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rough sex
hey! im 16/f.
my boyfriend and i had rough unprotected sex (dont worry i'm on the birth control pill) ... he lasted much longer then he usually does, we used some KY jelly and it was like warming ahha. idkkkk. like ive never had such rough sex in my life ahah, and no it wasnt my first time i lost my virginity a year ago.
well. the day after.. i have a slight pain in my vagina, and a light bleeding. its not like redredred. its like a pinkish red. i just ended my period the morning before but it was completely over by the time we had intercourse.
is everything okay with me? i know for a fact im not pregnant he didnt "let out" inside of me. i know that doesnt mean im preg. but im on birth control so im okayyy i rarely use condoms with him.
but is this normal? did he tear something? idkk whats going on im a little bit worried.
thanks in advance=]
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If you repeatedly and roughly rubbed your arm for a longish period of time, it would become red and uncomfortable. The same thing applies to your vagina!
You had sex for longer than usual, it was rougher than usual. Your skin inside your vagina is sensitive, and this is probably quite a normal reaction to the sort of sex you had. It was a good thing you used lube, or you might have been even more uncomfortable.
As for the bleeding, I'd keep an eye on it. It COULD be the very end of your period - I know you said you were done, but there might have been some blood hanging out near the top of your vagina. It could also be that your skin was irritated enough that the skin broke. If the bleeding gets heavier or doesn't stop, you'll want to see a medical professional.
While your body is healing, make sure any sex you have is a good deal more gentle! Wait until you feel things are back to normal before you resume anything rougher, otherwise you run the risk of further irritating the area.
I wish you the best.
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thats my gurl lol and no i woouldnt worry about it but i would let myself heal before having rough sex however if your still bleeding in a few days and you dont feel any better than i would worry but your good hun good luck
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It doesn't take much to do things a little TOO rough y'know. Believe it or not, the vagina is a rather tender area.
Maybe you did tear something slightly or if he used his hands at all, maybe his fingernails got in the way..
To me, it just sounds like you went a bit over the top, especially if this type of thing doesn't normally happen.
Remember, if it starts to hurt and it's not very enjoyable, tone it down a bit.
You should be okay in a day or 2, but if the bleeding does carry on, get a quick check over by your doc. and in the mean time, refrain from things sexual while you heal.
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I want to worn you that I don't know the answer to this but I went on another website to read up on it and here are some of the posisbilities
That he popped your cherry (according to what I read it doesn't always pop the first time you have sex)
Another possibility is that he teared some of your vaginal wall since it's sensitive but they say that is normal
I think the second possibility is what might have happened to you again this has never happened to me so I can't speak from experience but if the bleeding continues and you notice that you it continues to hurt a lot then maybe its something else but common sense tells me that he just teared something and how i read it will heal up on its own and the pain you feel is because of how rough you were doing it
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