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I'm so lost in my relationship
I've been with my boyfriend for 10 months today, and it's just not the same. We both know things have changed. He told me he still loves me a lot, and i feel the same way about him, but we're bored. Nothing to do. I want to be with him so much, but it's just so frustrating and it hurts because he doesn't show me that he cares about me anymore the way he used to. I'm so tired of feeling so lost in our relationship, but I'm afraid of losing him. I love him and want to be with him, but I'm so tired of not feeling like he cares.
I've tried and tried talking to him about it and nothing really gets resolved, except that he still loves me.
Can anyone please help.
I really need any advice that can be given.
Thanks you.
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I went out with this guy for over 3 yrs and we just go to this point in the relationship where i felt like he didn't care for me and all he said was "i love you" well he ended up breaking up with me and turns out he stopped loving me and just didn't want to be in a relationship. I know everyone is different so i don't know what your issues are. I know you've tried talking to him about it and have gotten no where. the best thing i can tell you is to tell him that you feel like this isn't a relationship anymore and what you need and want out of it. and that if he loves you he needs to show you because all you feel is pain not love. Ask him what you can do to improve the relationship and then tell him what you want him to do for you. I hope it works out for you two
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I'm going through the same thing right now. Only thing is, is that we've been together for almost 7 months and haven't said the "L" word yet.
The only thing to do is talk to him about how your feeling (that's what me and my bf did last night because we both blew up on each other about our problems).
If talking still doesn't work out, then just leave, because nothing well ever get resolved if he doesn't talk.
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Hello, well for starters you really shouldn't be say I love you after 10 months. The "L" word is a very strong word and gets used to easily these days. It labels the relationship this early on too. It makes both partners feel this need to be serious now and to not have fun anymore. Also How old are the both of you? and There is always a reason that someone in the relationship doesn't show interest anymore. Do you two live together?
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This same thing happened to me at around the same time. It helps if you try new things like maybe going to a movie you wouldn't normally see or go to a party together or something. Also another thing that helped us a lot was trying new things in bed. Haha sorry tmi, but it does work.
If you still just don't feel the same about each other than maybe try to not hangout as much, so that when you do get to hangout it's really special. Don't do that for too long, but once you start getting the same feelings go back to normal.
I hope I helped :)
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