ive been with this person for 3 years and im not his gurlfriend we see each other weekly. even thought were together we not in a sirious relation ship i have avoided his phone call and will continue to do so until i got great advice or he shows up at my door which i dought he doesncuz he so into himself
3 years is along time to stay with someone who doesn't care to call it a relationship, This guy sounds like a real jerk and if it has been 3 years and you aren't his girlfriend then Hun ...you might never really get that title. You need to move on because you deserve better. A guy that truly appreciates you will gladly label you as his girlfriend, Will want to spend time with you. [ OhMyLucyDarling's advice column | Ask OhMyLucyDarling A Question ]
NinjaNeer answered Friday July 9 2010, 10:54 am: Three years together, and you're not in a relationship?
I'm all for taking your time and taking it slow, but this sounds like a huge waste of your time. No wonder you're ignoring his calls.
It sounds to me like he's liking all the convenience of having someone around, but doesn't want to deal with all that messy relationship stuff. If you want a real relationship with him, you've got to let him know. If he doesn't want it, walk out the door, because you can do better and find a guy who wants to give you his all. There's no point in waiting around for some guy who's too busy looking in the mirror to find time for you. [ NinjaNeer's advice column | Ask NinjaNeer A Question ]
orphans answered Friday July 9 2010, 7:20 am: i really dont understand the premise of your question. Can you add more information and make it clear please? [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
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