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Member Since: October 28, 2009
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I like this guy i dated,but i dumped him for the dumbest of reason.I still liked him when i dumped him.one of my best friends started dating him..now me and her aren't so close,but the resons isnt cause of him.(we just kinda grew apart).now i know this is going to sound sick,but i need help on how to break them up.if you knew how much i liked him, you wouldn't think of me so badly.PLEASE help me! (link)
two things; First, you may be *&^% outta luck. Second, if you are to really make this happen you need to find out their problems and exploit them. Being that you are an ex-girldfriend you are in a unique postion of authority when it comes to knowing what his pet-peeves are. So, it is up to you to observe them together and later remind him that he hates it when women, 'cross their arms and walk 3 feet ahead of them' or 'use that cute, but really happens to sound whiney, voice.' If you can prove that you know what he likes, and even more importantly what he doesn't like you can control how he feels about his current relationship. Remember, if you can exploit the very foundation of their relationship while remdining him that you know better, you'll be back in there in no time.


There's this cute guy I like. The thing is, we're not that close yet. Do you think I should add him on Facebook already or just wait for him to do it or until we're close?



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add him, and ask him out for a drink... Men love to be approached by confident women. However, leave it at minimum of two messages spaced apart by at least 3 days, if he fails to respond after the first message. Men aren't always as prompt as women.


Ok so I know how this sounds, I am a 20 yr old male and i have this friend, weve been friends since freshman year in high school and weve always experimented with diffrent drugs and alcohol weve stopped since then minus alcohol and pot. I hadnt seen her for about 2 years, she randomly called me and told me she was pregnat so we decided to meet at her new place but little did i know she was still smoking pot! im no doctor and i definitly dont like telling others how hey should live their lives but i seriously question the health of her baby, could it possibly induce a miscarage? i have no idea i would just like some opinions. (link)

You need to be assertive in this case. It is important that your friend understand that she is implicating the health of her unborn child. In some cases heavy use of any carcinogenic inhalant can be fatal. I used to smoke pot, a lot... and this is why I feel confident in saying that you, as a responsible adult, not as a friend, need to intervene on behalf of the child, who, doesn't have a say in the matter. No alcohol, no smoke, no caffeine... The worst nine months for a youngster, but also the most important nine months for the baby.





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