about

well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




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hey, im 4'11 and im 104 pounds. i think im fat, but all my friends say im really skinny. ive got some blubber on my stomach and my thight are huge. can sombody tell what might help with my stomach and my thighs, or is that a good weight for someone my height. thanks sooo much. i rate too

try doing some sit ups and running those asre the to best things to do... lkike do 50 set ups a day and run a mile everyday. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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i recently meet this guy. hes great and i really like him but i cant stop thinking about my ex-boyfriend...i really wanna get back 2gether with him and at the same time i dont cuz he wuld always blow me off and never see me and the guy i met he likes me alot and i like him 2 and he wuld do anything for me.but everytime im with him i end upp think about muh ex...what should i doo?

you need to forget about your ex and move on. he doesnt deserve you if he doesnt treat you right. you need to go and take a chacne and go with this guy. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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hi im 13/m ive nvr made out can sum1 tell me how to kiss well?

http://www.howtokiss.info/kissing_faqs.htm

http://www.links2love.com/teens_kissing.htm

http://www.sex-project.com/kissing.shtml

http://www.virtualkiss.com/kissingschool/


hope those sites help you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Hey, I'm 14.f and something has been bugging me. So many people have been starting to have sex, and i think its like, pathetic, how can teenagers, want to give blow jobs and hand jobs, i mean hello, its kinda weird for 13-16 year olds to do that at this age in my opinion. Does anybody out there agree with me that this stuff is stupid at this age? There have been so many questions on here about sex and hand jobs and everything and i think it is plain out pathetic! Teens shouldnt be worried about that kind of stuff at this age. Does anyone out there agree with me at all?

Thanks-

i agree with you all the way. i am 14 and a virgin and i am keeping it that way and i am not planning to change it every soon. if any guy has a problem with it then they can go f**** off because i wopnt loose to a guy thta i am not going to spend a lot of time with. i think that peopel do it from ages 13-16 just to ahve fun and experment and see what it is like. even though they shouldnt do it because of the fact that they can get pregnant and then they would have to drop out of school to take care of the baby or have an abortion and which ever happens guys really dont give a fuck. (most of the time) they like to do it for there own pleasure.

*~Stephanie~*

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My boyfriend and I have this game I guess you could call it. We ask eachother questions to get to know eachother better, or just to know random facts about the other person. Most of the questions are like "What attracts you to me most?" and "What do you like most about my personality?" Stuff like that. My question is does anybody have any questions I can ask him? I am completely out of questions! Thank you! =]

what turns him on in a girl?
what is a turn off for him?
does he like it when the girl makes the first move?
what is his longest realtionship?


1. Your real name:
2. friends call you:
3 What your boyfriend/girlfriend calls you:
4 What's a name you once wished you'd rather have?:
5. What is/are the ugliest name(s) you can think of?:
6. What would you name these if you had them as pets?
a. turtle:
b. goose:
c. pirate:
d. a hot boy:
7. If there was a song about you, what would it be called?:
8. What would you name your kids?:
9. What would you name a ship you built?:
10. If you wrote a book, what would it be called?:

Have you ever...
11. Thrown up in public?:
12. Eaten or drank anything spoiled?:
13. Had a rip in your pants you didn't know about?
14. Tripped while checking someone out?:
15. Had to pay for something you broke?:
16. Nearly drowned?:
17. Passed out?:
18. Had a crush on somebody?:
19. Been stuck in the rain?:
20. Been attacked by an animal?:
21. Caught people having sex?:
22. Fallen asleep while driving?:
23. Felt attracted to someone of the same sex?:
24. Actually slipped on a banana peel?:
25. Made a wish that came true?:

Complete The Sentence
26. I once had a dream...
27. I'm only racist towards...
28. I don't even know why I'm...
29. I'd give anything to have sex with...
30. Nothing sucks more than having to...
31. If I had six bucks i'd buy...
32. It's hot. I should take off my...
33. It's always more fun if you...
34. You can't eat steak without....
35. You better shut up before I...
36. I really like you and everything but...

What would you do if...
40. A dirty old guy at the airport slaps your ass?:
41. Somebody was about to steal your car?:
42. You wake up with a billion spiders crawling all over you and your bed?:
43 You farted while giving a persuasive speech in class?:
44. The person you just kissed tells you they have oral herpes?:
45. You have three wishes?
46. The government allowed you to choose one thing to be made illegal and one thing to be legalized?:
47. Britney Spears was at your front door asking for jumper cables?:
48. You had a time machine?:
49. FOX gave you a half hour show to do whatever you wanted?:

Would you rather....
50. Would you rather find the cure for cancer or the cure for aids?:
51. Would you rather have the power to fly, or the power to teleport?:
52. Would you rather have the power to see the future, or the power to record your dreams?:
53. Would you rather be really skinny, or really fat?:
54. Would you rather be lost in a forest, or stuck in a box?:
55. Would you rather be in a drama movie, or a comedy?:
56. Would you rather be in a hip hop video or a rock video?:
57. Would you rather have your birthday on Christmas Day, or on February 29th?:
58. Would you rather live in the sewer, or in Afghanistan?:
59. Would you rather be in a mental institution or in a penitentiary?:
60. Would you rather snow board or hang glide:
61. Would you rather be a ninja or a pirate?:

What's the first thing that comes to your mind when you read the following words?
62. Courage:
63. Driver:
64. Yoga:
65. Bakery:
66. Roach:
67. Mushroom:
68. Sprung:
69. Exotic:
70. Pythagorean:

Miscellaneous
71. Construct an acronym for these words. (example: G M S = Give Me Steak)...
a. S O L R A K S:
b. E B A F S:
c. C H I N A:
d. R G P:
72. What is your definition of love?:
73. List 3 words that are clues to identifying a person you are currently interested in:
74. Reveal a secret about you that nobody knows of, but type it in acronym form:
76. Were you too scared to do it?:
77. Who or what is your worst enemy?:
78. Who is the last person you kicked?:
79. If you had to be a chess piece, which piece would you be?:
80. Name three people you know whose names begin with the first letter of your last name: 81. What's one romantic thing somebody's done for you?:

What Is Your opinion?
83. "Girls are nothing but drama.":
84. "Only idiots watch The Simpsons.":
85. "Kentucky is way better than Cali":
86. "There's nothing wrong with stealing.":
87. "Alcohol is the answer to ALL your problems.":
88. "You don't need to go to college to be a brain surgeon.":
89. "Music is stupid.":
90. "Your car sucks.":






if you need anymore all you can do is go to xanga.com and type in surveys on the search bar and those serveys have a lot of good questions that you can use. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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someone asked a question about burning windows media music to a cd.. how do you do that b/c i am so lost

ok first you have to have some kind of program like kazza or limewire to download music on it. then you need to go click on shared folders and then find the song you want to burn too the cd and left click on it and then click add to burn list. of course yo need to have a blank cd to burn all the songs to the cd but that is about it. for limewire if yoou want to add the songs you got to file explore then a folder will coem out and have all the songs you downloaded on it . there is on other thing you can do besides download music. go to singingfishc.com and try findind your song there and downloading it which take a couple minutes if you have a fats internet and the it will go to your music joke box and you can left click on it and go to proterties and then another box should open and find your song and left click on it and click add to burn list. i hope this helps you out.
if you need anything else drop it in my inbox.
*~Stephanie~*

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hey everyone! okay i was wondering how do you make layouts. I know what to do when i have someone elses layout, and i just edit theres & make it more my own. But im starting a layout xanga and i need to know how to make layouts completely. Does anyone have a code i can use and stuff? and where do you get the cute backrounds and stuff. Also, i use photobucket to put pictures up, but my pictures just turn kinda small, what do i do about that?

♥ thanks ♥

http://www.blogring.net/index.php?showtopic=3258


styling sheet ^^^


http://photobucket.com/albums/b211/lstnluv429/GLIITTER%20WORDS/?action=view¤t=GlitterAbercrombie.gif

that has some cool stuff you can use ^^^

hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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i'll be 15 in like 2 weeks.. and im going into high school. my ex boyfriend lives in another town but i see him almost everyday. he's 2 months younger than me.. well heres the 411...

i have a friend who has a step brother my age. hes never really had a girlfriend that lasted more than a day until me. much less kissed a girl. everything was perfect although a little awkeward cause im used to a guy leading the relationship. well he started listening to what other people were saying about me. and he didn't really trust me cause he has a hard time trusting people because of his past. well i spent a week with him 24/7 and he broke up with me. with the understanding that we both still liked each other. well his dad and step mom went and talked to him and he didn't talk to me at all the rest of the night i finally went home. all my friends tell me i should give up on him. and hes an asshole. but ive completely fallin for him and i haven't fell this hard since last summer. i wrote down a speech to say to him when ever i get the courage to call him. basically it says how much i like him and how he can trust me and how id love to go back out with him. ive been careful the whole relationship (3 weeks) not to say i love you. and i haven't yet. but i know i love him. i just don't know whether to live it alone or to read the speech to him. should i move on or try and get him back? please respond its very important!!!! also i don't know if he broke up with me cause i was his first girlfriend and he didn't know exactly what to do. i also don't know what his parents told him after me and him broke up! could they have ruined my chances?

love, gabby

i think you should leave him alone right now just back off if he likes you a klot he will come back to you.. this can be a lil test for him and you will know the truth about him. if he comes back and apologizes and everythign then you know he still likes yoyu a lot. you dont have to try moving on for now just try like not thinkin about ti so much. go out have fun with your friends if he doesnt call or try taslking to you for 3 weeks then you noe he isnt worth it. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok... I'm 18 yrs old... So for my question... like the beginning of this month I had a gyno appt and she told me that everything was ok... Well now.... my period is suppose to start either today... or tomorrow.... well... it kinda started today.. but its not like my regular period... I mean.. I'm hardly even bleeding at all... not like my normal one where its heavy... I was put on a Antibiotic and the doctor never told me that it could affect my birthcontrol and i never new that... and me and my boyfriend have been having unprotected sex for like 6 months now.. but ive always always gotten my period on time... and the usual everything... now i'm scared because i'm not sure.... Could I be pregnant???? ;/

there is a chance that you are pregnant and espcialy sine the bill she gave you effects the birthcontrol and you and your boyfriend have been having unprotected sex. my advice to you is to in a couple week take pregnancy test and use more condoms. as in everytime you have sex lmake him wear one. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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How do I give my boyfriend head and handjobs the right way? Whenever I do it, he doesn't cum. He doesn't seem to be enjoying himself.. How do I do it so he cums?

http://www.sex-project.com/blowjobs.shtml
and
http://www.sex-project.com/handjobs.shtml

i hope those to sites help you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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How can i burn a CD with diff. bands? Like can i do that on windows media player? Like go to CD zinc and get the songs and by the band and stuff. and burn them onto a CD? how do i go about that?

you cant burn the songs off like that ou need to download the songs you want on the cd and then burn them on a cd. and yes you can use windows midia player. if you need me to explain the whole prossecess for you drop it in my inbox and i will explain all of it to you. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok..well...my friend who i have known(he is a guy0 since before kindergarten is going out with this girl who every1 totally hates because she is like sluttish and whoreish. a lot of girls like him and he said no to all of them..except he was leading one girl on..and then he just suddenly goes out with the other girl..now everyone is mad at him bc of that..and he has been lying a lot recently. the girl who got lead on is so depressed. i dont know whether to agree with her or my guy friend. and im somehow in the middle of this. please help me sorry this is so long

torn in 2

what you should do is talk to your guy about this and ask him if this one girl is worth what he is doing to everyone else?? talk to him and see if you can maybe make a point to him. try not to be rude while talking to him because then you might ruin your friendship wit him so just explain to him what he is doing and what is happening around him. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Me and my friend both have questions:

My question: I just started going out with this guy that I have been with on and off before. We haven't seen each other all summer so we talk on the phone alot. Anyways, I don't know what to talk to him about! We both end up asking the other person what they wanna talk about and saying I don't know. Or we end up talking about "us" or something. Any ideas? I don't wanna seem boring.

My friends question: My dad is racist, and the problem is I like a guy who is partially black. When we're talking on the phone my dad always interrupts me and asks why we are talking. It's really getting on my nerves and I don't think my dad can get over this. What should I do?

Thanks!

ur furst question>>>>>>>>.

me and my boyfriend are the same way because he always talk on the phone and sometimes we run out of ideas but like yeastetday i fgound a dite that has a whole bunch of survivees like just for fun no results or anything and i would ask him a question and he would answer it..lol.. kinda of stupid but you can get to know the guy better by doing it.

your secodn question>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

my parents are the same way except for the guy that is black is my boyfriend and they cant stop me from liking who i like. my advice is to keep talking to the guy and mayb let him meet your parents and by that i mean maybe because i know for whatever reason i want my boyfriend to talk to my parents BUT i am scared of my parents reaction so yea.

hope this helps you and your friend out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Can someone please type some of the lyrics to the song with Ja Rule and Ashanti... I do not remember it at all but I remember that the video was copying Grease with Danny as Ja Rule and Sandy as Ashanti.. please help!

http://display.lyrics.astraweb.com:2000/display.cgi?ja_rule_ft_ashanti..unknown..mesmerize


there is the link for you hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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I know girls will judge another girl on their clothing, but do guys care if your not wearing abercrombie or hollister? (I know I sound very shallow thinking all guys judge on stupid things but its been bothering me) It just doesnt seem right that guys dont need to wear amercrombie but girls seem almost required to or they're pushed out. Another question, do guys prefer strait hair over curly? thanks in advance, I'll rate for anyone who can give me a decent answer.

everything i say here is from my boyfriend poitn of view. but i hope it helps you out anyways.

girls shouldnt have to wear ambrercombie and fitch and holister clothes it just shows that they are high maintence and like spending a lot of money on stuff like that. girls that wear name brand like that doesnt bother anyone just shows that they are high money spenders.

and from what i hear not only from my boyfriend but from other guys is that they like curley hair because striaght is just boring btu i person like my hair better striaght. hope this helps you out..
*~Stephanie~*

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heyy i was the girl who asked about how my friends bf was flirting with me and stuff.. he hasnt said anything lately.. should i still tell my friend about it? or just keep it quiet and wait to see if he keeps doing it... thank s

i think you should wait until he makes or trys to make another move on you. dont say anything know because maybe he got the poitn and has stopped. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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My best/only real friend just said he likes me, but i dont like him like that what do i do?

He is always depressed and i dont want to hurt him.
Help fast!

I'll rate 5's

i would have to say to you question NEVER LEAD A GUY ON it will only hurt worse. you got to tell him how you feel. you need to tell that yuou like him only as a friend nothing else. dont try telling him that you like or even you want to go out with him unless you want to hurt him worse. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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sorry this is so long

(15/f)

alright well I like this guy but he's known to just get w/ girls for sex and I know that that's true w/ some of the girls he's been with but not all of them.. I like him a lot and I always think about him and like he's one of the only guys I love to hang out with that I like... if that makes any sense... and well he was smoking in front of me and I was like THATS DISGUSTING and he was like ... well then I'll stop, just for u.. and well when ever we hang out he always like rubs my back and is really flirty and when I was drunk he helped me around (not taking advantage of me in any way) bc I couldnt walk very well and he like made sure i was ok and stuff and then the next day he asked how i felt and made sure i was ok... and well he told my brother that hes liked me since the 7th grade and he normally doesnt like girls for that long, he just fucks them and leaves them and hes always like.. i love hangin out w/ ur so awesome and its a lot of fun, and now i cant keep my mind off him and i hate being away from him...... ok well should i take a chance with him if he likes me? or just let it go?




once again... im so sorry its long..

i think all guys deserve a chance and i think you should give him a chance and you should always know this DYYOU DONT EVER HAVE TO DO SOEMTHING YOU DONT WANT TO D. if he trys to make you have sex with him then you going to slap him punch him whatver uit take for him to stop. (that id if you dont want) but rememebr he has dne many girlss and he can have aids or stds or whatever else there is out there. take a chacne and if you dont feel comfrontable with him tell him about and talk to him if he doesnt listen to you then he really isnt worth it and you should leave him and find yourself a new boyfriend. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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I was just talking to my boyfriend about how he makes me feel; wonderful, amazing, incredible, and how I wanted to make him feel that way too. Well, I got something I totally didn't expect. He told me sometimes I make him feel unwanted. I never knew this. My heart is in my stomach. I'm getting chills every other second. What do I do? How can I make him feel more wanted?

you need to talk to yourboyfriend and tell him how you feel or at leats try to. if that doesnt work try gettin him something or showing him you care. i am nto sayin have sex with him but like when going place with him get closer to him \or if you guys only kiss maybe makeout with him instead or stuff like that. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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My boyfriend and i have been talking about living together when we graduate. i thought it was all fine and dandy to talk about but then we started to pick out apartments, save up money, and pick out furniture. Now he is buying the dining set tomorrow, and the flat ware, and he's getting the living room set next week. Plus we are talking about marriage and kids. I'm still a virgin but i'm worried this'll happen sooner than we plan for. Its starting to sink in and I'm getting, idk, afraid, excited, something. I dont know. Is this bad, good, or what. I mean he isnt graduating for a year, and i'm not moving in with him for two years.........Whats going on with me? Should I call it off?

i think the best thing for you to do is talk to your boyfriend and tell him how you feel about all of this.. explain to him how your like nerves or scared or whatever. dont hold it back because you dont want to make a mistake and plus you and your boyfriend should be able to talk things out. espcially something big like moving in together. but hey i am 14 (i noe young)and madely in love wit my boyfriend and playiin to move in wit him in 4 years. (hopein the realtionship last that long..lol.. well i hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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