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is he blackmailing me?
Okay well I'm 12 and I really like this guy he's 18 don't say he's to old because I'll never date him obviously me and him used to be really close but he sent me a pic of him in his underwear and told me to send 1 to him but didn't want to so I told his girlfriend(my role model she's 16)he found out and is telling me I must leave him alone and never talk to him again. How can I make it that me and him talk again? He told me the only way is to send a pic in my underwear but I don't want to :(
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That is wrong of what he is doing
1, you are a minor, he is now in possession of child pornography.
2, even his 16 year old girlfriend...she is also a minor and too young for him.
3, he isn't being your friend. This man is harassing you and you NEED to let your parents know. This is a red flag and very wrong!
Stop talking too him, he is being a creep.
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You need to talk to your parents about this. No he is not black mailing you he is sexually harassing you which is also a crime. By sending him the photo you sent he is now in possession of child pornography, also a crime. Do not send him any more pictures and do not speak, text or communicate with him anymore.
By sexually harassing you he may also be guilty of other crimes against you such as statutory rape. Statutory rape is when someone an adult which he is, has an illegal relationship with a minor which you are. Sex does not have to be involved.
You have really done nothing wrong other than to try and handle something that you are not old enough or mature enough to handle. You need to tell you parents what this adult boy is saying and asking of you and let them handle it.
This adult boy needs to be reported to the police. This is what you're parents have to do for you. You could report this on your own to the police but it would be better left to your parents to make the initial report.
Again DO NOT TALK TO HIM, DO NOT TEXT HIM AND DO NOT SEND HIM ANY PICTURES. TELL YOUR PARENTS ABOUT THIS NOW, TODAY AND LET THEM HANDLE THIS. MOST IMPORTANTLY REMEMBER YOU ARE A VICTIM AND HAVE DONE NOTHING WRONG.
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This guy is no friend of yours, he is USING you. He's 18, you're 12. Any picture you send him is child pornography. He's not really blackmailing you now, he's just trying to bribe you into sending him pictures that he WILL use to blackmail you later. He'll probably try and use pictures of you in your underwear later to blackmail you into sending him full nudes later. He could threaten to send them to everyone you both know if you don't do as he says.
DO NOT send him any more pictures. Do not continue this friendship. He doesn't care about you as a person. He just cares about your body. He's creepy, he sounds like a potential child molester.
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