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how can i help my hair to be wavy its super wavy when its wet but i can't keep it wet when its dry lol sho how cause i make it wavy lol

WILL RATE (link)
put your hair in braids(the real kind not just twist) over night and take them out in the morning its a days fix!


I have always kinda had seld esteem issues, all of my friends are gorgeous and i feel like i am the ugly duckling. You know in movies how their is a group of pretty girls and then they have an ugly friend, and one guy has to "take one for the team" and hang out with her.....i feel like that girl.

Its not that i'm fat, (5'9, 110 pounds) i know i'm not fat, i just never feel pretty.My friends tell me i'm pretty but i feel like that doesnt count because they cant call me ugly, i'm their friend. Any advice to boost my self esteem? (link)
I understand how you feel,I'm the same way,one thing to do is save some money,and ask your mom to drive you and a bunch or a few friends to the mall and get a total make-over you will feel so beautiful,I did!

Good Luck

love,
The other ugly duckling


If your 16 female and still haven't been kissed yet (yeah i know) but only because you want your first time to be very special, then would you be considered a 'hopeless romantic'? (link)
NO!You are defenatly NOT hopless,kids make kissing so over rated its not funny!If it were up to me everyone would have to wait for that specil someone.I think too many kids to day are giving into peer preausure.

Good Luck!


whats the quickest way to get a rid of a tiny scar that you have had almost all your life. [14 years] (link)
There are a thousand creams and ontments to fade the aperance of scars and other skin problems also try a friend/family member/your zit cream that works well for small not so deep scars!
(QUESTION:WHY DO U NEED TO GET RID OF IT?)

GOOD LUCK!


hola- im 13, f

well my boyfriend and i have been going out for 7 months, almost 8 and the relationship has been going fine. . .

i wanted to break up with him before the summer because i usually meet new people. i have this feeling that the longer we stay together, the harder its going to be to break up. i want to do it during school but idk when and how. like, what should i say without making it hurt? i'd perfer to talk to him personally but will he feel better if a friend tells him? and when is a good time to do it? (link)
of corse if this guy really cares for you,he will take it pretty hard,but DO NOT use messangers it will make him hate you,tell him when no ones around and outside of school and don't make a huge fuss about it with your friends.Also tell him you think meeting new people and dating for a while will make you guys tell if you really want to stay together.

Good Luck


My boyfriend & I have been together for almost a year. We haven't had any kind of sex, but it's getting to the point where that's the only place to go. I'm not ready and there's a few reasons still. I don't love him yet and I'm very self-concious. When we're in the mood and getting passionate, I really want to but I stop myself and feel like I'm teasing him. Should I really wait or give in to my temptations? (link)
NEVER give in to your tempations unless you're 100% sure that it's ok. if you're having doubts about it then you definently shouldnt do it.

at least wait until you love him to do it♥


on your WIERD FACTS thing it says It's impossible to lick your elbow. but actually thats not true. i can do it. and so can my friend. is that like really wierd? im sure her and i arent alone.. :[ (link)
either you 2 are double jointed or you guys are getting the actual elbow part. everyone mistakes the part right before the elbow for the elbow, but it's not really it


My parents are hosting a huge gala tonight at our house. Which outfit should i wear?
-Strapless pink cynthia steffe sheath dress with gold bangles
-my trusty sevens and a silk halter
-navy cablenit tube top, true religion jeans, and suede heels

thanks soo much! xoxoxo Alicia
(username-alicia rivera)

I heart the clique!!! (link)
id say the halter. it can be fancy or not fancy, so its good


My parents are hosting a huge gala tonight at our house. Which outfit should i wear?
-Strapless pink cynthia steffe sheath dress with gold bangles
-my trusty sevens and a silk halter
-navy cablenit tube top, true religion jeans, and suede heels

thanks soo much! xoxoxo Alicia
(username-alicia rivera)

I heart the clique!!! (link)
deff the strapless pink cynthia steffe sheath dress with gold bangles.

omg ya i def ♥ the clique too!!


My mom smokes and it really grosses me out because I had the smell of cigarettes. I'm also worried about her health. What should I do? (link)
the best thing you can do is just talk to her about it.

tell her you're worried about her and show her how bad it is for her.

you can take away all of ther cigarettes and lighters, and if she just keeps buying more, then just tell your dad to talk to your mom about it too.

smoking is an addiction, so it'll take time for her to stop smoking ♥


I am looking to find a part-time paying work of any kind that I can do from home. With going to school full time and taking care of my son, I want to bring in a little extra income. Any ideas or suggestions?
Thanks!! (link)
well, if you play any instruments, you can be a teacher and have the students come to your house, because that's what my old piano teacher did.

if you're good at sewing you can make clothes and sell them at your house. just make fliers and stuff and put a big sign at your house.

you can also dog/baby sit at your house too♥


Okay well I get sick way to often =[
sense thursday night ive been running fevers on and off i get chills so horribly my teeth chatter =[ i take medicene which helps it for a lil and then it comes back just as bad as before. and this happened like 3 weeks ago also.. i really dont think this isnormal and im freaked out, please help me
ill rate high (link)
well this does sound pretty serious.

you need to go to the doctor and tell them what's happening to you, and they'll probably know what's wrong.

trust me, if anyone would know about this best, it would be a doctor. so tell your parents you're really worried about it and you don't think it's normal so ask them to take you to a doctor.

hope this helps♥


how do you make layouts for myspace/xanga? (link)
just go to www.pimpmyspace.com


a guy, a girl
ment to be
together forever
nothing more to see

been through so much
they could outlast it all
they were destined to be
as every one could see..

so much love between the two..
as if everyone knew..
that they would last forever..

everyone was wrong..
the love is now gone
the girl is gone
and all because of another guy..

they were ment to be..
forever and beyond..
and thats how it will be..
while shes dying in his arms.




do you think its good?
any comments pleasee..
i will rate high for anything :)
(link)
omg that's sooooo good!!!

did you right that?? lol cuz its PERFECT

it's really romantic and everything ♥


Does anyone have any good ways to get yourself to fall asleep at night? Particularly at slumber parties?

Thanks to anyone who answers :) (link)
i have trouble falling asleep at night too, so what i do helps me fall asleep.

ok well just say to yourself, relax your feet and legs and stomach and hands and arms and neck and face, and so your whole body will be relaxed.

also, to get sleepy, you can read, watch tv, or just anything.

sometimes laying down and keeping your eyes open while you think helps you get sleepy so you can go to sleep.



OK, so i basically wear my hair in a ponytail EVERYDAY. My hair is extremely thick and kinda wavy and it is soooooo fuzzzzzy, a ponytail seems like a managable way to control it. But i am sick of my beloved hair-do and i cant stand to wind another rubberband arounf my precious strands.

The thing is, my hair is O-so fuzzy (none of the serums, conditioners, shampoos or anything work for me) AN my hair is so thick that is kinda sticks out if i wear it down. I need help!!!! Can you give me advice, hairstyles, products or anything to help me excorsice my pony-do? (link)
well, to keep it from being really frizzy, just use a hair streightener.

and you might wana get a new hair cut. like to make it less thick, layer it. here's a really good hair style: part it to the side, cut your bangs to about the end of your ears, hav about 3 layers, and cut it to about 1 and a half inches below your shoulders, and have the top layer like to your shoulders. this will make your hair look veeeeeeery pretty and make it thinner, and it'll also look good down. even if you put it up in a ponytail, the bangs will be down, so it'll look really pretty. but if you don't want your bangs to get in the way, you can also cut it to the end of your face, to like your chin.

you can put it in a high, medium, or low ponytail, wear it down, put it in a sexy bun, or even wear it in a half ponytail. ther're tons of hairstyles you could use

hope i helped♥


well its going to be a little longer than most but im 14/m and there this is a girl in my grade who i think that likes me but im not certain. Being the guy i am i thought it over when i was mowing the lawn. (yes guys think too) but there were three seprate occasions ok the first one is when she was in gym with me and she was supposed to sit behind me but one of my friends was behind her so we switched and the day after that she looked at us kinda weird like day dreaming face i wasnt sure if it was at me or my friend yeah thats the first one the second was yesterday me and some friends were just chilling in math and im the only one sitting at the table and she hurried to where i was sitting well i thought hmm maybe but than the third one was we had a fire drill today and i was at the front of the line with a friend not the same one from the first one but she comes to the front of the line with me. So for me right now im trying to put 2 and 2 together and im getting 22 not the right answer so how can i get 4? (does she like is what i mean0 (link)
Hmmm...It sounds like she likes you. To find out, sort of lightly flirt with her. If she gets even more giggly and dreamy-eyed, she definately likes you.


hey, well my boyfreind sorta gets into alot of trouble in school and such. so his parents just kicked him out of his own home. so now hes living with his grandma. but before he left to go to his grandmas his parents took his cell phone. his grandma also doesnt have a computer .. so that means no AIM. so basically now the only time i see him is in school. he metioned to me that his grandma doesnt like him using her phone so theres really no way of communicating. this makes me quite upset and i dont know what to do. please help. cait♥ (link)
My boyfriend is not allowed to have a girlfriend and he's also handicapped when it comes to communication. You're just going to have to deal with it or get another boyfriend. I left mine and we got back together and he tries more. It'll work out.


Okay..So one of my best friend got a new bf. They were completely obsessed with each other, and I was getting blown off. I confronted her and it didn't go that well. Now we barely talk, and she treats me like I'm not even there. I can't really explain the way I feel when she treats me, its just a "I'm basically not good enough to talk to her" kinda feeling. I just want to be a more civil state or starting to be friends again kind of state. Any ideas? (link)
Boys are temporary. Friends are for life. In time she will leave this boy and go hunting for you. I suggest that you don't worry about her and just wait it out.


ok so im 14/f n i've never used a tampon before. So today i thought I'd try one and i totally chickened out. It couldn't have gone any worse. I would put it in, but then it would start to hurt so i'd pull it right out. Finally i just gave up.Should i put vaseline on the tip of it? Help please!! (link)
use a smaller tampon or it's just cause your not use to them yet so yea try the vasoline after you try a smaller size goodluck !!


i hope this helps




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