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well do they or not?just wondering...

No, I don't.

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Hey!
I was wondering some places that have skinny jeans. I found some at Gap but they were like $50. I think I would like to pay less than that because I dont know how long the fashion is going to stay around for, and I dont want to spend alot of money on something that will be gone in 2 months. Thanks sooo much!!!

there are some at hollister for 39.99 and i love them. charlotte russe or old navy probably has them for less.

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Hey, I heard you did the musical ANYTHING GOES a while back, which is why I was wondering if you could answer my question about it.

I’m 14 and am considering doing the title song for the 8th grade talent show later on this year.

I need to know what kind of mood the song is: Happy? Sad? What kind of expression
should the actor/singer give to the lyrics? I’ve never seen the show, so I can’t really know.

And also, there’s a 45-second overture thingy in the middle of the song where the person is supposed to be tap dancing. I can’t tap dance for my life. What else could I do during the overture? Standing still would be awkward and out of character.


And lastly….I need to know where I can find more PG-rated lyrics. I love the lyrics as they are, but seriously, this is not going to make it through:

“If saying your prayers, you like
If old hymns you like
If bare limbs you like
Or me undressed you like
When nobody will oppose”

I heard that in the movie version with Ethel Merman they altered the lyrics, but that movie is completely inaccessible.

I LOVE ANYTHING GOES!
ok sooo its a pretty upbeat song... she's a "revivalist" reno is kind of preaching... she's also very sexy (night club dancer).
maybe you could edit it and not have the overture in the middle?
i had to learn to tap dance for it and it actually wasn't toooo bad. you could just dance to it if you really want.
you could change the lyrics when you try out and then sing them... i mean if you sing them kinda like a night club singer, chances are the audience wont pick them up unless you act it out, know whati mean? i don't think you can find "pg lyrics" but you could make them up to fit. let me know if you need more info!

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My friend's are into druds, alcohol, smoking ,ans sex. I'm just not interested in any of that stuff at all! I think it's just wrong, but my friends say it'll make me look cool, but, i don't think it will. I think it'll make me look stupid. I'm afraid of giving in, what shoul i do?

whatever you do, don't give in. i'm not saying all those thing are terrible, i'm just saying that if they're pressuring you they arent real friends and you should never participate in any of those things for reasons other than you just wanting to. you will hate yourself for doing it to fit in or because you felt you had to. don't give them a lecture about how bad they are, just dont do it and find other friends.

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Does anyone know how to say harder in spanish?

mas duro, mas dificil... depends what you are saying.

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is it called acid reflex or acid reflux?

acid reflux.

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Is there anyways to see the events your friends are attending on facebook, without it being on the minifeed?

i think you can if you go to "my events" on your homepage but i'm not positive.

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15/M Do girls like guys that wear cologne? Would they like a 15 year old with cologne? I've heard that girls don't like it because cologne reminds them of their dad or grandpa. I was just wondering.

oh yessss we like it! cologne from abercrombie and/or hollister is really popular with guys around that age so try that... not your old man's scent.

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What does it mean when a guy call you and said, "Wanting to see you" when he's drunk?

Does he like you or just horny?

he's probably just horny. you should call him back and see what he says or if he even knew who he was calling.

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ok well my girlfreinds birthday is coming up and she told me to buy her perfume that i really liked, beacuse she's sweet like that. any ways. i really dont know much about perfumes, but i really want to get her prefume and use this chance because a good smelling perfume is a HUGE turn on for me.
so my question is this..what are some decently priced perfumes that smell really good, i just dont know where to start. there is this one kind of perfume that i smelled once, but i dont remember any thing about it, except that it smelled amazing.

so got any ideas?

the maliah (sp?) one and august from hollister are really good. you can get a small bottle for $12.50 or the big one from like $25? one that most guys i know like is Live by jennifer lopez. i think they sell it at walmart now. (i saw it there the last time i went). you could go to the mall and spray a bunch of different ones or get samples from the sales people (if you tell them its for your gf theyll all go crazy haha) and choose the one you like the best. i love perfume so if you need anything else just let me know.

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My boyfriend and I have been together for a while now. He finally has told someone (me) about what has happened in his childhood and how messed up he is about it. He does drugs all the time, drinks, smokes. He used to cut himself but he is done with that and he and I want to get married. My problem is that he recently told me that he wants to also start having sex with other people, that he wants to act out his physical attraction but still be with me. In his mind, he thinks that sex and love are 2 different things, that he can separate the 2 without any attachments to another person and the other eprson won't have any attachment to him. We got into this huge argument about it, him not realizing that just by saying that, it hurt me so much. Well, in the end, he had sex with the girl anyways (but he didn't cum), but now the girl is possibly pregnant. She says that she hadn't had sex with any other person in that time period but they used a condom and it didn't break. How could she have gotten pregnant? I am devastated. I don't know what to do. I want to stay with him, and he knows that I am hurt so badly by these turns of events. But I just don't want to get out of bed in the mornings, I can't go to classes, and when I do, I don't understand anything that the teachers say because I am so numb because of it. I love him so much, and he loves me, but I don't know how I can trust him again without feeling like this.
I don't want to be told that I have to dump him or should dump him, I don't want to do that, I just want to be able to talk to him and not feel like screaming at him. We have been through so much already, and I don't want this to be the end.
Thank you all for your time in reading and responding to this question.

This guy is a loser. really. I don't judge him for the drugs and drinking but wanting to have sex with other people... that's just taking it too far, ya know? he won't make you happy and you'll probably blame yourself later for taking it and not being able to change him. you can do so much better than that! you need someone that you can be happy with that doesn't hurt you. leave him and find someone else. it might seem like a while but it will be worth it. being sad over a break up for a while but then finding someone who can make you happy wil make it worth it. that's just me but if you want to stay with him then just watch out... no one wants to be hurt by someone they love.

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Heyy. I was thinking about applying for a job at victorias secret.. but I don't know how old you have to be.. since ill be 16 soon i didnt know if that would be really slutty to work there either. so anyone who has worked there before give me some advice? and tell me more about working there?

you have to be 18. i don't think it's slutty... guess that's why they don't hire 16 year olds? but yeah, I think it'd be awesome to work there.

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I'm concerned about a couple of friends I have...I was wondering what age is appropriate to have sex...12?...14?...16?...18?...older?...they say they love the guy but come on...what's too young?

I think if someone's gonna lose it in their teen years, 16 is about average if not 17. that's when most can actually make somewhat educated choices. but i do think 18 is better... an adult that could raise a child with a job. 12 is too young. a lot of girls don't even have their period yet and the boys... they're still little boys. 14 is still pretty young but it's not uncommon. i think they should find other ways to show their love for the time being. oral.. fine so be it but jsut having sex cuz they think thats the only way to express themselves is a little extreme for someone young.

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Isn't annoying when people type in run-on sentences and don't punctuate? It makes the question/statement difficult to understand and read. I can understand when people sometimes misspell words; but I hate when people don't even attempt at making themselves seem somewhat intelligent. It is bothersome when people type a response or question like its a text message. No, I'm not an English teacher if you're wondering. I am a sixteen year old female that is in high school.

Yeah, it is pretty annoying. I don't usually mind a couple mistakes but the different "lazy" spellings drive me nuts.

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Does anyone know where to get cute purses from? I'm looking in the $30-$60 range, preferably; but I'm open to suggestions.

Thanks=)

hmm purses :)
victoria's scret has cute ones that come with lotion and stuff but that might just be for christmas. hollister has totes that are cute. american eagle has some along with forever 21, charlotte russe, journeys (thats where i got mine). if you live in certain areas you can get knock off coach, lv and prada on the streets. some shops in the mall have cute ones. you could get a cute vera bradley. hottopic has some too... some are a little too hardcore but they do have some cute ones. i love purses!

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I was always against abortion. I am 16 years old and pregnant. I have a boyfriend for 5 monghs now and we never had sex. The problem is that on a night out with a friend of mine "girl" I got raped. Somebody must have sleeped me that ruffy cause I do not remember anything and woke up the next day feeling like my head is going to explode. That happen over 45 days ago.
My parents now, we told them its my boyfriends and it is my fault cuase my parents have been through a lot and I really dont want them to know. I consider myself mature enough to battle with my own problems and mistakes. I consider it to be my fault since I was not carefull enough. Plus, them knowing would change a lot.
I definately do not want to keep that baby, I definately am not ready to become a mother especially on such an occasion and already too many people know. My parents want me to keep it even though we are not wealthy at all.
I know that after 3 months you can now longer have an abortion so I am running out of time. How do I convince my parents to let me do it? And...if they dont allow me to, I ll do it myself. What could change then? How will I be able to make them, accept my choice. My boyfriend has been really understanding with the hole situation and really helpfull. He is the one willing to give the money for such an...act.
I am ready to do anything it takes not to have that baby, If I have to punch myself in the stomach, I ll do it.
People from my church also know. They will never take me back after such a thing. My boyfriend sais he could move far away with me were we will work and go to school at the same time.

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well you asked for an opinion basically and i gave you mine so i'd appreciate a better rating. thanks.
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Well, I am also against abortion but I do think it's ok when the circumstance it rape. no matter what you did that night, you didn't bring the rape upon yourself...a lot of women think they could have been more careful or less promiscuous looking to avoid it but it's never your fault. I think that if you tell your parents the truth, they will understand and might consider letting you get one. If they just think you were having sex with your bf then they're not going to let you. Maybe you should just have the baby and put it up for adoption. it's in you and it must come out somehow so why not let it out alive? don't punch yourself in the stomach or drink vinegar or anything... it might not die and then you will just have a sick child to live with and it will need someone to take care of it. it could harm you to try and kill the baby. if everyone knows you a pregnant you might as well have the child and give it away and then you wouldnt have to tell your parents the truth. just think about it, i can imagine its a realy hard time but stay focused and remember that you will live with this for the rest of your life no matter what you do.

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I'm 16 and a mother of a little baby. I think he may be teething. What do you think is the best way to relieve the pain? Besides like teething rings.

baby oragel works.

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soo i told my gf that i love her, and she really did not say it back, she is really shy and all plus i'm her firt boyfrined, so what should i do?

Just wait a little while.. she needs time. When my first real boyfriend/real love first told me he loved me, I went nuts. I sat there all night like omg.. is this real? do i love him? you know.. that kind of thing. she might be a little hesitant for a while, just give her time and she'll come around when she's ready. don't rush her or say it allll the time... and don't be disappointed either.

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I want guys to look at me more. Guys tell me I'm really pretty, but I don't think I have the personality to go with it. I'm very loud and outgoing and sometimes I think I take it too far. How do I learn to hold it back and look less immature and annoying to guys? Thanks :)

oh i used to be the exact same way! it's good to be outgoing and stuff... a lot of guys do like that but just tell yourself that you have to settle it down sometimes... it's ok to be quiet/reserved sometimes so when you do talk, people pay attention. don't hold back on things you want to say but just know where to stop. it takes time to really adjust but if you work on it, you should be fine. if you look like you're just having fun and not interested in the guys... they'll pay more attention. ;)

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How long does weed stay in your system?

it depends... i know someone that smoked and passed a drug test 2 weeks later. she drank tons of water and she was pretty active anyway. she only did like a little once so not like a regular so... i think its different for people that do it all the time.
i think it stays longer in your blood.. and hair definatly a lot longer unless you cut it all... all the time.

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