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ok so my boyfriend i went to a boy girl party and we palyed spin the boottle andi got my kirst like REAL kiss by then like an our later he give me the middle finger and told me to shove it cuase i wasnt "cuddling" with him. Then he apoligized and i gave him a chance and he was like kept getting mad at me b/c i wasnt lik making out with him. He was acting all perverted, do i dump his sorry ass. And how shloud I say it?

What do you think? He wants to make out with you, you say no, he gets pissed. What if he asked you to have sex with him, you're not ready, he gets pissed. You cant go out with a guy that will get mad at you if you dont do what he tells you to. Dump his sorry ass!!!!!!!! Say "Sorry but i dont think its working out. Toodles."
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does anybody know what foods make your boobs or but grow i think rasberrys make boobs grow but idk

Uhh food doesn't make your boobs bigger. Dont worry you probably still have time to grow!!
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any 1 know where i could get funny ring tnes

in russian or english

by funny its like a dude thats high says "COUZE I GOT HIGH" or somethin like that
u know... words and free... lol

any takers?

Hah. "Couze i got high" is sooo freaking funny!!! I think you can get that ringtone at www.jamster.com!
♥ Melissa
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ok, it was about 11:50 am and i was shaking a bottle of nail polish and the cap wasnt screwed on right and it opened up and spilled all over my carpet. I couldnt do anything when it happened, now its 2:07 and i need to get this stain out. Is there any way i could get it out without my mom knowing? my carpet is hunter green if you need to knoiw....please help me!!!!

Haha. Its funny, im so clumsy i did that once before. Lol. I used nail polish remover.
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ok so this past week i have been talking to this guy on AIM, he seems really cool and im startin to like him. we exchanged numbers, but im shy and im so nrvous if he call me were not going to have anything to talk about. can u guys help me out and give some suggestionn what say n stuff


thanks in advance!

Maybe play 21 questions on the phone, that way you'll find out more about him.
♥ Melissa
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what should i say to this girl that i liked since 2nd grade like can you give me ideas for poems or something. thanks

A poem would freak her out because you 2 arent going out yet. Try to have some quality time together and set up plans every weekend. Give her a gift everytime you hang out. When i say gift i dont mean spend 10 dollars everytime. I mean a rose everytime or something at a reasonable price. Then as you become closer ask her out. In person would be best, but if you're shy do it in a note.
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ok
there is this gy and we have gotten really close...
too close.....
i really like himk and he knows this.
but the problem is
he has a girlfriend.........
please send your advice
anything will help..........
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kashia

Try to become closer and closer to him. If he relizes you love him and he loves you he will make a move himself and break up with his gf. If he doesnt then there isnt anything you can do.
♥ Melissa
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ok, im a 16 y/o guy, and i've never had a health class (reason i'm asking.) What are some signs that a girl IS NOT pregnant? like, is her period not the same? my girlfriend is 15, and we dunno. we had sex about 3 weeks ago, and we were woried about it. she's on her period right now, but does that mean she is FOR SURE NOT PREGNATE
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A girl can have her period and still be pregnant. And a way to know shes not pregnant is if she takes a pregnancy test and it says NOT PREGNANT.
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Can anyone give me websites to get shoes?. I like skater shoes.
thanks in advance

www.journeys.com and www.pacsun.com
♥ Melissa
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how do u do the strikethrough on myspace? whats the code

It is TEXT at the TEXT you put your text.
♥ Melissa
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Okay I'm 13 years old and a female. Yesterday I noticed a small bump on my left breast, near the nipple. It sometimes hurts when I touch it but it also looks somewhat like a pimple. I'm really worried that this could be breast cancer. There is no history in my family of having breast cancer. Do you think it's cancer?

Thanks! =]

All advice is appreciated!

I dont think its breast cancer. Its really rare for a 13 year old to get it. If i were you id get it checked by your mom or a doctor just in case. Its probably just acne... which is normal.
♥ Melissa
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iv'e liked this guy for like 7 years and i love him .. but he's short im tall,, everyone says he's ugly but he's not.. my friend loves him too.. i never told my mom.... and now is it too late? he doesn't have a g/f yet. what should i do

What holding you back? Think about that. It seems like nothing to me because he doesnt have a gf and who cares what other people say. Just ask him out!!! Either on a note that says "I have loved you for years and i was wondering if you would go out with me. Love, _____." Or in person. Its better to get rejected than to not try!
♥ Melissa
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hey is it true that when you sleep you're supposed to take your bra off?

You dont have to but its comfortabler if you do. Nothing will happen if you dont. Most people sleep with their bras on because they're afraid it'll get floppy or whatever lol.
♥ Melissa
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Hi, Me and my girlfriend where together for 2 and a half years we broke up and couple days later she went out with a guy she works with. She said they only went out 2 times. Well we got back together things seemed cool. Then i got a funny feeling like something was wrong. She was "talking" and only "kissed" the guy but things were still going on she admitted it and said it was over with them. Well she has been deleting her cell phone history daily. She admitted to me today that they talk on the cell phone but she claims nothing is going on! Do you think she is still cheating? Also do you think it's right for her to go and talk to the guy after all that has happened! She tells me there is nothing between them now and they only talk on the phone! She tells me what's wrong with them being friends.

Obviously what shes doing is wrong. She knows whats wrong with them talking on the phone, and is waiting for you to find out. Until then shes acting guilty. If she said she talked on the phone and then erases her history, then it must mean a call was private. Who else was the call to? I think she is cheating on you.
♥ Melissa
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how do you make out?

Nobody can tell you correct directions or steps to making out. It comes natural....it just happens. You cant make it go a certain way. All i can say is its a long kiss and you put your tongue into it. Have Fun :)
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what can i do to bring out my brown eyes

I think a light blue or pink shade of eyeshadow would bring out your eyes, along with light eyeliner and dark mascara.
♥ Melissa
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My friend played a joke on me and I know she was kidding..but I took it too seriously.I yelled at her in class..and then she was trying to talk to me after school but I ignored her and got in my car..I feel so horrible but I'm still mad..What should I do?

Well it depends on what the prank was. If it was a bad prank then prank them back. If it wasnt so bad say "sorry i took it the wrong way."
♥ Melissa
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okay well i was going to ask this boy out on the computer...i RLY like him and ppl say he rly likes me and it looks like it because all he does is flirt with me and only me but when i ask someone to ask him if he likes me...he'll say no! the other day i asked my friend chelsey at my other friends party to tell him he should go out with me and he said no!!! and then on the computer a few weeks ago chelsey asked him if he would ever go out with me and he said he didnt know...now is he just doing this because he doesnt want to admit that he'll like me? i rly like him and EVERYONE says he likes me and some of his friends even told me he said he liked me but why is he doing this if he does!? should i just ask him out and get on with my life if he doesnt!? please help...ill rate 5's for any advice unless its mean

He's probably answering differently everytime because your friends are asking him. Ask him in person if he likes you.
♥ Melissa
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okay...this may seem strange but it feels like all my friends are turning on me...I had my 13th birthday party on sunday and invited 20 of my clostest firends to my house and well sunday came and only 12 showed up...these ppl i know have to be my rly clostest firends but here are the reasons for why most of them couldnt come

Me: hey maria are you coming to my party on sunday
Maria: no sorry i cant because im grounded
Me: oh so you arent going to Karissas the day befroe?
Maria: oh well i can go to that one and that one only


If you think that ones bad listen to these...

Chelsey: gotta do my homework! i have WAY to much homework

Lindsay: Sorry Sam my mom wont let me cause i didnt do all my homework yet

Karissa: my mom wont let me cause i didnt do my homework yet

Rachel F: i cant because i have too much homework

SPECIAL NOTE: all the ppl above cept maria slept over karissas house after her party and the best thing is WE DIDNT HAVE ANY HOMEWORK!!!


please help me ill rate 5's unless the advice is mean

Harsh. Those arent friends anymore. I say you ignore them. Get other friends. Then when THEY ask you why you're ignoring them tell them your problem and why they lied to you. If they start acting bitchy, slap them.
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Does anyone know how to make your picture smaller? I tried this one program Adobe Photoshop and zoomed out of the pic then saved it. But it was back to the normal size. Please Help!!!

When you put the pic on tinypic or something like that, in the url there will be CAPITAL LETTERS that say width, height, and so on. Change each of the numbers following to adjust the pictures size.
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