hey my name is evan im 15/m
girls i just want to know why do you hit guys in the junk? im 15 and it happens to me all the time from girls and guys. i see no reason for it. it makes us feel sick. and it hurts like hell. is it funny to you to see us men in pain or hear our voices crack and get high from it? or make us cry? why would you do that to people? i would never hit a girl so why would you hit me? you have no idea how much it hurts to get punched in the nuts. do u think that just because im a man i deserve to be in that much pain?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? waiting25 answered Thursday July 15 2010, 12:01 am: reason why i would kick a male in the balls? defense from harm.
But really i do not need to kick a man in the balls to hurt him. i can not speak for all women but i think that if it is for self defense then a woman should hit you there.
-- if someone was sexually assaulting me they would probably get hit there.
and peeps lets not try to compare the pain of woman and men. i think we can all say that life sucks and pain is inevitable no matter what the gender. in the end we all die. and i could only assume that getting your leg cutt off and having no medical attention would hurt more. and for the record.. cramps do suck every month for like 30yrs.. now that sucks.
first off.. ur 15 and u get hit in the balls ALOT?
this is strange. maybe you should ask your self some questions about the people you are hanging out with. and girls and boys at 15 are immature.
"im 15 and it happens to me all the time from girls and guys" are you saying that guys hit you in the balls? [ waiting25's advice column | Ask waiting25 A Question ]
Peeps answered Sunday July 11 2010, 5:38 pm: Wow. I am pretty embarrassed that I am on this site with some very ignorant females below.
Getting hit in the balls is not the equivalent to giving birth.
Getting hit in the balls is not the equivalent to having a period.
Getting hit in the balls is not the equivalent to having menstrual cramps.
A lot of women have no respect for men. They are taught that the world revolves around them. They are taught that because they are female that they have some special, deserved rights.
Some women find it hilarious to cause men pain. They justify it by saying it's equal to having a period or giving birth to a child. The truth is, they just want to hurt a man so that they feel more powerful. These women do not even grasp the understanding of equality while they attend protests for equal rights. (Note: I am not saying that all feminists do this or enjoy causing men pain!)
A man who has recently gotten hit in the balls is nearly powerless. Many fall to the ground and clutch their testicles. I've seen grown men cry from the pain.
It's a power play. It's the easiest vulnerable spot that a malicious woman can get to. They want to feel powerful against you for whatever reason. It makes them feel better about themselves. They don't feel guilt about causing you pain. As a matter of fact, it makes them feel good inside that they caused you to suffer.
In my entire lifetime, I've only kicked one man in the balls on purpose. He was humiliating me in front of an entire classroom of people. He was hitting me in the head with objects. In all fairness, I seriously warned him verbally by saying, "If you do that one more time, I swear I will hit you in the nuts. I am not kidding."
It's just downright cruel to hit a guy in the nuts for no reason or to gain some sort of twisted pleasure for yourself. It isn't right. Men shouldn't allow this to happen. While a few knocks to the groin usually doesn't cause long-term damage, if it continues to happen a man can have severely decreased sperm counts or even erectile problems.
Talk to an adult if it continues to happen. It is not safe and is extremely disrespectful. You can develop scar tissue within the body, too, from the repeated bruising.
coconutcatastrophe answered Saturday July 10 2010, 2:55 pm: i have never even thought about hitting a guy in the balls on purpose. just like guys don't know what its like to give birth or get periods, girls don't know what its like to get kicked in the balls. neither sex can say one is worse because no one knows both. but when they say it hurts i believe them, thats just mean to whoever intentially kicks you there. [ coconutcatastrophe's advice column | Ask coconutcatastrophe A Question ]
Icanhelpyou123 answered Friday July 9 2010, 3:38 pm: Well first of all because you guys think we girls are over reacting to our periods we think you should feel OUR pain. And second some guys deserve it for being so cocky and sexist all the time! And when it makes you feel sick and when it hurts like hell then you feel our pain.....NOW you guys think we are over reacting about our periods NOWW!? [ Icanhelpyou123's advice column | Ask Icanhelpyou123 A Question ]
WittyUsernameHere answered Friday July 9 2010, 2:46 pm: Mostly because you let them, probably. Some people enjoy tormenting others who can't or won't do anything about it.
Every time I've had a guy hit me in the nuts, it's been an eye for an eye. If a guy can punch you in the nuts and not get in trouble, chances are you could manage the same. Self defense so far as I'm concerned.
Girls are easy to stop. You just don't let them get you there. You don't have to hit a girl to stop her from hurting you. That's what arm locks are for.
Take Ellie below. She's a bit of an arrogant dick who thinks she's entitled to punching you somewhere sensitive because she's a girl and thinks's she's a grown up because she's got two years on you.
In Ellie's situation, your best bet would be to grab the offending arm and lock it behind her. You don't have to hurt her, just hold it there until she settles down. Think of it like bull riding, the goal is not to get gored. Most girls know nothing of grappling or effective fighting, so a non painful arm lock is sufficient to embarrass the hell out of them publicly. Just laugh a little because they're not strong enough to break the hold and ask them if they're done, offer to stand there and hold their arm until they are.
Nothing infuriates an arrogant woman like helplessness. You're trying to be a gentleman. That's good around girls who are receptive (ladies) but not all women are ladies. When you meet a girl who's wants to play like one of the boys and hide behind being a girl to avoid retaliation, play like one of the girls and humiliate her publicly. [ WittyUsernameHere's advice column | Ask WittyUsernameHere A Question ]
helpfulmonkey answered Friday July 9 2010, 1:33 pm: As my science teacher would say: ITS ALL GUYS FAULT THAT GIRLS ARE IN SOOOOO MUCH PAIN FROM GIVING BIRTH (then she says it hurts 10 times more than waht UR talking about) [ helpfulmonkey's advice column | Ask helpfulmonkey A Question ]
NinjaNeer answered Friday July 9 2010, 10:28 am: I used to do karate, and a few times a kick would be mistimed or aimed funny, and the guy would be sacked. Truthfully, it's one of the least funny things I ever experienced. I saw a guy throw up once. So just letting you know that not all girls find this an acceptable behaviour. The only time I would ever hit a guy in the nether regions is if I was in serious danger from him.
Also, I don't think I've ever seen anyone do it intentionally, definitely not with the frequency you're describing. This sounds like a case of harassment by people who are just plain mean and callous. If it's happening at school, you need to talk to your principal about it. That sort of thing can cause serious long term damage to you.
In the meantime, I would suggest investing in a cup. If you have to wear it all the time for now, so be it. It'll help reduce the discomfort.
orphans answered Friday July 9 2010, 9:24 am: its because, some girls thrive from the pain of men. I dont know why. I really dont. They find it entertaining, because they THINK they know how much it would hurt. Its just an easy way to get to a guy. This makes girls look more pathetic, when they do it for fun. [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
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