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I am 15, and want to make some money.

I live in TX, if it helps. ( I don't know if there are specific child labor laws for TX or not )

Anyways I babysit whenever possible and my name/number in the neighboorhood "Teen Listings" for babysitters, dogwalkers, ect and I said I was a babysitter. But people don't call very often, because they don't like to call strangers and I don't blame them.

I'm at a loss of things to do to make money besides babysitting and odd jobs for neighbors! Help! (link)
The only thing I can really think of is to ask your parents' friends, your family members, etc., if there are any small jobs you can help with at their places of business. Where I live, the age you have to be is 15. I'm not sure what it is in TX, but you should definitely find out. I hope this helped a little? Good luck. :)


Ive noticed that every one talks about something called AIM..what is it? and how do i get in on it? (link)
are you serious? lmfao.

omgsh haha i got a 1 because i laughed. im sorry. its a thing that you talk to people on over the computer.. www.aim.com


I recently found out that one of my best friends has eye cancer. If it spreads to her brain, which it probably will within the next year, she'll die. She refuses to do anything about it, surgery or chemo, and is just giving up. I've tried to convince her to do something, and she won't listen. What should I do? (link)
well, if you can't convince her to do anything, don't keep pressuring her to do it,
you'll just lose her as a friend. instead, show her a hell of a life, and have as much fun as possible with her.
make her have the best llife that she'll always remember!


im 15f. im falling for my best friend; weve known each other for 4 years; hes 16m

i dont knoe if he feels the same way about me n im to scared to let him no how i feel

lately hes been saying really sexual things 2 me and he wants to have sex with me; i told him maybe but im not sure

we never hang out n person becuas im always busy so we only talk on comp

do you think he just wants 2 be friends with benefits and thats all nothing more? n do you think i shuld jus give in n have sex with him if thats all hes lookin 4? (link)
i don't know the guy personally, so i couldnt give you an exact answer..
but, it sounds like all he wants is to be friends with benefits, nothing else..
i don't think you should give in and have sex with him, because that is all hes looking for
and if you do i know you'll regret it. you shouldn't be pressured into doing something
because this guy wants to be friends with benefits. sorry i couldn't help more!

oh, btw, if your best friends, how come you only talk on the computer?


okay i have pin straight hair but i want to make my hair curly not crunchy and hard looking but curly and silky and soft without all that hard crunchy stuff from mousse and hairspray and gel how can i make my hair look like this girls?

http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=7854299

you wont be able to see the picture of this girl with curly hair unles you have a myspace (link)
well hair curlers & then you can use a curling iron.
yeahh :)


what does it mean when you stick your tongue inbetween two fingers????

please i want to know and im to embaressed to ask my friends because everyone 'should' know at my age to them.

13/f btw. (link)
guy performing oral on a girl (aka "eating pussy")


what does this man? its in french
vous êtes la chose la plus étonnante que j'ai jamais vue (link)
you are the most amazing thing i've ever seen


14/f
Hi, my name is Ali. My mom is taking me to a hair salon to get my highlights touched up. I have dirty blonde hair and blonde highlights. Could someone please give me ideas on what else I could do to my hair. Like maybe dye it or add different color highlights. If you want a picture of me just ask.

thanks in advance =) (link)
a few red highlights would make blonde hair always look good (strawberry blonde). i dont think you should dye it at all, because being blonde is nice (unless your not natural?..) or you could get a few, REAAlLY thing, barley noticeable brown highlights, because they make blonde hair look blonder
AliciA


what is a milf
and
what is a unic (i kno they say it in pirates fo the carribean) (link)
mom id like to fuck
no testicles


i need some cute love quotes for my portfolio for school. it's a project on what we love most about life..and of course...i chose love..but the thing is i cannot find any cute love quotes..please help..
i rate 5's for good quotes or sites to the quotes

thanks =]

(link)
Love - an emotion,
the ability to trust,
a constant affection,
dedication to each other

I


im 14/f and i want to get a job but i dont know any. i tried looking it up on the internet but i didnt get anything ill rate 5! and leave good comments! thanks so much! (link)
I'm sorry to tell you but the only job you can probably get when you're 14 is babysitting or running errands. Most places hire you when you're 15 or older. I think it's required that you have to be 15. I know, it sucks when you need money and you can't find any jobs or whatever. You can shovel people's snow, babysit their kids, and you know, jobs like that. I hope I helped. Good luck with earning some extra cash:)


Mrs. S

I've had the same best friend since third grade and we're now in the tenth grade. Lately it seems like I'm looseing her. She's been hanging out with 2 of her other good friends and she always makes plans with them instead of me. And since shes been hanging out with them shes tried smoking, and the other night she called me at 2am beyond drunk from some guys house that she didnt know (the other 2 girls knew him though) and i dont know what else they were doing that night. i know one of the girls is a regular smoker and smokes weed as well, and my friend always tells me how she thinks its disgusting and how if i ever did it she would be so mad at me (it meaning smoking cigarettes or pot)and im wondering why she doesnt complain when they do it as opposed to me. And i was also wanting to know maybe why she doesnt want to hang out with me as much anymore.

(if this doesnt make much sense im sorry)

thanks Mrs. S! (link)
I'm really sorry. I can tell how broken hearted you are over all this.
This is the most common advice I get asked though. If you have time, read back through some of the other questions like yours and the answers I've given. They all have a slightly different story but they are basically about friends going down different paths and how painful it is when it happens.
This is one of the hardest parts of highschool. Even I had a bff that I lost in HS. We did everything together in middle school. We had all honors classes and athletics together, we dressed alike, etc. But in high school, she decided I was a prude. She started having sex and hanging out with a completely different crowd. At first, I wanted to hold on to our friendship so bad that I even considered conforming to her new lifestyle but I just couldn't go through with it and I had to let her go. It was so weird to have this good friend suddenly seem like a stranger to me. But today, I see how her life turned out and I know I made the right decision to let her go because it's not the life I would have wanted for myself (BTW - She seems quite content with her life so she probably looks at MY life as undesirable as well)


Going down different paths is inevitable.
Change is part of life.
Sometimes it seems horrible when it's happening but follow your heart and follow your OWN beliefs and you will find happiness (it just may not be where you expected.)
Stay true to your own self and find others with your common beliefs and you will have no regrets.
Let me know if this helps.
Love, Mrs S


I'm 5'2" and weigh about 105 pounds. I am perfectly aware that I am NOT overweight. If anything, I am a few pounds underweight, and have no plans to lose weight. I have never been self concious about my weight.

Why do these girls who weigh even less than me and are taller than me insist on obsessing about losing weight!? Day after day I see these questions. "I weigh 50 pounds and am about 6 feet, am I fat like OMGZ?!?!" (Obvious exaggeration, you get the point.) What is wrong with everyone??... I don't want to hear that BS about "oh the media blah blah"... everyone blames EVERYTHING on the media. Why are all these little girls so freakin' impressionable?! I was never so impressionable to feel fat just because there was some anorexic model on the cover of some magazine. I think it's pathetic. Why are people like this? (link)
I dont think the media has much todo with it (I believe it partly influences it)
Some people dont as self concious as you do. Some people may truely believe they fat all on there own. so in order to them to "look good" loosing weight seems to be the "perfect solution". Not every body is as lucky as you to feel so concious about themselfs.


Me and my girlfriend have been seriously dating for almost 3 years. 8 years before I met her, she became friends with an exchange student from Belgium. She had a big crush on him, however nothing romantically happened. Last week he was in town and needed some 1 to go to Orlando Florida with him, my girlfriend and her brother agreed to go with him. At the end, her brother wasent able to go, so she ended going with this guy by herself. I trust my girlfriend 100 percent, however, the thought of her willingly going, while fully aware of my negative feelings towards this so called "friends" trip has been driving me crazy. Ive asked around and the answer I always get is " get rid of her". My question is, do I have the right to feel mad, disrespected and betrayed by my girlfriends actions, what should I do? (link)
I'd be extremely mad. If she knows your feeling she should respect them alot more then that.
So yes, you do have a right to feel mad, disrespected, and betrayed.



Okay, so, I might be having sex for the first time in a few days, and I'm wondering, should I be shaved...down there... or not?
And please, I dont need the "If he loves you for who you are inside he wont care" bit, so leave that out and give me a straight awnser... thanks :-)
Ah yes, and I'm a girl. (link)
If depends- do you think you should?
Theres not perfect answer to it.
Its what you feel confortable with.


I wear makeup to hide ugly scars on my face. With my makeup on no one ever knows that I have them. Only my family has ever seen me without my makeup. My boyfriend of one year is getting fed up with me. He cant accept the fact that he cant see me as sporadically as he'd like. When he comes over unannounced I make him wait 10 or 20 mins while I fix myself up. He says that he loves me no matter what.. and yet he is always saying the best thing about me is my beauty. Should I reveal to him how I truly look and risk losing him? Or save face and let him be upset? (link)
I feel almost a bit sorry that you feel the need to cover up "your ugly scars" but i know how it feels without makeup you dont feel "pretty" as you could. Same with me, only i have major acne, really bad and i used makeup to cover it. If he says he doesnt care what you will look like without makeup, on..then you should show him, and tell him how they got there. if he is able to go a year a with you, and gets up over scars on your face, he isnt work so much trouble, for you. I bet you he will love you still, but show them to him. good luck


i am a 15 year old female and i no for sure that im ready to have sex.i no that seems alittle young but im mature for my age.the thing is i was kind of going out with this guy but not really.and i was ready to be intimate with hi but i didnt no what to say ti him. i felt ready because i was falling in love. but now we arent talking anymore.and i still am ready but now i dont no who.and i dont want to get a bf and have sex with hi after a day of going with him.should i get a new man and wait till it feels right with him.or go back to my old beau(boyfriend) (link)
If your going to pop your cherry early. Atleast love the guy, make it special.
wait for a good guy to come along :/


hi i'm 13 years old and i've never had a boyfirend in my life! nor have i kissed one either..like anywhere! the farthest i've ever gone is slow dancing..but i dont want that. no guy has ever asked me out before. i know a few that has had a crush on me, but i dont like them back..plus i dont even know where a few of them are now anyways. but i really want a boyfriend! i dont want to WAIT for the RIGHT TIME to come! i just want like some puppy love..i just wnat to get kissed =/ everyone else has been kissed except me. it's so pathetic. i'm really embarassed for asking this. and this isnt normal either..by age 13 like all girls have been kissed already. well anyways..thanks for reading this bye (link)
This is such a sweet...uh...well it's not really a question....(?) So what do you want me to say? lol


All girls want their prince charming and to be infatuated and to have a guy make you feel special!
But 13 is not that old. I was older than that when I had MY first kiss. Don't be in such a hurry to grow up. When you stop looking, the right guy always seems to find you...good luck and keep me posted on your quest. Love, Mrs S


hey im a guy...and no im not planning on getting an abortion. i was just wondering something: why is it that girls/women abort children instead of adopt them? i know there are plenty of reasons why, but is there one (or more) that would overshadow the case of giving birth then putting the baby up for adoption. looking for a girls point of view on this, because even if the girl didn't want the baby, would there be something wrong in giving it away instead of killing it? thanks, will rate. (link)
My friends cousin, Who was 14, got pregnet.
She is not rich- And she and her family struggle much with money. She got an abortion beacause SHE thought the baby wouldn't be able to live how they do, and make them struggle, and the baby suffer. SHE thought it be too hard to give up her baby. so she did it.
im 100% against abortions but, you know i've never been in the spot before.


My friend and I were argueing over a weird topic.

If someone has anal sex, are they still considered a virgin?
It's a type of sex, but its still not really sex cuz its anal.

I really dont know.
Are they still considered a virgin? (link)
No.
Inless too gay guys are having it.




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