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is there anyway that you can be tracked on the person you looked at's myspace? ive tried that trakzor thing and it didnt work for me.. has it actually worked for anyone else?

it didn't work for me. it's not allowed on myspace anyway...

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I basically had no clue what to put this question under, but here it is.

I'm 14 years old & I've been drunk 3 times.
I'm not a bad drunk at all.
I'm a person who's wound up pretty tight & I use alchohol to do things I don't even think about doing unless I'm drunk. Not that it's bad I just don't have the guts to do anything.
I guess I'm asking if this is a bad thing.
I mean, am I like, sinning or anything?
I'm not that religious but I'm still nervous.
I only drink around family, I wouldn't think of doing it around anyone else.
And if it is bad... how can I stop?
I don't really even like alcohol, I like the effect.

Thank you.

I think you should limit it... i don't think you were "drunk" because like you said, it was around family. just don't do it. people look down on you for doing crazy things when you are drunk because we all know that people exaggerate and also, being drunk isn't an excuse for bad behavior. if you're just having a glass with your family then fine but its not like you can go out and do crazy things cuz you'll just end up looking retarded but just to do it, fine. know your limits and dont try to defy them..

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Im going to try crack or coke with my friend in a couple days for the first time so my question is, if i only do it once, what can happen? Can i form an addiction right away? Whats worse crack or coke? I'm going to try the one thats less harmful on my body. People with experience plz help. so far ive drank alcohol, smoked pot and cigarettes, and taken speed. So i know what its like to be high and drunk or whatever. pls advice ppl. thanks

I would say just don't do it. stick to the pot and alcohol if you really want a thrill. Coke and crack will just mess up you life b/c that stuff is heavy. just be safe & don't do it.

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hey im the one who asked that question, and here's the thing.. i thought your advice was pretty much perfect, until i realized.. i told her that i sent it during lunch from our school library - so i cant blame it on my firewall like i could have if i would have said i sent it form home, so what now?? =/ im so scared of this teacher its not even funny! goshh i always get myself into situations like these, i cant wait until highschool is over x( anyways, any new suggestions?? thankss!! ♥

oh... snap...
i was gonna say that it wouldnt let it because it was word prcessor instead of word but since it was at school. so you can use personal email at school? give me some more info on what kind and ill see what kind of creative excuse i can make up haha

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ok i lied to my teacher! we were supposed to give in a homework, and i was like "my printer cashed so i sent it to your email!" and she was like "stephany, i checked my email this morning there was nothing from you!" so i panicked and said "ehh.. well i sent it to you just right now, during lunch, from the library!" (i knoww, wrong! but i got scared!) and then during the lesson she was like "everyone who forgot the homework will have to send it to me through email at by the latest tonight..otherwise it will be marked late!" now its been two days since that.. so obviously im not gonna get a full grade for it, because it was late.. but i still need an excuse to avoid being embarressed when she tells me "howcome it wasn't in my inbox when you prmoised me you had sent it?" (she'll probably ask infront of the whole class, that will be so embarrising!) so what do i say? do i just lie? say "but i sent it to you!" ?

heelp me please!

oh maaann... next time, don't lie!
you could stick to your story and depending on what email service you use, you could pull it off. my school has gaggle and that acts up all the time so thats an easy one but for yahoo you could just say that it was an attatchment and that it just wouldnt go because of your virus firewall program. I'd send her an email with the assignment as a WORD file attachment like "dear whoever, here is my assignement. i realize it is late but when i rechecked my email account, it showed that the files i tried to attatch could not be read by the service provider." something liek that should work so you dont have to straight up lie in front of the class. lemme know if i can help you anymore.

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k well today i had dance practice at school for tryouts. i take dance, and it always takes me a while to learn dances. well now its even harder because we only have 3 days to learn the dance. so today we had to go into groups of 7 and do the dance in front of everyone else, and i got soo nervous and froze up and forgot basically the whole dance and i looked retarted. haha k well the tryouts are on friday, and im so scared i'm gonna freeze again. that alwayss happens to me when i'm nervous, and i don't want it to happen on friday. i reallly wanna make the dance team, so what are ways i can not be as nervous and remember the dance? thankss

no matter how bad you do, smile and look like you know what you are doing. for a show i auditioned for, the only reason i got that part was because i had good posture and a smile the whole time. so really, it works. look like you are having a good time. if you're doing the vowel faces for the team, do them the whole time and and have a blast. practice with someone after school if you can and really work on getting it down in those 3 days. hope you make it!

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Pete and I talk, and he's a pretty decent guy. He always tells me I'm hot and sexy, but he's also cool to talk to. The only problem is, he smokes pot. I would never do pot, and he knows that. I don't know if I should stop talking to him because of that or what. I also know my friends would think he was a druggie and would tell me to stop talking to him. Help?

My friend is dating a guy that does... he's a sweetie and since she doesnt smoke, he never does it in front of her and basically told her she'd never see him high. smokers aren't bad people... a lot of people think their just druggies but some you would never even know do it unless they tell people. i think you can talk to him and stuff still but really get to know his habits before you think of dating him.

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Hey I was wondering if you have like lime wire or something and if you can upload a song for me by akon called trouble nobody if you can that would be the graestest! my cmps stupid and the program i donwload music off of isnt working. my emails sacfever10@msn.com .
Thanks in advance.

hey sorry i don't have limewire or anything. i usually get stuff on xanga but i haven't seen that song on anyone's page. sorry!

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Is it appropriate for my 12 year old 7th grade sister to wear a little makeup for when she cheerleads at football games. If so, what kind?

for a 12 year old, don't use foundation... just mascara, eyeliner, lip shine and maybe eyeshadow. you can use foundation on the eyelids so it wont crease but otherwise, save that for later on. she wont need blush since she'll probably be out in the sun/heat.

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well im 14 and hes 15. I really dont care if anyone tells me im too young for sex, he didnt push me into it or anything we were both ready. well my mom really doesnt like him because she thinks im too high maintence for him. she thinks i deserve way better. he is kinda poor and his family struggles. he is a little thug and she doesnt like that. but he wouldnt hurt me. well my mom doesnt let me see or talk to him. what should i do. i really do love him. plus before we were going out we were like the greatest of friends since 6th and now im in 9th.

well i'm not gonna judge your relationship by your age... just wondering if you guys drive because then the parents really can't control it. why not just stay friends and maybe your mom will like him better later on that way. usually moms do know best tho.. i was 14 once too. every mom wants the best for their daughters so maybe you should take it into consideration but i say follow your heart. there's not much else you can do.

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HEY WELL I HAVE THIS ONE BOYFRIEND AND ME AND CARLOS HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 6 M0NTHS AND LIKE A WEEK. WEVE BEEN THR0UGH S0 MUCH. iVE ALREADY HAD SEX WiTH HiM. WE WERE B0TH READY. AND 0UR PARENTS N0 AB0UT iT T00. i L0VE HiM S0 MUCH AND HE FEELS THE SAME WAY AB0UT ME T00. BUT THE THiNGS iS MY M0M REALLY THiNKS i DESERVE BETTER THAN HiM AND SHE D0ESNT APPR0VE 0F HiM. iM N0T G0iNG T0 LiSTEN T0 HER. iM N0T ALL0WED T0 TALK T0 HiM 0N THE PH0NE 0R ANYTHiNG AND HE D0ESNT G0 T0 MY SCH00L. S0 0NE DAY i CALLED AND T0LD hIM i C0ULDNT BE WiTH HiM iF iT WAS G)ING T0 BE LiKE THiS AND HE STARTED CRYiNG. iT BR0KE MY HEART. i L0VE HiM S0 MUCH BUT i D0NT KN0W iF i SH0ULD JUST LET iT G0? PLUS HE iS VERRY 0VER PR0TECTiVE.
WHAT SH0ULD i D0??

well maybe your parents have a reason not to like him but who knows. i don't really know enough about your family and this guy to really say one side is wrong. it also depends on how old you are.get back to me with some more info and i will try to help.

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Hi...I hope you can help me!Well,some days ago i bought diet pills called lecithin..Honestly i am not fat but i want to have a super body and i have no time for gym etc...Is there any danger of taking diet pills???Including mental health...Do you know if lecithin helps and if it is healthy?It is told that some people who take diet pills end up with depression.Is it true?Please answer!!!!!!!!!

i think diet pills are just bad for you. if they don't mess you up in one way, they will in some other way because it's not good for your body to stay thin without giving it food (if it curves appetite) or by not working out.

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Ok so I have been dating this guy for nearly 2 months now. He is so hot. I am away at college which is 6 hrs away. He says when I get back into town, he is going to eat me out and I am going to suck his dick. Basically, a 69. I REALLY want to because I REALLY miss him. I told him that I wanted to do everything besides sex. Is this normal? I cant stop thinking about it. Please help.
im 18 and im a girl

yeah i think you are normal... it seems a little extreme but hormones do that to a person.

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Hi, does anyone know any stores that carry purses with Marilyn Monroe on them? I know there a tons of places to order from offline, but I'd much rather go to a store and pick one up. It doesn't matter what store, name anything. Thanks!

i've seen purses with blondie on them at hot topic so they might have them sometime. usually random shops at the mall have them (like the black and white ones) so check those out next time you are there.

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k, so i used to cheerlead when i was in like.. 6th grade. im a junior in high school now, and i want to try out for cheerleading or poms next year. i need to become more flexible. does anyone know of a website or any good stretches i can do to become more flexible? any help is appreciated!

Ok i used to be really unflexible... stretch all the time. touch your toes and do your splits a lot. do one leg at a time and hold it and just keep doing it. i got my side splits flat in about 8 months that way. lemme know if i can be more specific.

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which store is the cheapest in cosmetics like maybelline: cvs, riteaid or walmart?

i think walmart since their prices usually end in .97 for the most part..so maybe 3 cents cheaper.

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i need to know, how can you become a pretty person outside? i dont think im pretty or anything,i want to be a girl some guy would like. but how? tips? gerneral stuff? im a kinda preppy person,i dont dress bad,i wear makeup,but i dont know how to be pretty. i have brown hair,big brown eyes,long eyelashes,dark eyebrows,kinda light skin,kinda circles under my eyes,oval face shape,4"9 13...please help i want to look nice and aprochable,and pretty.

If this is for school... don't wear so much makeup. really, it's not pretty, it's just fake. wear minimal stuff on your face. stand up straight, SMILE, don't be clumsy or walk awkwardly, just be relaxed.

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My 16th birthday is coming up and i dont know what to do for it. I can have like a big party, or i can take like 10ish people and go to broadway, or go to a spa or something like that. Does anyone have any other ideas or suggestions?? i would realllllly appreciate it!! thanks in advanced.

This one girl i know had like 25 girls over and had a murder mystery party and a spa type thing at her house. some people just through a regular party with all their friends tho.

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How do I get a debit card, like where do I go to get one? Does it cost anything to get one?

I don't think it costs much to get one but I heard it costs about 2-3$ everytime you use it.

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Ok, well, every Thursday I'm not aloud to wear anything jean. I was wondering where some places were that have not very expensive pants, sweats, skirts, really anything. (Price range-$20.00- $50.00) Thanks!

pants are like $40 at american eagle
there's a lot of things that aren't jeans at old navy and i love the sweatpants at victoria's secret and i believe they are under 50. aeropostale has sweats too.

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