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like or love-7 years
iv'e liked this guy for like 7 years and i love him .. but he's short im tall,, everyone says he's ugly but he's not.. my friend loves him too.. i never told my mom.... and now is it too late? he doesn't have a g/f yet. what should i do
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He doesn't have a girlfriend and you claim you love him. So what is holding you back. You "love" him just ask him out.Who the hell cares what other people think. They're not you and you live with the decisons you make.
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x0o natalie
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Why would it be too late? And it really doesn't matter what anybody thinks, but you. YOU would be the one dating him, no one else. You really shouldn't let others discourage you. If you feel you've found someone to build some wonderful memories with.. someone who treats you fairly and respectfully, why would you ever want to deny such a thing?
If I were you, I'd make sure this boy knew exactly what I am feeling. Why don't you ask him how he feels about you directly? That would be the most productive thing to do in this situation. Just be bold, be honest, and go for it. It's the *ONLY* way to know for sure how he may be feeling about you. You can sit and *ASSUME* his thoughts and feelings allll you want... but you'll never know exactly what's in his heart unless it's coming straight from his lovely lips! And perhaps since you're the one bringing this conversation up, telling him YOUR thoughts first would be the way to go about it. If he's a shy boy, your breaking the ice would make things much more easier on him. [:
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Its not to late. Talk to him, let him know how you feel. Ignore those who don't like him, they are shallow. :)
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well if you claim to love him and have for the longest time then go for it. you shouldn't care what anybody else thinks and looks aren't everything. just go for it.
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What holding you back? Think about that. It seems like nothing to me because he doesnt have a gf and who cares what other people say. Just ask him out!!! Either on a note that says "I have loved you for years and i was wondering if you would go out with me. Love, _____." Or in person. Its better to get rejected than to not try!
♥ Melissa
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You shouldn't let other people influence your positive decisions especially about male looks. There is a difference between positive advice and dictating your actions (aka hatin). Dont be so quick to fall in love. Would you willing to give up dreams, stay home while he works a double shift, take care of his kids and cook and clean day in and day out? Then maybe you can say you really love him but otherwise its just a fling.
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