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Im 17 and I want a family
Well I am a female im 17 and I have soon to be 19 year old boyfriend. We have been goin out for 3 years and 11 months. We talk about getting married and everything else<3 lol. We are so inlove with eachother:). My family and friends met him and they love him:) but For the past couple of months I have been under goin a lot of problems. My boyfriend and I have been talking about having a baby on his birthday in january. We really want a family we picked out the name and all .. but im not sure what road to take:/.help me lol
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you need to think bout food and money and how comfortably hes going to live.
but having a family is really great.
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That's great that you two are so in love and want to spend the rest of your lives together but why rush it? You have a lot of time to start a family together. But most importantly is you need to know what your future plans are and you need to be financially stable before having a child.
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This would depend on several factors. A child deserves to be bought into the world with people who can properly care and love that child.
1. A steady income
2. Your own car
3. Your own place
4. A full time job on both parties and have at least 3k saved up
In my personal opinion it may be almost 4 years but fact is you and him are both way too young and not ready. It is crazy to even be discussing these topics.
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Because your so young you want to make sure you are ready for this. Talk about it with you friends family. Make sure this is the right step you want to take right now. A secure income is very important on both sides of the relationship.
A Baby is very very expensive. I would research your Expenses with a new born and make sure you two can afford this new step in your future.
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