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"is it bad to have sex at 12"
I think i just made a big mistake im a boy who just fell victim to hormones yes i used a condom but im 12 is this bad?
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tell your parents! hopefully by this time you have brought this up to them but if you haven't you really need to. i know it sounds awkward and stupid but trust me you wont get in trouble, and they will be your best help in the long run. and yes twelve is far to young to have sex. fifteen is pushing the limit.
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Well, sex is a very big thing, at any age. I know some people would think I'm crazy for saying this, but if you have feelings for someone, and you love them, and you know that you're going to have a long relationship with them (a year or more) then I think it's not a big deal, and you should go for it, as long as you love them and care about them. Unfortunately, this isn't the case for you, it is in fact too late now, but all you can do about it now is make sure you don't have sex with anyone, unless you know you have feelings for them.
Hope all goes well. xx
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it is good you used a condom but you are so young and you shouldn't be in such a rush to grow up. If you are feeling conflicted about it, then that means maybe try and hold back next time. I know it is difficult, we all have been there, and sometimes we can't control how we feel, but trust me, you don't want to become an adult at the age of 12. if that was to happen, then be there for that young lady. I hope on some level that helps.
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Sex at 12 is too young in my opinion. I would hold off until you are at least 16. Or better yet when you found the person you love and can see yourself with for a very long time.
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12 is a very young age to loose your virginity, but with that said the 'right time' is different for everyone. Some loose it when they are teenagers, while others wait til marriage. The fact that you lost yours doesn't make you a bad person, it just means that you chose to do it before others. I am glad you used a condom, always use a condom unless you want kids.
Next time, I hope that you will wait until you find someone you truly love to have sex with and don't just have sex because your hormones want you to; You can feel guilty or mess with someones feelings/hurt them if you don't fall in love/have a long relationship with them before having sex.
So, if you love a girl and date her, then have sex and continue to date that is really good. Being in love with someone and having sex with them are two different things - do not get them confused with eachother.
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