16/f
i've only had two boyfriends, i went out with my ex for 2 and a half years(8th to 10th grade), he moved upstate last year and we remained friends for awhile until we got into a fight and didn't talk for a long time. i was in deep love with him, and use to cry about missing him all the time. all of a sudden we started talking as friends again.. now i'm in 11th grade & have a new boyfriend since last week, i like him & he makes me laugh. I dont understand how i feel though. Like i use to cry about my ex and now when i hear songs that remind me of him i don't anymore? Have i moved on? I can't tell. Yet i still feel like i'm sort of still in love with my ex, i told him how i feel and he said he felt the same way. Maybe i'm just young and naive and dont understand what i'm talking about? HELP PLEASE =/
One_Whisper answered Saturday October 24 2009, 7:02 pm: The truth is we never forget our first. We can move on, Fall in love again and meet someone new but our memories are always there. From the sound of it yes I think you have moved on. You've met someone new you laugh and you like him therefore you have found happiness again. [ One_Whisper's advice column | Ask One_Whisper A Question ]
Lilz answered Saturday October 24 2009, 4:57 pm: Well he was your first boyfriend. You never forget your first anything. You should still have feeling because you were deeply in love with him. And you have moved on because you don't cry about him and you don't think about him to the point that you do cry. Hope you and your new boyfriend work out!
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