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i like a boy who has a girlfriend
I like this guy i dated,but i dumped him for the dumbest of reason.I still liked him when i dumped him.one of my best friends started dating him..now me and her aren't so close,but the resons isnt cause of him.(we just kinda grew apart).now i know this is going to sound sick,but i need help on how to break them up.if you knew how much i liked him, you wouldn't think of me so badly.PLEASE help me!
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Hunni, I'll save the lecture and tell you straight. I'm sure plenty people have been in the same position and I can imagine how much hurt this may be causing you, but breaking them up just won't work. Plus, it will be pretty obvious you were behind it.
You should let nature take its course. if they aren't meant to be, they will break up.
but in the mean time, he has a girlfriend now and I'm really sorry to say - you had your chance.
You shouldn't even make it clear you still like him.. because at the end of the day, you would HATE it if you were in this other girls position right now and someone was thinking of breaking you up to steal him away.
and remember, if he wanted to be with you, he WOULDN'T be with someone else right now.
There's plenty guys out there. Find someone loads better!!
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The previous person gave you good advice I would just like to add something. No matter how much you like him you can't intervene in their relationship it is not fair to them. For all you know he doesn't like you anymore and he is happy with her. I think the right thing to do it just wait until they naturally break up and then approach him. Because even if he would leave her for you but if he doesn't really like you as much or doesn't want to be with you anymore, your relationship won't last.
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two things; First, you may be *&^% outta luck. Second, if you are to really make this happen you need to find out their problems and exploit them. Being that you are an ex-girldfriend you are in a unique postion of authority when it comes to knowing what his pet-peeves are. So, it is up to you to observe them together and later remind him that he hates it when women, 'cross their arms and walk 3 feet ahead of them' or 'use that cute, but really happens to sound whiney, voice.' If you can prove that you know what he likes, and even more importantly what he doesn't like you can control how he feels about his current relationship. Remember, if you can exploit the very foundation of their relationship while remdining him that you know better, you'll be back in there in no time.
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