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your weird and i dont like you are you an adult or a mom? (link)
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Both...sorry you think I'm weird. I'm a grandma too. I might not like you either...but can't say since I don't know you. :)
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hey i'm on the pill and my docter never told me how long it would take until it was effictive.. so i was just wondering if any one could tell me how long until it is effictive and how effective it is???PLEASE HELP (link)
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30 days. 99% effective. WILL NOT however prevent AIDs or STD's so use a condom too.
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this is embarassing to ask... but i really want to know
is using tampons like a guy fingering you? or will it loosen you up? and does it pop your cherry?
i will rate 5s because i really want to know... (link)
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No on all counts.
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Ok,yesturday i went to the bathroom,did my busness[sorry sp].Like anything normal,of course.Then today my area smelled really bad after i took a shower. It smelled all day and other people could smell it to!I was so embarissed but they didnt no it was me.I didnt no what was wrong!! I havnt had my period yet[i dont mean this month,i mean i NEVER have] [i turned 13 a couple of days ago,and obviously,im a female] Dose anyone no whats wrong?
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If it's that bad you really should see a doctor as soon as possible. Tell mom about it today.
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I was just wondering how long it takes for your boobs to grow in after you get your period.Dose it happen right away?
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Nah, doesn't happen right away, it's gradual.
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Ok, I have a serious problem. I have become very suicidal because of depression, and other things that I don't want to say. I called my boyfriend one night, telling him I wanted to kill myself, he called my parents and told them. My mom was too busy with her boyfriend, so she just said, "I'll just call her dad and have him check up on her." My dad came over and just brought me food, it was very nice of him, but he didn't know what to do, I am seeing a therapist. But I know that if I told her that I felt as if I were going to attempt this, she'd get me in a hospital. So, here are my questions.
How can I get my parents to take my very depressed feelings of dying seriously?
[I tried telling my mom, my exact words were, "I seriously want to die, everyone thinks its just a phase, but I seriouly want to be dead."] I got nothing out of this. I feel like my mom could care less. And as for my dad, he thinks I'm being ridiculous, and so does my sisters.
When you are in a hospital/mental institution, what exactly happens?
I fear that I will be trapped in there screaming with everyone ignoring me. So, if anyone could tell me as much as they can please, details.
This would really help me, thank you
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You need to takl to your therapst. Seriously. Tell everything and do not hold back. If she thinks jhospitalization is what you need then do it. The hospital would basically just take you out of the situation you're in. Treatment will be same as with therapist only more often. Not a big deal....and not a mental institution. Tell therapist everything!
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Hi my name is shaby
as the question suggests im a totally confused ,insecure guy , a victim of inferiority complex ,introvertism ,shyness,underdeveloped social skills ........
I donot have many friends and i wanna be loved by people ...
i act like a pushover which I shoudnt be......
i also am a coward and i cant ask ppl for favours or refuse people for anything they want even if its for their own good ....
plus i try avoid uncomfortable social events bcoz obviously of which i wont be aware or known ...... nor i will know about other people ......
my mind goes conmpletely blank when someone asks me anything ....
plzzz help me .... im so depresesd i cry to myself ....... i find it dificult to open up ... im so lonely i feel like killing myself
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You need to talk to a parent and get seen by a doctor. Do it today before it gets worse. It can be fixed.
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I have this friend and lately her parents divorced. At first she wouldn't tell me but then she did and she started crying. I feel really bad for her, how can i make her feel better? She keeps on saying that people will think that she is a divorced child.. But she really isn't. Shes so nice. (link)
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Just have a shoulder available for her to lean on. Let her talk to you about how she feels. Let her know that her parents problems are not hers and that it is not her fault.
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well my friend is really upset right now because she was REALLLLLLy close friends with this girl till this year and now that girl has a "new" best friend. Every time that her friend's new best friend is in the room, hedr friend pretends thT she is not alive-she is really sad now-this is not the 1st time her friend has done this-help me please!
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She needs to talk to the old friend and ask her why she feels she needs to treat her like that. That is really rude behavior.
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ok i have two best friends, lets call them jill and Sue. Ok Jill and Sue have been hanging out A LOT! and its making me really jelous. Ok me and Jill were BEST friends until Jill and Sue started hanging out. ok Sue recorded something on Jill's phone and i thought it was funny so me and Jill SORT OF did the same thing and put it on her phone. Sue saw it and got REALLY mad so she recroded something saying..."You know what (my name) you need to stop stealing my stuff and making it look like yours!" i REALLY don't know what to do! what should i say to her? or to both of them?
*ThAnKs A BuNcH!*
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I think you all need to sit and talk and figure out how to get along. You weren't alone in the recording. Isn't fair to blame only you. Being jealous is natural so long as you don't act out on it.:)
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i really need help im going out wid some1 but dont feel ne thing 4 him ne more just like him as a friend and really like another lad plz help i no he will cry wen i dump him but i fink its 4 the best wat bout u?
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I agree. He will get over it.
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well ive been going out with this guy tha i love and ever since ive been going out with him my best friend has been gettin all pissed at me and trying to break us upp....and now im not friends with her anymore cuz of this...and she said she wont be mad at me if i just break up wit my boyfriend but i love him and im not going to do that....i think maby she is kinda jallous that i have a bf n she dosent...but than again i dont know....help!!!
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Sounds jealous to me. I wouldn't break up with your boyfriend. She'll have to learn to live with it.
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okay well im 15/f and i was reading my Cosmo magazine and they had some sex tips or whatever and so it was like talking about spooning and how good it is or whatever. and i dont wanna sound stupid but what the heck is spooning??? i wanna know!!! i rate high =) THANKS FOR THE HELP!!! ;) (link)
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snuggling together.
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ok so i really like this guy and i perposly try to walk by his and stuff so he'll notice me.. i dont talk to him in school and im not sure if he knows me...but i talked to him on aim a few times. and the other day my friend imed him because she got the sn from looking off my buddylist.. and she asked him if he was friends with me.. and he said yes. its really weird because i didnt even no he knew who i was...and im really scared to talk to him in person so do you have any advice other than that? (link)
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I guess you can im him and tell HIM to talk to you at school. If you don't talk to him he isn't going to get to know you and vice/versa. Sorry
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I'm 14f and in eighth grade, and my i know this girl who is bagging. ((for all of yall who dont know bagging is a type of inhalance)) FWI she is NOT my friend. I've heard her saying things and mumbling to herself about things like "I'd burn this place up if they'd let me." and "Car Pe Duim." Now I know that's latin for seize the day and I'm really not sure that I want to to be the one to seize it. I htink it might be the fumes from the spray paint she's been huffing that are making her think this way. I'm worried about her and her parents, because there was this fourteen year old kid at my school who was bagging and he got himself killed. I'm not saying I like the girl or anything, but I don't think our little town or anybody else can handle another bagger death. We have had people come to school and talk to us about sex and drugs and this girl does it all. I need to talk to her or her parents somehow, but I'm afraid to go near her. If I don't do something she get her, and the entire town killed with her. HELP!! ((sorry if this was so long)) (link)
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Tell a teacher or counsler at school. They will know how to handle it for you.
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my best friend, ricky, is generally a really good guy...hes a good christian and doesnt smoke, or cheat, or drink, or do anything like that...hes really happy and has always been there for me through anything...but hes been hanging out with bad people lately, and i told him i didnt want him to change because of them...he promissed me he wouldnt, and i believed him. he told me he would never lie to me.
but last night, we were talking, and he told me he needed to tell me something, but he couldnt. i was really worried, and i got it out of him. he started by telling me he was sorry he lied to me...so i got scared...he told me he smoked week with some of his friends...i got angry, but he doesnt know that. i didnt want him to feel like i think i can as him anything..but when he needs help, i block him out. but i dont know how to help him..what should i do?
sorry this is really long...
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If he only smoked it once I wouldn't be to concerned. Be happy he was honest. If you get upset with him he will keep things from you next time. Just forget it.
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My friend Alexa and I wer'e haveing a fight over two Actors on TV and we shared our opinions. but Alexa took mine too seriously and now she won't talk to me. So i said our friendship's over, and she won't WONT reply to me!!!!!!!!!!!! What should I do? (link)
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She'll probably get over it. Be to bad if she took an argument such as that really seriously!
Who are these two actors? YG ask's curiously?
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this guy really likes me to put it simply.. hes really depressed. i dont wanna be the reason weather someone stays alive or dies. thats to much. he said im the only thing thats actually keeps him from doing stupid things im the only thing that means something good to him. He said theres only thing that keeps him moving and happy is me. i guess he isnt wantedat home. he wont answer my calls.. i left 2 messages saying call me.. he hasnt yet. he wont answer my calls.. at all he always does. Even if he is on the other line no matter what. He says the sound of my voice can bring a smile to his face.. so why isnt he picking up? Its really scary.. and i want to call for help. i have my yellow ribbon card if any of you know what that is. I could call the suicide line.. but do i have to give my identity away.. or say specifically who i am talking about? (link)
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of course you should call someone if you think he's hurt himself. They can't check on him if they don't know where he lives. Call!
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i think my sister is anorexic or bulimic....idk what to do tho bc every time i ask her about it, she just denys it, but all of her friends tell me she is, what should i do?! (link)
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Tell your mom and let her investigate. If she is, she needs help.
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My partner and I are from Auckland, New Zealand. My partners sister gave her son who at the time was 5 mnths (so she had only had him for 5 mnths) when she gave him to us to take care of. (we are a same sex couple) We hvae now been taking care of him for 1 whole year now, she signed a letter stating my partner is now the gardian of her son and we have been providing for him for a whole year. Our question is, as we have nothing legal stating he is my partners, we are scared she could take him back at any time. We realise if we wanted to do any legal adoption we we need to have her permission but does anyone know if we have any legal rights as his gardian if she were to come back say after 2-3 years and say she wants him back?
Any legal advice on this matter would be great as he is our life and we will fight her all the way if she were to come back (link)
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I think I really would consult an attorney to find out exactly what your rights are. A letter may not even stand up in court. I think I would at the very least try to get legal guardianship through the courts.
Does she see him at all or has she basically abandoned him? That would have some bearing on the situation too.
It would worry me too. I would get hold of an attorney and check for sure. It would certainly put your minds at ease. I don't think you would have a problem getting him right now at all.Though I'm not an attorney I certainly do advise you talk to one....or maybe a senior law student at a local college if money is an issue.
There are no restrictions that I know of concerning same sex parents either by the way, I know of a couple of same sex parents who have adopted with no problem. :)
Good luck to you both (and YOUR son) :)
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