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Wanting more guy attention. I want guys to look at me more. Guys tell me I'm really pretty, but I don't think I have the personality to go with it. I'm very loud and outgoing and sometimes I think I take it too far. How do I learn to hold it back and look less immature and annoying to guys? Thanks :)
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Being charismatic does help when trying to talk to guys. But you should be a little mysterious or make them wonder a little bit to make things interesting for them. You also have to act like someone a guy would want, be super confident, but not too loud or crazy. The best thing to do though is to be yourself and to let the right guy find you. Good luck, hope I helped. -Angel ]
Oh gosh I am the exact same way. You can learn to tone it down eventually with some guys but then you also have to realize that it is important to be yourself. Some guys will ike that you are loud and outgoing just make sure that nothing turns offensive and just be careful what you say. Remember, if I guy can't appreciate the complete you, then he isn't worth your time. :). ]
oh i used to be the exact same way! it's good to be outgoing and stuff... a lot of guys do like that but just tell yourself that you have to settle it down sometimes... it's ok to be quiet/reserved sometimes so when you do talk, people pay attention. don't hold back on things you want to say but just know where to stop. it takes time to really adjust but if you work on it, you should be fine. if you look like you're just having fun and not interested in the guys... they'll pay more attention. ;) <3 ]
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