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i have a wonderful bf of one month. we were friends beforehand for 8 months..we got so close..we have so much respect for one another and such a strong bond.
the problem? last night i was drinking with a bunch of friends..some of our guy friends wound up coming over. i was the drunkest i have ever been..i went up from behind 2 of my guy friends and hugged them from behind and my hand went over their crotch area. a little while later the guilt sunk in and i feel so horrible. i told my bf and he doesnt know what to think, he said we will talk today. my queestion : if this were to happen to you what would you do? what can i do to make this better? im thinking like making a solid promise to NOT drink again for as long as we are together... any other suggestions? what i did..is this understandable or is theere no excuse?
ive liked my bf for soo long..since the summer..and i finally got what i have wanted for so long. i dont want to ruin this relationship!!!!! i DONT cheat..what i did..that wasnt me!! i feel like crap omgg :(
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if your boyfriend cares about you, he'll forgive you. you were drunk, and it was a mistake. promise him you'll never do it again. he has a right to be mad at you, but he should understand you didnt do it on purpose.
Alicia ♥


My father died about 3 years ago and now I am going out with this boy that is a lot like him...is that a bad thing? I mean I love him but he is just...a lot like my dad! Am I being stupid going out with him or is it like a bad ideas or something? I have these feelings like he is going to leave me, but I thought that maybe that is just because my dad "left" me...I don't know...I'm confusing...I know! But I would really like any help I can get!thanks! (link)
its good that you are going out with someone. my mom (was) a counselor, and she WOULD say it is because you need a male figure in your life. so dont worry, it is normal and good
♥ ♥ Alicia


I am 17 year old boy. My height is 5.8. I am worried about my penis size. My penis size is only 4 inch. When I see it is in normal condition it looks very small like penis of a child. I guess it is not genetic problem because my 15 year old brother has 5 inches and my father has also good length (I don’t know the exact size but it looks big & thick). This situation resulted inferiority complex in me. Once my bro saw me (un-erected) and said oh! You have tiny thing. I just laughed and said it is not hard. Things like that put me on back seat. Is there any authentic method to increase the length. What is the normal size of a man. Till what age the length may be increased.

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you can take pills to make it grow. there are also some excersizes you can do to make it grow more.
Good Luck && Hope it helped
Alicia


Can anyone give me a step by step understandable way to blow-dry my hair without making it poofy? (link)
buy a double brush (its like a clamp). then put a piece of your hair in it. then as you pull your hair down, run the blowdryer on it.
Alicia
&& hope it helped =)


hi
i am from iran
our teacher of physic s has asked us to bild a car and for the theory of it he had asked us to give the reason for the budy of the car we have made now i want to sk u that why should the front wheels of the car be larger than the rear
wheels how does it make thhe car go faster than before
i am waiting to hear about ur anser aas soon as posiible
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is the engine front mounted and front wheel drive? if so look at the drag cars of the Front engine front drive class they all have larger wheels in the front than in the back. that's to give them a better off the line grip on the road on the dragstrip. that same principle applies to front engine rear wheel drive cars which have big tires in the rear so as to give them a better grip. i don't quite understand the question as you haven't explained how the car is driven. if you could tell me if it's front wheel drive, rear wheel drive, four wheel drive, and in which part of the car the engine is mounted rear(behind the rear axle), middle (in front of rear axle but still behind front axle), or front(on or infront of front axle)i could help. larger wheels in the front or rear based on where the engine is mounted get more downforce, more grip, and a much better off the line time. as is mounting thicker wheels on the section to where the power is delivered and to where the weight is mostly distributed. is it on a leaf spring suspension? double wishbone? swing arm? all of this stuff is important too to know how speed is affected by tires, and by the road.


i noticed that a lot of girls eyeliners stay on for hours at a time w/o applying it more than once. How do they do it? because i always have to apply mine bout every 30 mins. Thanks!! (link)
use liquid, it works great.


Is there any possible way to get pregnant from swallowing a guy's cum? I know it sounds stupid, I'm just making absolutely certain that there's like no way it could leak into any body cavity. So no smart ass answers. Thanks. (link)
pfffffff no


Hey, I'm having people over, and I was trying to think of a good scary movie. Any ideas?
Easy 5 for good movies
xox ♥ (link)
SAW
the texas chainsaw massacre
freddy vs. jason
13 ghosts
freakkkayyy


i didn't know what topic this would fall under, so i just guessed.

ok, here i go. i hear and read about "first base" , "second base" , and "third base" dealing with relationships a lot. i have never been quite sure what these terms mean. could someone clear this up for me?

thanks in advance! i'll rate! (link)
just answering all these answers, everyones opinion on 1st, 2nd, 3rd, and 4th base..are different. but somewhat alike.


i dont understand what prude means.


is it liike where you havent hooked up with anyone or had sex?


14/f (link)
it means you really dont want to do stuff w/ guys.
i USED TO BE prude, but now im not really afraid to do anything with a guy. as in: the furthest im gone and will go (right now lol in my life) was/would be making out on a bed. lol
but yeah ive gotten over it!


i got my first period the last day of november. when should i be like preparred to get it again? (link)
yeah about 3-4 weeks after that ones over.
although, sometimes its like jacked up and could be like 2-3 weeks after or maybe like 5 idk every girl is different, sorry if this is confusing
and so my final answer would be about 3-4 weeks after.


My bestfriend made out with my exboyfriend and i know that he is my ex but she is my bestfriend should my ecboyfriend be off limits?? What should i do? Should i tell her that she hurt me or just let it go?
Please i will rate 5's for any decent answers. (link)
tell her that u still have feelings for him and that you could get him back, i dont know who broke up with who meaning if he still has feelings for YOU or not, but you should tell her how you feel about him and to back off lol
just what i would do.


hey i know this is random but does anyone know some fun or cool websites for teens i could go on? cause i'm really bored :D also it wwould be nice if they werelike chatting websites but if theyre not thats 100 percent ok (link)
oo i know! go to addictinggames.com and find the game called iSketch
its TOTALLLLY fun and a lot of other people play it too so you can talk to them while you're playing it!
hope that helps! bye!


I like this boy a lot..hes constantly all i think about..he almost seems perfect to me ...like nothing is wrong with him..and although everyone has imperfections i just dont see them..well he knows i like him but he doesnt know that i think hes like perfect , but he just doesnt seeem to care or anything..he has a girlfriend but they been goin out for like 1 week..i just want him to care that i like him and not hurt me and like rub in my face that he has a girlfriend..so what do i do?

I rate 5 for any help (link)
aw wow I know how you feel too!!!!! EXCACTLY..i should use my own advice after i write this
try to get them to break up if you can..lol
and also..if hes single or not, just tell him face to face how you feel. It might make him feel different about YOU and things will change.
hope i helped!


I am male/14

Next year I'm starting high school. Everyone who goes to my school now is going to another highschool than I am. Should I be worried about starting all over? I mean, I'm going to be losing a lot of friends soon. It's just going to be sad on the last day of school when I have to say good bye to all my friends. Help me Please! (link)
Okay all your friends from 8th grade you could hang out with on the weekends, and at events and crap. Also meeting new people and making new friends is really fun, I switched to a new school this year and I'm friends with everyone in the grade and I still keep in touch with my friends at my old school.
So don't worry! You will still be friends with them unless they're the kind of people that are retarded say "We aren't friends anymore because we don't hang out anymore" pshhhhhhhh.


what are kenkles? everyone i know says like old fat woman have kenkles but i dont know what they are besides that they describle your ankles (link)
Haha, it's Cankles. It's basically when like you have short legs, but your calves & ankles are connected, usually you'd only say this to a short, overweight person. :)


i noticed that a lot of girls eyeliners stay on for hours at a time w/o applying it more than once. How do they do it? because i always have to apply mine bout every 30 mins. Thanks!! (link)
only search advicenators.com


As for the eyeliner not staying on long, you need to get a really good eyeliner. My friends use the $.99 cent ones you can get from Wal-mart. But they don't stay on long, I suggest the brand Rimmel. It has really good eyeliner, and from personal use I can say it'll easily stay on for hours. :)


ok yes i know i am a little late but everytime i went to get my bf something for christmas he ALWAYS stopped me he doesnt want me to get him anything. for the pest week i have been tryin to figure it.yeserday was at best buy and was goin to get him a cd and right when i touched the cd he called and basically found out again that i was gettin him something and he wouldnt tell me what CD he wanted. so now i want ur guys help..

1) chamilonare

2) 50 cent the massacare

3) the game


or if you guys have any other ideas i would appericate it. and please no stupid answers or i will report you. (link)
If I were in your situation, I'd get him a $20 gift card for best buy, so he can pick his own cd. Just put it in a Christmas card, and he won't be expecting something inside of it, but then he'll see the gift card. =]

If you want to pick a CD I probably would pick 50 Cent; The Massacre, because I heard that, that CD is definately the best. =] & All of my friends who have it, never regret getting it. :)


I discharge so much its just disgusting. I've already started my period. Sometimes in the middle of the night I will wake up and have to change my underwear cause I disharge alot. Is there anything I can do? I hate always feeling "wet" (link)
I have the same problem! Ugh, it`s awful and I know what you mean. I just went to the gyno the other day, and she prescribed me these pills called "Flagyl" because I had BV which is an infection down-below. You can`t just buy them from the store though, you actually have to go to the doctors to be able to get them. Some girls have discharge more than others and some will permanently have it. I do, and it`s awful but it`s worse some days more than others. I suggest you try pantyliners. =] But, if it starts getting itchy or it starts smelling, you should tell your mother. Or, you could tell her now & see what she says! It could be hereditary. =[


My boyfriend hasnt talked to me for like three days. he wont answer my texts or anything so i decided i was going to go to his house and make him talk to me and tell me what was going on so...I txted him and told him that i was coming to his house and he was like no and i was like yea what ever im coming and i only told him so that way if he wasnt there he would tell me before i got to his house so then he told me that he was going to lock the doors so i couldnt get in then i told him that i was going to knock and he said his mom wouldnt let me in then i was like ill tell her its important and he was like no and i was like yea and then i was like corey are we breaking up and hes like 'i dont know' and i was like how dont you know and he was like ya i guess i was like omg are you for real ad he didnt say anything then i got really pissed off and walked my ass over to his house...not good...i was like corey whats going on and he said he didnt know if he wanted to break up with me but he liked the way it felt to not have to talk to someone everynight...i was sitting there thinking you dont talk to me every night you havent talked to me for three days!! but i love this boy so much and we didnt even fight so i dont know why this was so random? should i just let it go or should i try to get him back? and how do i do that if yes

15F (link)
Personally, if I were you, I wouldn`t.

He seems immature, like he can`t even make up his mind about having a relationship with you, and if he has to think about that, then I don`t think he`s worth anything. =[ You should let him go though, in my opinion.

If you really wanted to get him back, like if you are madly in love with this guy, you should write him a letter. Explaining all the feelings you have towards him, and how much it`ll hurt you if you find out that your relationship is over. Explain how much you love him & how much you want to be with him and how you can`t see your life without him. =]




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