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re: Is it too early?


Question Posted Saturday May 6 2006, 10:22 am

haha yeah i was thinking if i asked her straight away she'd think i'm a slease so i don't think i will. the note thing is pretty cute, lol i would do it but i think that's just a bit too cute? i dont know what girls really like haha. oh and also i'm 14.. 15 soon, just if you were wondering :S.
i'm kinda worried that she might find someone before i get a chance to ask her out... i hope she doesn't but only time can tell. hmm also, i did tell her friend that i did like her. but i said i dont know if i should ask her out because i dont want to hurt her if we break up someday? do you think i should of said that? hmm sorry im just thinking as i write hehe.. well i'll leave it at that. thanks for your help!!


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orphans answered Saturday May 6 2006, 10:47 am:
Ohkaay, well first of all, I'll start off with the note thing. Well, if you ask her out like face to face, that's kinda gonna be awkward especially if she says no, so if you're afraid of awkwardness, that's why i suggested writing her a note.

Second, I think it was a smooth choice to tell her friend that you like her, but the part about that "you're afraid you'll hurt her if you break up with her" part, wasn't so smooth. Lol. I just feel that if you're already talking about breaking up, she might not even take the time to go out with you. Because you guys haven't even gone out yet & you're already discussing about breaking up, which makes it seem like you don't think you two will last. Just my opinion.

Oh, and if your worried about someone asking her out before you then maybe you should just ask her out. If you're afraid she'll think your a pimp, just let her know you really like her & you think that you'd 2 would make the perfect couple.

It's a risk to take because she might think you're a pimp, but it's also a risk to take by waiting to ask her out, because then someone else could ask her before you. So whatever choice you make, it's going to be a risk, and hopefully it will be worth it. Good luck. :)

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