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i really like this guy but im really shy so i dont know how i will get him to know with out actually telling him straight up. so what are some things i can do to flirt with him? (link)
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well, it would help to know how old you are. the best way probably is that when you know hes looking at you, put on some lipgloss/stick, in a sexy way. you dont have to tell him you like him, you can tell your friends, and have them start a 'rumor mill.'
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how long does someones period usually last? i got mine like 2 days ago and i was just wondering how long it lasts for people. and how long it is between them. thank you (link)
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Mine lasts 7 days. I count from the day it ends to the day it starts the next month and it's about 23 days.
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I have a crush on this kid in my grade and the thing is i don't even like know him...I never talk to him and when he comes online i go onto my friends sn to talk to him because they talk more...i don't know why i like him and i think it is ridiculous but i really want a way to be closer to him and start talking any suggestions? (link)
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Be friends with him! If your friend is already friends with him, then suggest that the 3 of you see a movie, just for fun, so you can get to know him better.
You could always tell your friend that you like him. Maybe she/he could find a way to get you two to start talking.
Don't ask him out just yet. Once I asked out a boy when I didn't really know him, & of course he said no which was one of the biggest mistakes of my life. Don't rush yourself into a relationship. First you have to become friends with him. A lot of times, friendships turn into love.
Just be yourself around him, and try to walk with him to class, or talk to him in school. If he thinks you're funny or really nice, I'm sure you two will become friends. If you two become friends, you'll have a better chance of going out with him than you would if you didn't even know him and asked him out.
If he's going to sign up for any after school activites, then sign up too. Try to make him laugh a lot & make some inside hokes with him. Smile at him a lot and once you've became friends, flirt with him just a bit to give him a hint that you're interested.
If you need more detail on anything, just ask.
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Hey, I have a picture phone and I was wondering if I can upload pictures from the phone itself onto my computer. I have a plug for it and everything but I don't have software. Do I need a disk or something to get those pics on? I already tried but I'm no computer genius.
Thanks guys, I need this more than you think. (link)
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I usually send a mms with attatched image(s) to my online photobucket account. You can join at www.photobucket.com and they will give you an email address that specifically uploads pictures to your account. This is the best way to go concidering you do not have any software.
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sorry for the constant chats, i like talking to you heh (no im not that weird, i think).
yeah i think you're right about the break up thing. just my last girlfriend left me on a lil screwy heh (it was a while ago, say 1 year ago).
i can't take that back now, but they both know that i won't hurt them (at least, i think?).
well i'd prefer her to think of me as 'cute' for the time being instead of 'slease' or something like that.. so i'll wait it out. i want her to be happy no matter what, even if i feel a lil upset inside.
p.s: thanks for putting up with me lol. (link)
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yeah you seem like a pretty cool kid. i'd probably date ya. =]
that girl's pretty damn lucky if you go out with her because you seem like a pretty hot kid.
haha you're exactly my type. well, if you ever need anything answered just ask.
good luck.
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I have only had 2 guys finger me before, but when both of them have done it, it didn't feel good at all. It actually hurt. I have fingered myself before and had an orgasm. I talk to my friends about being fingered and they all say they have orgasms from it. So is there something wrong with me? Please tell me what you think. thanks (link)
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no! they obviously can't do it as well. maybe they got nervous. rremeber, since they can't finger themselves, they dont REAALly kow how to do it
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im pretty sure i like this boy, his name is tommy. we have been talking alot lately, like at school, we sit together at lunch, and at parties, online and whatever.. but im not sure if hes interested and if he is, im not sure i wanna get involved. im in 8th grade and hes in 7th. ill be leaving this school at the middle of june (bc im graduating) , so im nervous about if we get together, it will be like wierd over the summer and stuff.. so, how do i figure out if he likes me or not. and do you think i should get involved with him if he is? thanks. (link)
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do a summer fling. hookup with him, bc after summer you shouldnt go out. maybe for the rest of the year & summer. i mean, its like what the hell right> what do you have to lose?
in 9th, you'll be wondering what couldve happened
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sorry about that website i sent you it was by accident. anyways,
ok so i was at abercrombie last weekend and i bought these flip flops http://www.abercrombiekids.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?storeId=10101&catalogId=10851&parentCategoryId=12103&childCatgroupId=12103&categoryId=12171&productId=2&langId=-1 in the navy color so on monday i wore them to school and my feet get pretty swetty idk why but anyways since my feet are sweaty at the end of the school day when i went home i took them off and the bottoms of my feet were navy blue!!!!!! i tried scrubbing it of and i got most of it off but still.. everytime i wear them they turn my feet blue. and i cant return them or get a refund or w/e because i dont have a reciept or the tags or anything. so if you can please help me with my sweaty feet problem, that'd be great! thanks a lot! (link)
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ok, there this thing called like thai crystal or something like that. its a deoderant for your feel. pretty much what you do is you wet it and apply it to your feet.
http://www.networkingtheinternet.com/images/deodorant-top.jpg
theres a pic
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haha yeah i was thinking if i asked her straight away she'd think i'm a slease so i don't think i will. the note thing is pretty cute, lol i would do it but i think that's just a bit too cute? i dont know what girls really like haha. oh and also i'm 14.. 15 soon, just if you were wondering :S.
i'm kinda worried that she might find someone before i get a chance to ask her out... i hope she doesn't but only time can tell. hmm also, i did tell her friend that i did like her. but i said i dont know if i should ask her out because i dont want to hurt her if we break up someday? do you think i should of said that? hmm sorry im just thinking as i write hehe.. well i'll leave it at that. thanks for your help!! (link)
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Ohkaay, well first of all, I'll start off with the note thing. Well, if you ask her out like face to face, that's kinda gonna be awkward especially if she says no, so if you're afraid of awkwardness, that's why i suggested writing her a note.
Second, I think it was a smooth choice to tell her friend that you like her, but the part about that "you're afraid you'll hurt her if you break up with her" part, wasn't so smooth. Lol. I just feel that if you're already talking about breaking up, she might not even take the time to go out with you. Because you guys haven't even gone out yet & you're already discussing about breaking up, which makes it seem like you don't think you two will last. Just my opinion.
Oh, and if your worried about someone asking her out before you then maybe you should just ask her out. If you're afraid she'll think your a pimp, just let her know you really like her & you think that you'd 2 would make the perfect couple.
It's a risk to take because she might think you're a pimp, but it's also a risk to take by waiting to ask her out, because then someone else could ask her before you. So whatever choice you make, it's going to be a risk, and hopefully it will be worth it. Good luck. :)
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i met some girls a few months ago. i got to know them pretty good. i have much in common with both of them. i liked 1 of them so i told her how i felt, but she has a bf. after she said that i said it's kind of awkward talking to her. she said not to worry and she'll forget about it. i'm ok with that because i wasn't deeply inlove with her anyway. but now i think i'm starting to like her friend, she seems real nice and always calls me cute and i say the same to her. is it too sudden to say i like her? note: she doesnt have a boyfriend (link)
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Well, I'd wait maybe a few more weeks before you tell her, so she doesn't think you're a player.
But if she doesn't have a boyfriend you should totally ask her out soon enough. If she calls you cute, that's a sign that she's flirting with you so she probably likes you.
If you're planning to ask her out, but doun't know how to do it, I'll help. I think you should slip her a little note saying "Will you go out with me?" because that's so cute, or if you want to do it in person, just say you need to ask her something, and pull her aside & comfortably ask her out. If you give her a note, then say right next to her so you can find out her answer.
Okay, well back to your question... You could always ask her out now, but if she thinks you just jump from girl to girl, she might find that a turn-off. That's why I said you should wait a few weeks. But it's up to you. If you're afraid someone might ask her out before you, you could always just ask her out next time she sees you.
Good luck. Feel free to ask more questions if you need to. :)
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ok so i was at abercrombie last weekend and i bought these flip flops http://www.abercrombiekids.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?storeId=10101&catalogId=10851&parentCategoryId=12103&childCatgroupId=12103&categoryId=12171&productId=2&langId=-1 in the navy color so on monday i wore them to school and my feet get pretty swetty idk why but anyways since my feet are sweaty at the end of the school day when i went home i took them off and the bottoms of my feet were navy blue!!!!!! i tried scrubbing it of and i got most of it off but still.. everytime i wear them they turn my feet blue. and i cant return them or get a refund or w/e because i dont have a reciept or the tags or anything. so if you can please help me with my sweaty feet problem, that'd be great! thanks a lot! (link)
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This question amused me. Thanks for asking me something other than how to get a guy to like you! lol Sounds like this is really Abercrombie's problem - not yours! They shouldn't be selling such a crappy product! Shoes should NOT do that! I still think you should try and return them...CALL them and tell them your story. Sometimes stores will make exceptions about receipts and tags when the product is defective.
Are you sure your feet sweat in flip flops? Because one of the benefits of sandals, and open shoes like flip flops is that your feet can beath and don't sweat. Are you sure you didn't walk through water? Because that would be easy to avoid. Dr. Sholl's makes foot powder that helps your feet not sweat. You might want to try that. It's only about $5.00.
http://a1468.g.akamai.net/f/1468/580/1d/pics.drugstore.com/prodimg/14256/300.jpg
When you go shopping for any type of sweating problem, make sure you find something that says anti-persperant, and NOT deodorant! Anti-persperant controls sweating and deodorant basically masks the smell - so they ARE two different items)
Sounds like you just want to stop the moisture.
If that doesn't work, ditch the shoes. Are $15 shoes worth all that drama? lol Try American Eagle. They run their flip flops on sale all the time and you can get them for like $5!!
So my advice is to ditch your flip flops and instead of spending $5 on foot powder, go someplace else like AE and buy flip flops there.
http://www.ae.com/web/browse/category_shoes.jsp?navroot=shoes&rcid=shoes
Don't let the advertised price scare you. They have sales all the time.
Other flip flop options that are really cute -
http://store.yahoo.com/flipflop/flipflipflop.html
Look at these cute terry cloth ones from Victoria Secret! They are only $8!!
http://www2.victoriassecret.com/commerce/application/prodDisplay/?namespace=productDisplay&origin=onlineProductDisplay.jsp&event=display&prnbr=UN-197581&page=1&cgname=OSSHUBEAZZZ&rfnbr=2819
The Southlake Town Square has flip flops in just about every single store right now! I've even seen cute flip flops at Body Works!
So thanks again for the question. It was fun answering.
Let me know how you end up fixing your problem. And let me know if you find any really cute ones!!
Love, Mrs S
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it burns when i pee and it feels like i always have to pee. could it be a yeast infection? (link)
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Yes, you could have a yeast infection. I googled it & those two things are signs of yeast infection. Go to the doctor. He will check for you, & if you have it, he will tell you the things you need. That's your best bet. Until, you go to your doctor, make sure you don't have sex & wash your private area regularly.
Cranberry juice and yogurt are two foods that may help prevent the occurrence of yeast infections and aid in their treatment. .
If you wanna read more about yeast infections I found a website. It has the symtoms & the treatments.
http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/article/001511.htm#Symptoms
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There is this boy at my school. Last week, I did not know him at all. My friend knew him and showed me his myspace. I sent him a message asking if he knew my friend and he said yes and we began talking. We had never talked in person. I told him I would say hi to him sometime at school. I think he was beginning to figure out I had a crush on him. Today he was standing in the lunch line behind me and I thought it was the perfect chance. So I said hi and we talked shortly. Then I said "see you later" and that was it. I don't know what to do. I get shy when it comes to talking to him at school. I feel like I am being annoying over myspace though. Everyone tells me he is down to earth, nice, and funny. I just don't know how to get closer to him. I really want things to work. We can never have any classes together because he is a grade younger. He is so my type and I really want to tell him how I feel, but that would be too fast since we barely know each other.
Any takers?
It's a toughie, but PLEASE help. (link)
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If I was in this situation, the first thing I would do is get his screen name. That way you're having a conversation without so much pressure. This will give you more confidence when you talk to him in person. Learn more about him. Become friends. Say "hi" in the hallways. Part of your nervousness may come because you think that if you keep talking to him then he'll figure out you like him. To him, it may just seem like you're talking, but because your so nerv ous about him finding out, you may jump to the conclusion you're talking to him too much.
Ask for his screen name, have convos online, message him once in a while. Say "hi" when you pass him in the hallways. Try to learn more about him when you're talking to him so you will become closer. Tell him things about you, and ask things about him.
Hope it works out
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Okay, one of my friends are bypolar...but i have no clue what that means. I know when he gets really mad, his eyes turn like, blood red and he shakes, i don't know if that has anything to do with him being bypolar any;thing....
i'll rate 5 for good answers (link)
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It means that they have extremem mood swings. They can go from extremely happy to extremely depressed. They also have more extreme feelings. It's usually the person will only be extremely happy or extremely depressed without anything in between.
If you still have any questions feel free to look it up on wikipedia.com or google.com
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Hey, the past few days (about 3-4 days) whenever i eat i feel really sick and like thowing up. and the thought of eating makes me sick. but do eat, could this be a sing of early balemic or anorexia? or what could it be.
thanx alot to anyone that helps
-Me (link)
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In order to be anorexic, you eat [ractically nothing. Bulemia is when you eat a full meal and then feel guilty and you purposely throw up. These eating disorders usually come up when it's someone who's unhappy with their weight. It's a choice, for lack of a better word, your body doesn't just make it happen.
You may be coming down with something. Like a stomach virus, but I'm sure it's not an eating disorder. If it continues tell yuor parents or your doctor.
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hey,im going to my school dance (they play r&b,rap,hip hop) (13/f)
i wanted to know,,,what are some good stores to get dance tops? (not fancy) tops like babygurl,southpole,cute tops like that.Also,what kind of hair style should i have?i have medium,light brown hair,bangs to the mid. of my neck,and layes.Should i wear jeans?
thanks so much!! !i'll rate 5!!
(ps-)im (kinda) flat in the chest..and im skinny,im short (4"8) (link)
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Here are some stores to get some cute shirts for your dance. :)
- Abercrombie & Fitch
http://www.abercrombie.com/anf/index.html
- American Eagle
http://www.ae.com/web/index.jsp
- Aeropostale
http://www.aeropostale.com/home/index.jsp
- Forever 21
http://www.forever21.com/Default.asp?cookie%5Ftest=1
- Wet Seal
http://www.wetseal.com/
- Old Navy
http://www.oldnavy.com/browse/home.do
- Pac-sun
http://shop.pacsun.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/StoreCatalogDisplay?storeId=10001&catalogId=10001&langId=-1
- Hot Topic
http://www.hottopic.com/default.asp?LS=0&
For my school dances, people either keep their hair down, or put it in a messy bun, a pony tail, a side pony tail, half ponytail with the top of your hair up, or low pigtails. If you decide to keep your hair down, for a little change, if you have straight hair curl or crimp it, or if you have curly hair staighten it. That will change your style a little bit. :)
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okay so my parents are in a fight. okay so first off, my mom doesnt want my dad talking to this girl on the phone and since the phone bill doesnt come in the mail becacuse my dad changed it to online bill, my mom told me to log on to my dads username and check up on the numbers he has been calling (iknow the password) and my mom finds the number of that girl that she doesnt want my dad to talk to . my dad isnt cheating on my mom, its just that my mom doesnt wnt him to talk to her. okay so now my mom is mad at my dad and shes been telling how my dad talks to another girl on the phone to my uncles and aunts. and i feel really bad for my dad because i feel like i kinda betrayed him.. like i know its wrong for him to do that but still and now my parents dont even sleep in the same room, my dad sleeps in the basement and my mom sleeps in their room. how can i make them talk again and forget about it? and also how can i make my dad stop calling that girl? oh yah this has been happengin since like last year and thats when my mom told him to stop talking to her but he didnt listen (link)
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To be honest hunny, you can't make your parents not fight anymore. It's up to them to work out their differences, & if they don't want to, then it's their personal business, & I'm sure it would just make their problems even worse, to know that you're depressed about them fighting.
I know it's very hard to see your parents fighting. I haven't experienced it with mine, but I know a lot of people who have. I asked my friend about what caused her parents to get a divorce, and she told me. She said, first they started fighting really bad, where it came to the point where they couldn't control it anymore. Second, they didn't sleep in the same bed anymore and they didn't wanna have anything to do with eachother anymore. Lastly, they got a divorce. Number one and two seem a lot like your parents. Am I right?
So, from based on what you said, your parents are probably getting divored, or thinking about it. Of course, there's a chance they could work out their problems, but I'm sorry to say that you cannot make them love eachother again. There's nothing you can do to make them not fight. You're just going to have to go along with the flow. I know the pain will hurt, but you'll have to somehow deal with it.
I'm sure you were probably looking for some reasons on how to prevent your parents from seperating, but I researched several divorce websites, and they all stated that there is nothing that can be done. Just keep in mind that everything happens for a reason, so maybe your parents weren't the "perfect couple" & maybe somewhere out there, there is better people for your parents.
If you're really hurt about this, just talk about it to a friend or guidance counselor, (whatever suits you best) & they will help you cope with what you're going through. If you have a friend whose already gone through what you're going through now, it would be best to talk to them because they are experienced.
Best of luck, & remember, if you need any more questions to be answered, don't hesitate to ask. :)
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hey so when a guy puts his arm around your shoulders or your waist (either way) what should you as the girl do with you arms?? just leave them to your side or what?? plz answer i will rate good! (link)
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Well, are you talking about slow-dancing? If you are, all of my friends have the guy put his hands on her waist & the girls put her hands on his shoulders. That's just what my friends do. If I answered your question wrong, just tell me & I promise if you give me more detail, I'll help.
*************Edit: Haha I'm sorry. Okay, well in that case I think you should just keep your hands by your side, and occasionally but your arm around his waist or shoulders.
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My best friend just told a huge secret of mine. Do I have the right to be angry?
The secret wasn't that big of a deal but it kinda meant a lot to me.
Thanks in advanced! (link)
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Yes, you have every right to be angry. She broke her promise & lied to you. That's rude, dis respectful, and downright wrong. But don't lose a friendship because of it. Just sit her down & tell her how you feel. If you don't feel uncomfortable telling her secrets anymore, then keep your secrets to yourself or tell them to someone else. I'm sure she didn't mean to tell the secret, because I'm sure we can ALL admit that once in our lifes, we've told a secret that we swore we wouldn't tell. Some people have a harder time keeping things a secret than others, so my best advice is to not tell her things anymore. Did she tell the secret to hurt you? Because if she did, than I would say she's a really bad friend & you might not wanna hang around with her as much. But if she just kinda "slipped out" the secret, then let her know you are angry with her bad judgement. Good luck.
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Okay well a like a month ago, me and my bf had sex, and he didn't wear a condom. he lets call it "let go" no in me but a little lower than my lower stomache. Now see my period was supposed to start today, but it didn't, and i'm sure it'll come soon, but the thing is about 5-6 days after we had sex a month ago, i got my period.
Can i still be pregnant by any chance?
and i'm 14.
thank you. (link)
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i dont want to worry you but there is still a chance that you could be pregnant even if you still have had you period. i would recomend going to the doctors to get birth control and to get a pregnancy test just incase. always be safe when it comes to sex, especially at such a young age (which may i add is illegal!) never let a guy force you into doing something that your not ready for, you can always say 'no'. hope this helps, if you need anymore help please feel free to email me! the-one-you-love@hotmail.co.uk
luv xxx
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