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so everybody thinks that i have had sex.. EVERYBODY. i'm ready to have sex i know i am but since everybody thinks that im not a virgin, i want to make it less painfull. is there anyway i can pop my cherry, make 'it' looser or anything like that where it wont hurt the first time? rate 5 for everything (link)
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Well you want to stretch your opening- finger yourself. Slowly enter 1 finger, then 2 etc. You could also use a dildo or vibrator?
But you really shouldn't care what people think, or make people believe what isn't true. Hope I helped :)
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im a girl and whenever i shave down there i always get bumps and my hair doesnt get shaved all the way so it still feels scratchy.
is this normal? what kind of razor should i use to prevent this and what kind of technique? (link)
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yes this happens to everyone, even if you do use shaving cream. well you could shave it, and then tweeze it, so it will be smooth. you can use any kind of razor, just using shaving cream for the best results, than tweeze afterwards. and after you shave it is natural to be itchy down their. so its fine.
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Hi I just got my first period and I need to start using tampons because pads arent working well for me and I dont want period stains at school! So anyways I FINALLY figured out where to put a tampon in and I can get it in now but Ive tried twice but every time I put one in it feels weird and when I bend over it hurts. And when I stand up I can kinda feel it in there and it feel's like it's getting like slowly pushed out and it's the kind of feeling you get when your at the bottom of a deep pool and your blew out all your air and your just sitting there with no air if you know what Im talking about kind of a weird squeezing feeling? Am I putting it in far enough or am I even putting it in right or is something wrong with me!? (link)
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make sure when you insert the tampon you don't push it directly straight up, push it towards you at an angle. and make sure the WHOLE tampon goes. the only thing that should be hanging out is the string. it might feel weird at first but you'll get used to it. plus your body is not used to it, so if you use it often (like i do) it will be no problem. and make sure you tuck the string outside your undies so the string is visible, so you can easily pull it out, and you'll see after keep on trying you wont feel it at all! good luck!
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hey my name is evan im 15/m
girls i just want to know why do you hit guys in the junk? im 15 and it happens to me all the time from girls and guys. i see no reason for it. it makes us feel sick. and it hurts like hell. is it funny to you to see us men in pain or hear our voices crack and get high from it? or make us cry? why would you do that to people? i would never hit a girl so why would you hit me? you have no idea how much it hurts to get punched in the nuts. do u think that just because im a man i deserve to be in that much pain? (link)
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its because, some girls thrive from the pain of men. I dont know why. I really dont. They find it entertaining, because they THINK they know how much it would hurt. Its just an easy way to get to a guy. This makes girls look more pathetic, when they do it for fun.
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So im not a virgin im 16 gonna be 17 on the 20th of this month, i have a friend with benifits and we do all types of thing, but this is more just a random question but my friend nicole shes 17 and a virgin, she said that fingering is considered sex because it a part of his body inside mine, i understand what she means but i dont think that is considered to be sex i say if he puts his (cough cough) inside my (cough cough) then thats sex you cant get pregnant by fingering ..well you can but its very rare. So im just wondering is that really true that finering is considered to be sex? (link)
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by cough cough do you mean penis and vagina? hmmm
no you cant get pregnant by fingering, because it isnt sex, by the time the sperm is on the finger, and is exposed to the millions of trillions of bacteria in the air, it would die. Sex is when a penis, enters the vagina. Fingering is just foreplay, not sex.
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It was 4th of july and me and my bf were talking about doing the dirty nd he told me he didnt get turned on easily. But, then again we were making out o the bed and i felt his ya on my ya and it was hard does that mean............ (link)
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yes, of course it means he's turned on. When the brain starts to think "oh yes...im getting some" blood suddenly rushes to the penis (hence an erection of the penis) so that he can be ready. so yes, he was turned on :)
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im a guy, does it mean im gay if ive tasted my own jizz b4? (link)
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Do you like other guys? Because believe it or not, thats what Gay means?
–adjective
1.
of, pertaining to, or exhibiting homosexuality.
2.
of, pertaining to, or noting the same sex.
–noun
3.
a homosexual person.
Origin:
1890–95; homo- + sexual
—Related forms
an·ti·ho·mo·sex·u·al, adjective
So therefore, homosexual means having feeling of a sexual nature towards people of the same sex. Not 'tasting your own jizz'.
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i cant find anybody that would date me, how can i find somebody? (link)
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Maybe you're aiming too high. It sounds harsh, but its reality im afraid. And like, you cant force someone to love you, it either happens or it doesnt. I personally don't believe in love, but if it does exist, then surely, you will somehow meet your dream partner when ready? :)
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My partner and I have been sexually active and I'm on birth control. However, as a back-up plan I generally like to use condoms. We've both been tested for STI's and everything (I just believe in never being too safe.)
The issue is, my partner says sex is "dull" with a condom on (we've tried numerous brands) and that he really prefers sex without a condom, because he can actually "feel everything".
This has made me insecure, and I guess I'm wondering if this is normal of him to feel that way. I've heard a lot of guys complain about condoms decreasing the pleasure of having sex - is there any truth to this?
I just feel inadequate and want to please him.
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why would you feel insecure? Yes, of course using a condom makes sex feel less pleasurable for men, and sometimes for women, because theres quite a thick layer between the penis and the vagina (which is the condom). Of course its not really really thick, but both organs are sensitive, and so even a thin layer will make a difference. So yes, theres truth behind it. :)
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ive been with this person for 3 years and im not his gurlfriend we see each other weekly. even thought were together we not in a sirious relation ship i have avoided his phone call and will continue to do so until i got great advice or he shows up at my door which i dought he doesncuz he so into himself (link)
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i really dont understand the premise of your question. Can you add more information and make it clear please?
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Hi :D. So here goes.. I relly like this girl but we live millions of miles away. I have dated a girl before that lives in the same area as her and it worked out really well.. So the girl i like has made a promise to her self that she will only date when she turns 16. She is 15 now and turns 16 in October. I am willing to wait until she is ready to date again but do you think she will still like me in 3 months time..?
Thanks
-J ;) (link)
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I think that there is a HUGE chance that she will darling! And she promises to still like u in 3 months :)
and ill have u know that is tht cutest thing ever :)
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So my ex bf might come over tonight and I'm like super horny. I'm scared I might go way to far. I don't want to have sex. But I'm so horny and I really want to see him. Idk what to do. Please help. (link)
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Why dont you masturbate? Also, are you saying that you cannot control your self from throwing your body at him? If you really want to have sex with him, why is he your ex? Get back with him so you can bump dirtee's, or masturbate?
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Is masterbating and having an orgasm yourself comsinderd having sex? And can a gyna-pussy doctor tell if you have ever had an orgasm? (link)
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i just want to add to the answer below about the hymen- it can break very easily, so they wont be able to tell if you have had an orgasm, or masturbated, if your hymen is not attatched.
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does anyone know anyone who lives in Bergen county new jersey who needs a babysitter?
thanx. (link)
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i litterelly just answered the same question here:
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=583154
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i desperately need a job, pronto! Money is tight, especially in my house, so i need all the money i can get; but i am only 13, which is old enough 2 become a babysitter. obviously i dont go2 elementary school so i cant see the little kids. what is some of your best advice to get a paying babysitting job? (link)
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heres some tips- ive decided on bulletpoint form, for easier reading rather than blocked paragraphs.
- If you have references, it would be favorable. Obviousely if people are going to leave their children with you, they want to contact other people who have recieved your services, to check the quality.
- Your could start with family which would start you up, and help with references.
- You need a good reputation- if you're some sort of hooligan that terrorises the neighbourhood, then people are not going to leave their children with you.
- You need to be mature- people dont want to leave their children with a child, if they wanted to do that, they would have just left them by themselves.
- You shouldn't overcharge. People may want you usually for when they go out as a couple. For example, if parents decide to go out from 7pm-10pm (3hours) you should charge $5-$10. Work out something competitive and affordable per hour.
- Advertise around the neighbourhood with flyers. Print something simple out e.g. Name, Number, Price, Details of your service (when you can work etc). Just post them around the neighbourhood.
Hopefully, people will recomend you to other families, and you will become popular if you provide a good service. Hope i helped :)
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That you can possibly be pregnant and have your period the month after having sex? (link)
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well did you have sex? The chances of getting pregnant are higher (believe it or not) upon having sex, than being a virgin. Clearly you should wait untill your period to figure it out, and then start worrying i.e. a pregnancy test etc.
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well when i was a school my best frand had a big crush on this dude she talk about him everydayhe was cute but i like never realy seen him in tht why intill she start talking bout him so we all got out of school its summerr//this happen last nite and my other frand thts a slut foreal said lets get on cami was like ok i knew she had a crush on him but i didnt know he was going to be there so we was all talking and all my shirts show my boobs and there big so her cam went off some way she never cam back so he asked me to show my beast so did olnt if he showed me somthing to but now i feel like a huge slut because my BESTfrand likes him i i know he told somebody cause ever one like my boobs//but i think i like him to (link)
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I really found it difficult to understand your question; i dont think you used a single full stop/period, so if i misunderstand you, forgive me.
You say you only liked him after your friend started talking about him, so really, i doubt you like him as much as your friend. Obviousely what you did was wrong- some people may label you as a slut. You were (lets be honest) selfish, as you knew your friend really liked this person, and yet you still decided to flash your boobs to him, in return of him showing you something (quite obviousely his penis- there is nothing else to show is there?).
I dont really know what you want in an answer, except for what you should do next. I presume your friend (which likes him) was not there. I say you tell her straight what you did, before she finds out from your friend who is "a slut for real", or the guy himself. Clearly you knew what you were doing, and but for your actions, there wouldnt really be a problem, so the responsibility lies on you to do the right thing, upon taking part in a selfish, and stupid, not to mention amoral activity.
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I am looking for a camera that I can afford and is good. I'm not a professional or anything, I just enjoy taking pictures and editing them later on. There are SO many digital cameras and I just dont know where to start.
I'm in Brisbane, Australia and my budget is no more than $1000. If there is a really good camera for a couple of hundred more, I dont mind chipping in.
I just want a camera that takes really good pictures, like sometimes when you take a picture of yourself or a thing or friends, it doesnt come out the same in the photo. Real life looks better than memory photos. I want to change that. I want my photos to capture the beauty that I see with my eyes. Does that make sense?
I've spent loads of money on crappy digital cameras that suck in all aspects except for the megapixel. I'd like one with the focussing and the high quality output.
Thank you so much. (link)
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to be honest with you, i dont know much about camera's. Ive seen a few TV ad's and thought "that looks good", but upon searching for you, i came across this australian website:
http://www.photoreview.com.au/
it may be of some use, as it has camera reviews. I say you just google "digital camera top 10" or something, and research the ones in your budget. Hope i helped :)
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So when he's fingering me, what should I do and say to him to get more excited?
me and my boyfriend have almost been dating a year and were in highschool. But were not ready to have sex yet. But to make the things we do more sexy, I want to tell him that I love the way he fingers me.
Normally I just breathe a little heavier but I need more things to say. (link)
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dont say anything, if you want him to believe that you are so encapsulated in the moment, that what he is doing to your body is pure ecstacy, you dont want to be having a conversation with him. You should moan, and groan, slowly whisper his name, as if you are 'calling' for him. You should slowly touch your body, and your eyes should obviousely be close, with your eyeballs rolling back. Hope i helped :)
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so you said i should talk to this guy and get to know more about him , because obviously i hardly know anything about him.
but the thing is what do i talk about ??
i hardly have a clue on how to talk to this guy??
how do i start talking to this guy???? (link)
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Okay, well if you have any classes together, or same classes you can start up a conversation about that. Or talk about your favorite music and his. Places you like to go, and ask him. Maybe you could invite him and some of his friends and some of your to the movies or somewhere else to hang out. That way you are close to his friends too. And that way you aren't just alone with him, so it won't be as ackward. You could ask people that are mutual friends between you guys how is he. That way you kind of get to see what other people think he is like. Just treat him like any other guy that you have as a friend. Because you want that friend relationship before you go into a relationship. Hope that helps...
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