maybe its something else but common sense tells me that he just teared something and how i read it will heal up on its own and the pain you feel is because of how rough you were doing it
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so i was thinking of being a lifeguard for halloween...im a girl i have the red one piece bathing suit that says guard on it...but i want it to be a cute costume..but i dont know what else to wear with it?
im 19 & will be going to a college party.. (link)
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Hey I'm 19 as well and don't have a costume yet lol...but to answer you question get a whistle and make sure you do very nice make-up...maybe you can be a vampire lifeguard and give yourself pretty smokey eyes and just get some of the make-up blood and but a little on the side of your lips...so that you still look hot but the blood is to make it a vampire lifeguard costume..idk I hope this helped...for a normal lifeguard costume all i can think of is getting the whistle and maybe a lifesaver and wearing it around your waist or neck
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Ok I dont feel like i am very pretty. i feel fat and i kinda have some acne. but my friends and family tell me im poretty but i dont believe them. i havent had a boyfriend in a while and my self confidence is slipping into danger level zone. my friends are all gorgeous so are my siblings and everyone gawks over them. i feel pretty crappy. so can someone please tell me ow i can be prettier so i dont feel like such a loser? im 15 and female.
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Hey Sweetie What everyone has been telling you beauty is skin deep and to feel good about yourself physical beauty is not the only thing necessary. You need to acknowledge your talents and looking at you picture's i see you have your own style and thats great! Now I know you aren't looking for the nice "oh you are a beautiful person in the inside" speech.
You posted your pictures because you want help on how to enhance you physical appearance. What I noticed on your first picture is that you have beautiful eyes. I know you hairstyle is part of your personal style but it covers those beautiful eyes. I suggest put your bangs to the side so that your eyes can be seen because the truly are beautiful. I notice you have some minor acne which can be easily taken care of with cleansers or medication (I know medication sounds like you had severe acne but you don't ask you doctor to refer you to a dermatologist after all you are only 15 and are bound to have a few pimples). I also noticed you don't use make-up unless its really important to you not to use make-up, I suggest you use mascara, eye liner, and eyeshadow to enhance like i said your gorgeous eyes.
You mentioned that you feel fat and ugly. One you are not ugly at all and two you aren't FAT. I just think you need to mold the parts of your body that you aren't happy with. For example: if you want you legs to be thicker work them out, or if like me you want a slimmer stomach work it out...don't sit around and wish to have a body that you aren't working on. I'm not a fat person I just had baby fat on my stomach and I always put off working out because it's not too noticeable but I finally decided that even though I don't look fat its more about the way i want my body to look. I feel great now that I've started to work out and see results.
I hope this helped and remember the most important thing is to have self worth and acknowledge your virtues. Physical beauty comes last.
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