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breaking up
hola- im 13, f
well my boyfriend and i have been going out for 7 months, almost 8 and the relationship has been going fine. . .
i wanted to break up with him before the summer because i usually meet new people. i have this feeling that the longer we stay together, the harder its going to be to break up. i want to do it during school but idk when and how. like, what should i say without making it hurt? i'd perfer to talk to him personally but will he feel better if a friend tells him? and when is a good time to do it?
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of corse if this guy really cares for you,he will take it pretty hard,but DO NOT use messangers it will make him hate you,tell him when no ones around and outside of school and don't make a huge fuss about it with your friends.Also tell him you think meeting new people and dating for a while will make you guys tell if you really want to stay together.
Good Luck
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i had the same problem recently. your right. the sooner the better. you should definiently do it yourself and not have a friend do it. talk to him and tell him why your breaking up with him, and say that you feel it's whats best. its gonna hurt him no matter what you say, but to make it hurt the least tell him how sorry you are and that you just feel like its the right thing to do. if you need anymore help just ask
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hey. why would you break up with him? if your relationship is going fine then i would continue going out with him. but if you do want to break up with him, here are some tips:
- talk to HIM alone, dont do it in front of a crowd.
- say that you want to continue being friends with him
- i would do it after graduation/dance? so then he wont be mad at you or depressed.
- i would do it durring the summer (personally) because then you dont have to deal with so much drama from other people finding out. good luck! hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥
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It's going to hurt either way.
You want to break up with him simply because you think your going to meet more guys this summer? Shame, aparently your relationship isn't that deep or commited.
Do it as soon as you can if your seriously wanting to go through with it. Do it yourself and do NOT have a friend tell him.
And then if you do break up with him, do not get another boyfriend, because chances are if you broke up with him because you meet "new people" then you're probably going to do it again. Your just going to end up hurting another guy. And if you ultimately decid to stay with him now, seriously reconsider your relationship.
I'm being honest. A relationship isn't anything if your willing to drop it all for "new people" you MIGHT meet.
-Ryan
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