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hi:) ive been txting and hanging out with this boy and i cant figure out where we are in our relationship nd ive asked him before and he just said lets hangout some more an well see but our relationship has gotten a lot deeper now and i really like him a lot and i dont know what to think. if anyone has any advice to give its greatly apprciated...thanks :)
Sounds like he is taking it a step at a time. If your relationship has got stronger then just ask him. You do not want him leading you on or anything.
I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year now and we havent been using a condom just the pull out method which I know isnt safe. I have tried birth control but it just makes me so sick I cant handle it. I asked him the other day if we could start using condoms because we have been going through some very rough patched in our relationship (he cheated) and I am trying to give him a chance to prove to me that he wont do it again but I DO NOT want to get pregnant right now we are not ready. So when I asked him to wear them he refused said that he will not wear them and its because he will not enjoy sex at all. He just said that I should go on birth control....he doesnt understand that I have tried too. He also got mad and said I guess we wont have sex then. I don't know if I should be upset or understand how he feels. Am I being selfish for thinking that he is not respecting me as his girlfriend? Please help!
If you do not want to get pregnant then I highly advise you to seek another option for birth control.
There are IUD, Birth control shot, pills, rings. So many options.
I can almost promise you if you do not use more protection you WILL end up pregnant. Also, I would seriously think about birth control seeing considering he has already cheated once before...you can forgive but don't ever forget.
You have the right to protect yourself, also he is the one being selfish.
Well to just put it out there...why are you with this guy? He is being selfish and thick headed. Find someone who will value your feelings not guilt trip you into giving in. The hell with him
I've been with my boyfriend for four years now. He has been having trouble getting me a gift (or so he says). He talked to his brother who said 'get her an engagement ring already'. He told me this too. Then he talked to his aunt and she said the same thing...and he said he was working on it. Mind you he told me about these conversations for some reason...as to get my reaction maybe? Anyway I got a text from him and his brother asking me my ring size...what do you think is going on? Opinions?
He had said awhile ago he wanted to wait for a little...I'm so confused not sure how to feel!
Probably planning on proposing for Christmas but his conversations pretty much blew the whole point of surprising someone... =\
I believe he should of planned this out without actually telling you.
Me and my boyfriend have been having sex I am 16 yrs old and he cum in me twice ... I have been feeling dizzy with headaches, and want to throw up most of the times, but my pregnancy test from the pharmacy came out negative. How can I get pregnant? what is the reason why I am be feeling like this? . Am I pregnant ?
You are not ready. Like we said before and 19 is too old for you.
i am a male in my early 20s and i have a very weird fetish that i dont know what to do about it. ok here it goes... i have a bald women fetish. sometimes i go on the internet looking for videos, pictures, and stories of women shaving thier heads completly bald. i dont what to do. i feel like a complte weirdo every time i look up stuff but i cant help it. and i dont think i will ever be able to be in a meaningful relationship because of it. i feel very conflicted because i also love long hair on girls. i dont know what i should do about this. i just hate feeling dirty and like a creep.
You are not weird or odd in anyway. Like ninja said below everyone likes there own thing. I sure have my weird quirks. This doesn't mean there is something wrong with you.
Sorry to say but your perfectly normal
Well I am a female im 17 and I have soon to be 19 year old boyfriend. We have been goin out for 3 years and 11 months. We talk about getting married and everything else
This would depend on several factors. A child deserves to be bought into the world with people who can properly care and love that child.
1. A steady income
2. Your own car
3. Your own place
4. A full time job on both parties and have at least 3k saved up
In my personal opinion it may be almost 4 years but fact is you and him are both way too young and not ready. It is crazy to even be discussing these topics.
heey, my name is Jasmine, I'm 13 and I think I'm starting my period...
I'm going for a school trip to the swimming pool,and I think I might actually get it while I'm there, or at least I'm really scared I will get it like in the water and everyone is going to see it :(
I read that it is unhealthy to put in a tampon without your period.. but I don't know if I should anyway...
I have most of the symptoms- really bad cramping in my lower stomach, I have had that for about a month and a half maybe, I have tender breasts, I have hair down there.. but I don't much armpit hair, like only just a few black strands, I have pretty heavy discharge, and I have a few tiny spots or red, which I'm guessing is blood.. but I have only had them for a few days, and there is only like one or two dots..
WHAT DO I DO, AND WHEN DO YOU THINK I WILL GET IT?!?!?!?!?!?!?!
You are getting your period sweetie. These symptoms are very normal when the time of the month comes.
For swimming you may want to read about the menstrual cups. They sell them at Walmart too near the isle of tampons and pads. http://www.softcup.com
How do i make it up to my sister? She's 4 years older than me ..we were watching a talent show on tv and i started singing along in a lousy voice ...my sister was so angry and yelled at me that i am annoying and she hates me...how do i apologize but not making it to obvious (we have a complicated relationship) p.s. i'm 13 years old
The first step is learning to except your sister for who she is. Your sister may not be perfect but she is who she is.
If you feel more comfortable you could write her a letter.
or is that too enabling or encouraging?
my 22 year old daughter is incarcerated for a year for fraud charges. I am unable to have much sympathy for her about this because she committed a crime even though I never told her it was OK to participate in illegal activities, embarrassed herself and her entire family, set a bad example for her younger sister, and this is her punishment and maybe it will be a good learning experience and toughen her up.
I wonder if I should visit her. I hear it may take a month to get visits. Is visiting also something that should be encouraged or is it seen as too enabling or encouraging to the person inside. I don't want to give anyone (especially her younger sibling) the idea I support criminal activity.
is there an account that she needs money on or something? Is it for necessities or for some luxury items? If only for luxury items I am not sure if I should send anything since I don't have the desire to make the stay all cushy for her.
anything else I should tell her? Maybe she can get some job inside or something?
This is a tough question
I personally would visit but I wouldn't make it a luxury visit. I may give her a letter expressing my disappointment and wishes on how she will better herself for her and her family's sake. Express how you and her mother will not always be around and she needs to take responsibility as an adult and set better examples for herself. I would not bring any items as many things are restricted anyway, you also don't want her to think or expect if you ever visit her again. You can express your feelings without giving her sympathy. I would be expressing more disappointment if anything
does the NoNo really work and remove hair for women and make it thinner? if so i saw its $104 dollars online does anyone know if is at a cheaper price online? thankyou
Even if it did I certainly would not pay $104.00 for it. That is way to much
THIS IS A LONG ONE! SORRY, PLEASE RESPOND!!!!
Im just feeling so overwhelmed. I have a short fuse and my tempers flare. Im emotional and my blood pressure does rise and its always high because of my emotional being. This week I had a lot to do. Im a freshman in highschool and middle school never prepares you for the work. So I'm still getting the hang of it. I did tutorials afterschool to bring my algebra grade up because I do not want to fail first semester while simultaneously trying to do debate. That didn't work out well because that class is very extracurricular and I have no ride lets put it that way. Anyway, as soon as I got a hang of it, I couldn't go to any tournament because I failed algebra on my last report card. So now I'm bringing it up. We have novice night next week which is the same afternoon as my test to bring up algebra. I can't get out of that. So I guess I will fail Debate then. By January I could get kicked out of debate. My fear is being moved to prof com. I already took that class and have credits for it. I'm overwhelmed with trying to please my mom but I never wanted to truly do debate anyway and i'm afraid to tell her I will nto be returning sophmore year. On top of that. This is Friday afternoon and I've been feeling very anxious and stressed since August. I had a mini breakdown this afternoon when I discovered my mom is home today. My mom is not an easy person to deal with and I will leave it at that. So I cried because I know how much she thrives on drama. (who can blame her, everything she's dealt with throughtout the years...its been a lot.) So yeah. 30 minutes ago, as soon as I'm about to take a nap to sleep my stress off, she comes upstairs and tells me and my sister who's a senior, that our dad called and he could potentially want to speak to us. I instantly got mad because for one, he has a bunch of kids, 2. He's never been there, and 3 I dont want to speak to him and not know what to expect, and 4. I AM STRESSED...SOON I COULD BREAK and that is unpredictable given I am his daughter and there emo genes aren't that bright. So I started crying out of fustration again. This day was almost okay until I got home. Now I can't relax because my mother is home. she was home the entire thanksgiving break and she is home now. I feel so stressed I need a break. I just want to get through with highschool and move on to college where you still work, but can chill out a bit. Please advice.? Tell me what you think is wrong with me?
Breathe
If you believe your anger is uncontrollable you could look into anger management classes
If you are struggling with algebra then you could ask your teacher if he can help you find a mentor. High school does have ways around it and help is offered if you ask for it.
Also if you feel the need to talk to someone you could look into getting s therapist or even guidance counselors can help.
There is nothing wrong with you at all! I went through my issues when I was in high school too. First year is usually the toughest
Ok if anyone get this. i am wanting you know you stick like your hand in like a mold and it get harden in 30 second or so. i want make homemade of it and i can't think of name i know it kinda like cement but they have something else it like clay like
Pottery ;)
Okay well I'm 12 and I really like this guy he's 18 don't say he's to old because I'll never date him obviously me and him used to be really close but he sent me a pic of him in his underwear and told me to send 1 to him but didn't want to so I told his girlfriend(my role model she's 16)he found out and is telling me I must leave him alone and never talk to him again. How can I make it that me and him talk again? He told me the only way is to send a pic in my underwear but I don't want to :(
That is wrong of what he is doing
1, you are a minor, he is now in possession of child pornography.
2, even his 16 year old girlfriend...she is also a minor and too young for him.
3, he isn't being your friend. This man is harassing you and you NEED to let your parents know. This is a red flag and very wrong!
Stop talking too him, he is being a creep.
Hi, im a 13 year old girl. My friend (guy) & i were txting the other night. I asked him if he was mad at me like 3 times & he said we r not friends anymore bc im trying to make him mad (i wasnt) He cussed at me and then i cussed him out and then he cussed at me again and called me a hoe.... Today at skewl he avoided my eyes & i did the same, didnt talk to him but once mentioning that he called me a hoe.Plus in 1st period a friend (guy) yelled across the room that my other friend (the guy i was txting) likes me & he started blushing. p.s. he isnt txting me right now :\
Whether he did like you or not why in the world would you think about dating someone who calls you a hoe? Even if he used to be your friend, that is very rude and immature on how he acted.
Just because someone shouted he liked you doesn't always mean its true. Sorry to disappoint you but he could of very well blushed out of embarrassment not lust.
Everytime I try to use google chrome it says it has encountered a problem and it closes. Finally when I get to use it, It won't load any websites I type in the address bar. This has been happening for days now. Right when I click something in a webpage, it will say at the top "Chrome is not responding". Sometimes it won't even load the home page. I tried uninstalling and reinstalling it, but it keeps doing the same thing. What is wrong with google chrome?
If it is giving you the message that Chrome me is not responding then it is not Google Chrome. That would be your connection. If you are wireless you need to go into the wireless settings in the control panel (start-control panel network wireless.) And reconnect. If a connection has a lock beside it then it requires a password if not then you can use the connection.
I think i just made a big mistake im a boy who just fell victim to hormones yes i used a condom but im 12 is this bad?
Sex at 12 is too young in my opinion. I would hold off until you are at least 16. Or better yet when you found the person you love and can see yourself with for a very long time.
I am 16 years old girl and my boyfriend is almost 19, we are both not virgins but yet it is our first time together. I want to get pregnant but he wants to use a condom. Is there a way for me to get pregnant even though he is gonna wear a condom?
Are you kidding me?
You want to trick someone into having sex with you so you can have a child?
You are too YOUNG to be thinking of having a baby. Also, it is wrong for a 19 year old man to be dating s 16 year old.
Let me ask you...
Do you have a full time job? Own your own place and car? Do you pay your own bills?
Fact is you are not ready. If you think a 19 year old is older enough to be a father then you have some serious thinking to do. Smarten up!!!!!!!!
Okay so i really just need to know the dating laws here. Im 14 and im inlove with a guy whos 18. We decided to wait until i was 16, because were pretty sure thats the legal age, But i need to know the whole law system for dating. Please and thanks(:
Laws depend on the state and many require 18 as an adult.
I know you do not want too hear but he is too old for you. This man can get in trouble and be forced to register as a sex offender if he were ever to have a relationship with you. Also on a side note, there is something wrong when an 18 year old man takes an interest in someone who is 14 that's wrong. The guy is by law an adult who should be dating someone who is his own age not someone who has another 4 years before they hit adulthood. Fact is you are a minor and you are still a young teen. Stay away from that
One of my good friends started talking to this guy on Facebook who claims to be from Europe and famous in Europe. She showed him to me today and I just get a weird vibe from him and when I mentioned this to her she got mad at me. Does anyone have any idea who this may be? Is he famous in Europe? He looks like he might be in a band but I dunno, I don't want her to get messed with by a fake and she doesn't seem willing to listen to me.
http://tinypic.com/r/3504glt/6
Giving what Russian said I would also go with suspicious.
9 times out 10 its a fake profile.
hi, we have been together for a 3 and half years now. we love each other and we live together. he's a single father and he has a kid with his ex girlfriend. it's just that sometimes when i hint him to buying me a ring or does he see me marrying me in the future he always replies by saying, ''u never know'' or he just changes the subject with a smile, which i don't understand. i'm thinking now, he's not that serious about me even though he says he loves me and sees us in the future. so, guys if a guys changes a subject, what exactly does he thinking? thanks
You are over thinking. If he changes the subject then he doesn't want to talk about it.