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I feel like the biggest looser on earth
Hi my name is shaby
as the question suggests im a totally confused ,insecure guy , a victim of inferiority complex ,introvertism ,shyness,underdeveloped social skills ........
I donot have many friends and i wanna be loved by people ...
i act like a pushover which I shoudnt be......
i also am a coward and i cant ask ppl for favours or refuse people for anything they want even if its for their own good ....
plus i try avoid uncomfortable social events bcoz obviously of which i wont be aware or known ...... nor i will know about other people ......
my mind goes conmpletely blank when someone asks me anything ....
plzzz help me .... im so depresesd i cry to myself ....... i find it dificult to open up ... im so lonely i feel like killing myself
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Depression can be very overwhelming, especially when you don feel that anything or anyone can help you. Death is never the answer, if you feel that you are a threat to yourself tell a parent or a professional. Life always has a meaning..the only way to fail at life... is just simply to give up, and not live it. I'm sure confussion and insecurity are part of what makes a character stronger. Although you feel as though life doesn't make since and neither do you sometimes.... You'll find that if you just cope... the stage will pass. Don't give up hope seek professional help....
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yeah... I feel simmaler... I'm always made fun of & all this other stuff, & I haven't found a way out of it eather, the only thing I know to say is that you could see a shrick or something and just please, don't kill yourself, I know its hard not to think about, but just try, & if you do go & seek help, then its for the best, & don't be embaressed, theres alot of people out there who need help with depression, even I'm that way, trust me, its not that bad, & if you don't want any one to know, you don't have to, its not a bad thing to need help or even admit that you need help
hope I helped, I really tried
-Cameron
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well DONT kill your self, just hol dyour head high, and be more assertive, just talk to people like theyre your best friend and you have always talked to them, soon enough, you will have a few friends, and not be so lonely. tell your mum or pa about the problem too, if your comfortable with doing so, and maybe they can help? just know you ARE somone, and your not a push over, feel confident, practice in the mirror if you need to. good luck :)
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Hey my name is Natalie and I am 15. How old are you? you should E-mail me and we can talk.
My e-mail is... pimpette01_@msn.com or natalieb114@msn.com Write back!
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You need to talk to a parent and get seen by a doctor. Do it today before it gets worse. It can be fixed.
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ok,try to find a talent like,something good about you! maybe people will notice how good you are at it. you might say "i dont have talents" Try different things. Maybe talk to you parents/teachers about this!! Join a sport,you have to take the pressure. If your mad at someone because they make fun of you,express it on this sport [[such as basket ball,base ball,football,some of these are good to express anger in]] The more anger you express the less stress and the better you'll feel!!
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Your only problem is you don't like yourself. Learn to love yourself and everything else will fall in place. You're just as good as anybody else and you need to realise that.
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Well, you really have to change yourself, if you want to have more friends, etc.. Nobody else can do it for you. You have to desire it..
When did it start, anyway? You have to try to overcome the event that made you like that. There was a point of time in my life that I just waited for people to come to me. What happened was that I became a loner, and people thought I was weird and took advantage of what I had. When they did that, I became mad and crabby, which definitely did not win points with anybody..
Now, though, I'm more or less known by a lot of people, and I have a lot of friends and acquaintances.. I just tried to exert myself more and talk to more people.. Even if the people you meet won't be your next best friend, at least they'll be a good acquaintance.. ^___^
Not going to social events might hurt your social life, but at least you won't be forced to do something you don't wanna do. Honestly, though, you shouldn't worry about who's looking at you in the party, just have one and mingle! You'll have friends soon enough! ^___^
Don't pretend to be something that you're not.. Just be yourself! It's impossible that in the whole world nobody's gonna like you.. C'mon.. Smile.. ^__^
Instead of crying at home, go do something! Go out with the friends that you have.. ^__^ You'll have more friends that way, too...
Being nice is not bad.. In fact, it's great! Someone might remember you because of the good things that you do.. ^___^
Basically, be yourself and don't be scared to open up! Not everyone is bad or out to get you.. You'd be surprised how many people are actually good catches out there.. Don't force yourself to do something you don't like, but try to do it for yourself.. If you want it badly enough, it will happen..
If you need more advice, just write to me.. ^____^
I really wish you a lot of luck.. I know how tough it can be since I've been there, but I got out of it. So can you! ^___^
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