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have a weird fetish and i have no clue what to do about it
i am a male in my early 20s and i have a very weird fetish that i dont know what to do about it. ok here it goes... i have a bald women fetish. sometimes i go on the internet looking for videos, pictures, and stories of women shaving thier heads completly bald. i dont what to do. i feel like a complte weirdo every time i look up stuff but i cant help it. and i dont think i will ever be able to be in a meaningful relationship because of it. i feel very conflicted because i also love long hair on girls. i dont know what i should do about this. i just hate feeling dirty and like a creep.
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Relax. Different strokes for different folks. In the continuum of possible fetishes, this one is pretty benign. Certainly, a bald hairstyle (can I really call it that?) would be hella easy to maintain. I don't think too many women would find it creepy.
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That's pretty tame as far as fetishes go, and completely harmless. ;)
Don't worry about it, you're not a creep and you're not dirty just because a bald head turns you on. You might be surprised at the number of "ordinary" people who have a fetish that they hide from the rest of the world...everybody's got something.
As far as how you can be in a meaningful relationship -- you can take one of two routes. You can either keep it a secret (pretty harmless, even if at some point you're discovered), or you can be completely open with the person you're with. Hey, maybe a girl's not willing to shave her head for you, but there are always bald caps. And after you confess, maybe she'll feel more comfortable sharing one of her fantasies with you. =) I don't think anyone, including romantic interests, will see you as a creep.
Hope this helps!
~Pollux
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Im 13 andi used to have a fetish for dead people well, the autopsy
I know weird right ahaha
I suggest using something else to distract u from it
After a while from finding something else MORE intersting it went away
And then i saw something like - extremely horifying
Yeah- that dead people fetish is llllooonnnngggg gone now
Best of wishes : )
-Anonymus
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You are not weird or odd in anyway. Like ninja said below everyone likes there own thing. I sure have my weird quirks. This doesn't mean there is something wrong with you.
Sorry to say but your perfectly normal
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Don't feel weird. Everyone has their own quirks when it comes to what they like, and yours is incredibly harmless so long as it's not interfering with your ability to connect with people.
Just because your particular tastes lean to the unconventional doesn't make you a creep or a weirdo. It's not a symptom of mental breakdown or illness. You just know what you like, and what you like is bald ladies. I dated a guy who had a thing for super morbidly obese women once. Unconventional? Yes. But I wouldn't have called him weird.
You might even find that you're able to have more meaningful relationships, oddly enough. I have a friend who buzzes her head on a regular basis, and she finds that most men are put off. So you have an advantage: if you do meet an attractive woman with her head shaved, you won't be held back by the lack of hair!
In the end, when it comes to having a meaningful relationship, looks don't matter a whole bunch. Even if you don't end up with your physical ideal (and who does, really?) you'll end up with a lovely lady who is right for you.
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