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Friend
Okay..So one of my best friend got a new bf. They were completely obsessed with each other, and I was getting blown off. I confronted her and it didn't go that well. Now we barely talk, and she treats me like I'm not even there. I can't really explain the way I feel when she treats me, its just a "I'm basically not good enough to talk to her" kinda feeling. I just want to be a more civil state or starting to be friends again kind of state. Any ideas?
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Boys are temporary. Friends are for life. In time she will leave this boy and go hunting for you. I suggest that you don't worry about her and just wait it out.
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I am here to tell you that there is hope! Right now, she's wrapped up with him. Trust me, I've been in that situation. However, one day he's not going to be there for her for one reason or another and she will come crawling back to you. When she does, let her in. Forgive her. That's what I did and I'm glad to say that I have my best friend back.
In the mean time, tell her how you feel. If she chooses to ignore it, make new friends and get closer to the ones you already have.
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I know you miss your friend a lot, but sometimes you just have to let her have her honeymoon phase with her boyfriend and eventually they'll get sick of each other and start giving each other more space.
Though she should realize that she's not being a very loyal friend by acting as if nothing has changed when they have. But I think that if she truly knew what was going on in your mind, then she'd feel bad and try to correct things, but when you have that loving feeling, it's like you put on blinders and you see nothing but that one person you love.
What you should do is let your friend come to you when she wants to hang out. Find other friends to spend your time with and start making new ones while she's off with her boyfriend. There's honestly nothing else you can do to make her see things your way.
-TheTeenGirl
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It will all be alright... don't worry...
Well, seems to me that your friend is really delightful having a new boyfriend... I can tell, some people can be really really different when it comes to boy/girlfriends things... Well, just wait until she gets over it... because I'm pretty sure that she will... Just apologize to her, tell her that you need her as well... That's what friends are for... Tell her that she hasn't been a really supportive friend for the past weeks... (I'm just guessing... sorry...) If she's really your friend, she'll understand...
Just relax and breath... life isn't that hard...
Wish you the best luck. I hope she will come back to you... *I'll pray for you...*
PS: Everything will be alright...
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