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first kiss
okay so im 14 and my boyfriend wants to kiss me..the thing is i never kissed anyone before and im really nervous and i dont wanna screw it up or do it wrong. please helpp :)
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I was like you when I had my first kiss - I had no idea what to do and I thought I would start laughing before it even happened.
Even though I DID laugh while it happened and still had no clue what I was doing - it was a memorable and funny moment. You both will laugh!
If you are really nervous about screwing it up - just let the body work its magic. Sometimes a first kiss will just come naturally - read his actions and he will read yours. Start with a peck and go from there. You can be honest with your boyfriend and tell him that you have never kissed anyone, and that you might be bad at it - but so might he! and if he isn't, well he will teach you =)
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who cares if you suck at kissing? I bet your boyfriend won't care if you're sloppy at first, he's fourteen. anything involving kissing will probably make his day. Hell, I bet he'd shoot right out of a chair if you started talking about it. its called learning, if it feels good, do it! Now go and start learning. stop reading this and get to it. seriously. now!
-Gunner
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I don't agree with the person below me. While messaging him is easier to tell him what you want, once the two of you come together in person it will make it awkward since you are both expecting it and nervous about it. If he wants you to kiss him, then you really cant go wrong. Your young and I'll assume he's around the same age group, so your both probably inexperienced.
You could be sweet and say something like "I've never done this before, but I really want to kiss you" and give him a gentle kiss. Or you could totally surprise him and grab his face and give him one (not too rough, we don't want any broken noses!) He'll probably love that. Just think about it simply; you like him, he likes you, and it's a natural thing. Try not to be nervous! And enjoy yourself.
Good luck,
-Abby
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i always had this problem. these things are easily solved by message :D hehe. maybe message him and say.."hey, um. so i kinda think we should kiss" or something liek that. its so much easier by message. when messaging you can "just do it" while in person you have to be all nervous and all nyeh. haha. but by doing this, he'll have it in his mind and he'll keep trying to kiss you even if you dont know it. another methode ((the on i did)) was that i'd hug him alot and play with him and then after a little while, while i was hugging him i'd just kiss him on the cheek. after that he kissed me on the lips :D so hmm..you can try thaat. oooor.....just put your face close to his alot. and after or while your mind will go into that "just do it" state and you'll probably end up kissing him. even if its on the cheek, youll probably surprise him and make him want to kiss you. oh and another thing, he wants to kiss you too. theres no doubt about it. so why don't you make his wish come true? :] oh and dont worry about messing up. its your first kiss. first kisses SHOULD NOT be frenches anyway. and when you do start doing that its not hard at all. "a peach is a peach, a plum is a plum. a kiss isnt a kiss without some tongue" lol. its simple. just stick it in and move it around!!! lol. hope i helped ya out! peace :]
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