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"Though its been a while now
I can still feel so much pain
Like a knife that cuts you the wound heals
But the scar, that scar remains..." -Poison, Every Rose Has It's Thorn.




My name's Ammo and I'm here to give any help or advice on anything that I can. :] Firstly, if you were kind enough to come here and read up on me, I thank you.

I've been through a lot when it comes to relationships and life in general. I've seen and heard many things and have always felt it's nice to be able to share my experiences (both good and bad ones) with as many people as I can in the hopes that I can help others not make the mistakes I've made (and sometimes still make). Who knows, maybe there's a lesson or two I can learn from you as well.

I don't really use chat programs much anymore so e-mail would be the best way to get in touch if you wish to chat but if you really need to chat then I am able to do so via Facebook, Yahoo or MSN. I'm a very social person so don't mind anyone wanting to chat. ^_^

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How do I get my own forum?

This would depend on a number of things but my suggestion would be to register and create your own forums at http://www.invisionfree.com

You will need toregister and you can then create your own forums (one of mine is at http://z6.invisionfree.com/GlobalOps). Invisionfree give youa lot of freedom when it comes to editing the forums to suit them to your specific needs and such as well as adding skins to make the forums look unique to your theme.

On a side notem, if you visit www.no-ip.com AFTER you have created your forums you can use the web direct service on no-ip's web site to create a URL shortcut to your forums. For example the URL for my forums is:

http://z6.invisionfree.com/GlobalOps

Using the link from no-ip I had it shortened to:

http://bmfclan.servegame.com

Hope this was all helpful. :]

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Does anyone know how you can record what you're doing on the computer like the videos in this site?

http://myspace.com/myspacephotoshop

There's a number of programs you can use to record what you are doing on your desktop. One is Camtasia (which I use) but the best one that I would suggest (but might be a little harder to use so you will need to read all the documentation included with it) is HyperCam. You can download this for free at the following web site:

http://www.hyperionics.com/

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my boyfriend "popped my cherry" a couple days ago. and now i have a piece of skin visible out of my vagina. is this normal? should i be worried?

My guess would be that the piece of skin that is visible out of your vagina is your hymen.

Usually when the cherry is popped the skin covering the vagina (hymen) breaks (if it hasn't already done so before intercourse) and is usually ejected during child birth. It seems that maybe with you that isn't the way it's happen but this is only my guess I'm afraid as I am not qualified to make a diagnosis.

I would suggest that you speak to your doctor (or have your parents make an appointment for you and then request to see your doctor alone) and get a more qualified opinion on the matter. If your doctor is a male and you prefer to discuss this with a female (which would be understandable) then you can request to see a nurse instead.

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my mp4 player has gone haywire on me. I turn it on and go to the music and it says "empty disk" which on mine means no music. Its a 4GB. When I plug it into the comp, it says i've got 2.4GB left. WHAT THE FLIP IS GOING ON??? IS THERE ANY WAY TO FIX THIS!! sorry for the caps, but it is REALLY ticking me off.

This happen to my MP3 Mobiblu player as well and it turned out it was just the music was in a format that the player couldn't read.

You may want to try deleting (formating) all the tracks you have on there and copying them back on to see if that works.

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?eurl=&v=FXR30IdiUGI
what is this video about? i dont get it.

There's been a recent increase of music videos of this kind. I don't think the video really means anything, it's just a good way to get a lot of people (guys mostly) to watch the videos (and inadvertantly promote the music).

I can think of thre other videos similar to this one that have recently come out (can't recall names or anything though) but they have been played a lot in the local pubs/clubs where I live.

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this really isn't a confusing drama story, it's just long. please read!


alright here it goes. i've been hooking up with this guy for about a month, and a few weeks ago he asked me out and i said yes. i immediately regretted it. i don't know why, maybe i'm afraid of commitment (probably not because i'm only 15) but i feel like i'm using him for experience. don't get me wrong, i do like him, just sometimes i get so many doubts about him that i get this sinking feeling, feeling like i did the wrong thing by going out with him, like i'm in too deep now to get out of it. the main problem is that i feel like i'm using him for experience and i feel like sometimes i have to force myself to like him, when other times i truly do like him and i feel like i would never break up with him. what do i do?? should i wait it out a little longer, just till the end of the school year? i change my mind so much about him that i feel like i'm gonna make the wrong decision by breaking up with him if i do..and he's been hurt so much in the past that i don't want to be his next girlfriend to hurt him. please help :(

You seem to have a lot of doubts about your choice so it may just be a good idea to sit down and have a hard think about what it is YOU want.

In relationships everyone gets hurt and even though he may have been hurt a lot in the past I can guarantee it's no where close to the last of it. That's just how relationships work I'm afraid so don't force yourself to stay with him just because you don't want to hurt him. He will be hurt either way but the longer you leave it the harder it will get on you and the more it will hurt him.

You should have a hard think about what you want since you can't really force yourself to love someone (it just doesn't work that way). If you decide you want to end this then do it sooner rather than later.

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okay so ive had a boyfriend for 7 months now..and lately every little thing he did was starting to annoy me, so i knew it was time for a break...he still really loves and cares about me though. He's 15 and i just turned 17 and he won't be 16 till April...so that kinda turned me off a bit too. the thing is is that i really like 2 other guys.. both of them used to like me...but once i started going out with my now ex, one of them, "bob" started going out with another girl. and the other one, "Blake" has a kid and lives two hours away...
okay Blake....
the night before i broke up with my bf Blake came to see me... he told me that his girlfriend broke up with him 2 days ago... and he kept making suddle moves on me the whole night, but i didn't lean in for a kiss because i STILL had a bf... it's been a week since he came to see me and he hasn't called or texted.. but i really like him..... some of my friends think he used me just for a rebound, some of my other friends think that it was just a coinsedence and that hes just really busy. I personally don't understand why he would drive 2 hours just to rebound, when he couldve found another girl closer...
now Bob...
bob used to like me...but he didn't tell me until i asked him if he did... and i had just started going out with another guy. I liked bob too....now bob's being a jerk and we're both REALLY mean to eachother... but you can tell that we hate being mean eachother if that makes any sense at all....

i like them both... but i dont know what to do...
i guess:

1) do you think its okay to text a guy if he doesn't text you back or would you sound to desperate and should u just wait for him to text you?
2) how do you ask a guy if he likes you without asking that direct question?
3) what are some things i could say to bob that hint around at me liking him but don't sound slutty cuz he does have a gf?
4) Was Blake just using me for a rebound?
thanks.

Hmm, first the questions:

1) I see nothing wrong with texting a guy but in general you shouldn't over do it. It's not about looking desperate but more of how it can seem clingy or become annoying (I speak from experience).

2) I suppose you could ask them if there's anyone out there they like at the moment and observe their reaction towards you or just see what they say. If they just say yer there is and give you a 'look' then it may even be you. But generally the only way to be sure is to ask if it's you or ask who it is.

3) Telling him that you like him whilst he has a gf may be a mistake anyway. Think of it this way... if you tell him you like you and he says, "great I like you too" and proceeds to dump his girlfriend for you. The think you need to ask yourself after that is how long will it be before another girl comes along telling him she likes him and he dumps you for her.

4) My guess would be yes. I'll be very upfront with you. You mentioned the 2 hour thing. I don't think that would stop a guy at all if he was on the rebound and thought he may have a chance to ease his pain (and generally the way guys ease that pain during a rebound is thorough sex). That aside I generally have a bad feeling about any guy who would make a move on a girl knowing full well she has a boyfriend. :/

Overall I think the choice really is yours. You need to decide who you will be happiest with and who will treat you properly and isn't just out to mess you around. There is no certain way though to know which it is out of the two - it's just how relationships work and why most relationships don't work out. Sometimes we just pick the wrong guy (or girl).

Good luck. :]

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Ok so I'm 15 years old and I have a boyfriend and I love him so much...we'll I think. Sometimes he calls me dummy and stupid and then says that he really likes me. But its like he can't talk to me about personal stuff. I know he loves me but I want him to show it more how?. I love him so much but its hard sometimes to talk to him and show him my feelings. Sometimes I can't even say I love you?. Why and I do know I mean it. Also how do I get him to stop calling me stupid I know he loves me though. Oh and how to I get him to tell me his personal stuff and to let me in?.
Thanks lotsss!

Hello.

Trust generally comes with time and by what you say he may just have a barrier up around him to keep you out (maybe he has been hurt in the past?) and so all you will be able to do is work on it to gain his trust. In time he will let you past that defencive barrier and open up to you.

Maybe he is the kind of guy who doen't generally like the whole 'emotional stuff' and hence doesn't like talking about how he feels or doesn't like you telling him you love him. Thing that puzzles me is if he doesn't want to get close to you emotionally why be in a relationship? A relationship is not just a physical togetherness - it has to be emotional as well otherwise below all that physical stuff there really are no foundations to keep it afloat.

I strongly urge you to sit him down and talk to him about how you feel and how he is making it hard for you to express your emotions. A relationship is a two way thing - there's give and take and you seem to not be getting anything back from his side.

As for him calling you stupid, I know how that can get very annoying and maybe even hurtful. H may just say it as a joke but regardless, if it is something you don't like you need to ask him to stop. He is your boyfriend but that does not mean he can call you names and make you feel bad anymore than the next person. Just explain to him that you don't like it and ask him to stop and that should do it hopefully. :]

I hope everything works out after having a chat woth him but if it doesn't we're all here to offer more help.

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Ok so I'm 15 years old and I have a boyfriend and I love him so much...we'll I think. Sometimes he calls me dummy and stupid and then says that he really likes me. But its like he can't talk to me about personal stuff. I know he loves me but I want him to show it more how?. I love him so much but its hard sometimes to talk to him and show him my feelings. Sometimes I can't even say I love you?. Why and I do know I mean it. Also how do I get him to stop calling me stupid I know he loves me though. Oh and how to I get him to tell me his personal stuff and to let me in?.
Thanks lotsss!

Hello.

Trust generally comes with time and by what you say he may just have a barrier up around him to keep you out (maybe he has been hurt in the past?) and so all you will be able to do is work on it to gain his trust. In time he will let you past that defencive barrier and open up to you.

Maybe he is the kind of guy who doen't generally like the whole 'emotional stuff' and hence doesn't like talking about how he feels or doesn't like you telling him you love him. Thing that puzzles me is if he doesn't want to get close to you emotionally why be in a relationship? A relationship is not just a physical togetherness - it has to be emotional as well otherwise below all that physical stuff there really are no foundations to keep it afloat.

I strongly urge you to sit him down and talk to him about how you feel and how he is making it hard for you to express your emotions. A relationship is a two way thing - there's give and take and you seem to not be getting anything back from his side.

As for him calling you stupid, I know how that can get very annoying and maybe even hurtful. H may just say it as a joke but regardless, if it is something you don't like you need to ask him to stop. He is your boyfriend but that does not mean he can call you names and make you feel bad anymore than the next person. Just explain to him that you don't like it and ask him to stop and that should do it hopefully. :]

I hope everything works out after having a chat woth him but if it doesn't we're all here to offer more help.

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how do people make their myspace pics like all cool and stuff, with writing and pictures in it.

sort of like this
http://photobucket.com/mediadetail/?media=http%3A%2F%2Fi95.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fl141%2Faaron_xoxo%2Fangel.jpg&searchTerm=photoshop&pageOffset=13


ya knoww, stuff like that. do you need photoshop or something? how do you get it?

thanks

There are various paint packages that can be used to edit pictures with overlaying graphics and text.

Photoshop is one of them and another is Paint Shop Pro (which has a vast amount of effects you can add to a picture).

You can add pictures (like that butterfly in your example) and normal text to any picture just using a program like MS Paint (Start -> Programs -> Accessories -> Paint) which is a lot more basic but can still produce the desired effects.

A note on the text, to add a specific font of text to a picture (especially with MS Paint) you have to ensure you have the font installed on your compuer. You can download various fonts from the Internet for free (a simple search in google would produce a good number of results) and these font files need to then be stored in your fonts folder on your computer (in Windows XP this can be found at C -> WINDOWS -> FONTS).

Hope this was helpful.

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14/m okay well it started a while back when me and my friend 14/f were walkin about the school grounds, we were really close and i liked her and she knew, and i heard that she kinda liked me but wasnt sure, and that she couldnt go out with me because of her religion(jehovahs witness) now we went inside under the stairs and well i said open your mouth and close yer eyes and i will give u a big suprise, now i was gunna kiss her then but i chickened out wen she opened her eyes i made out that i was gunna put a pencil down her throat(jokily) and i said that is a little mean, close yer eyes so i can think of somthing mean to do 2 u(in a sort of flirty way) and she closed em and said back with a smile go on, do somthing bad(note: she really trusted me) and i kissed her then just a quick peck on the lips and she open her eyes and burst out laughing and later said she didnt like it, and that she trusted me and that i broke it things have been weird with me and her ever since, and this was quite a few months back last year. ive tred talking to her about it and she just keeps saying i brk her trust and i dont know what to do please help!

This is a very sticky situation indeed and a common thing when it comes to taking a friendship to something more because it will either work out okay or the friendship will never be the same again.

I think your best course of action would be to try and sit down with her and talk it out with her and explain your side of things. If she refuses to talk to you tell her you're really sorry about what happen and you just ask for 5 mins of her time to talk to you. From there you may have to tell her the truth - that you liked her (more than friends) and it was why you did it but you didn't think it would cause so many problems or didn't think it would make her to angry at you.

She will either forgive you (in which case you will need to start working on gaining her trust back which will be a slow process) or she won't in which case I'm afraid you will be left with a harsh lesson which many others go through as well, in the same situation. Try not to blame yourself though, as I said it happens a lot and to a lot of people who are friends where one of them want something more than that.

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theres a guy... & he flirts with me all the time. we hung out Monday and he was flirting with me so much and he called me beautiful and all this stuff. then one of my friends tells me today that he likes another girl. I was really upset because I felt stupid... i set my feelings on him and then this happened. i just don't know how i should act around him, because i'm not sure if he still likes me. i mean, i still like him but should i not show it? should i flirt with him even more? should i not even talk to him? any ideas?

Just be yourself. You don't know for certain if there is another girl there (and if there is then I don't know what game he is playing at by wanting this other girl and making you think he has a thing for you as well). Sometimes guys flirt without even realising so this may be the case here as well.

Don't feel stupid though and don't act like anything other than yourself. Be yourself around him and just see what happens but if you are afraid that he may like someone else and is just messing you around then you can avoid the flirting with him. At the end of the day if he still likes this other girl over you then it will be his loss.

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okay im 14/m and i have this friend 14/f and well i sort of like her, but thats not what this is about, now i was talking to her and she said that a long long time ago she heard my best frind say somthing, and when i confronted my best friend about it he was sooo mad at the girl i like(lets call her jill to save confusion)he was very angry at jill, he was swerin and everything he said thats it im gunna sort her out tomorry i want a word with that b**** and well jill gets upset easily and so i wet to her and said look my best friends relli mad at you, and i told her i confronted him about what he said, and she was upset that i did that because apparently i made out that she was the liar and it really upset her, now i begged my friend not to be mean to jill and after a while he have in and had a calm word with her, now she thinks that i was making out that my friend was really angry in the same way that she was the liar, and ever since then she thinks that i twist everything people say, and she also thinks that i go way over the top on everything, and she also thinks that im a liar, now ive done a few things to mke her think that, and yes i made her cry a few times, and her mom has now banned her fom e-mailing me, talkig on the phone with me andI.M ing me on msn, and ive changed so my question is how can i het me and her to be really close like we were and be able to contact her and stuff? thanx in advance

I think the best thing to do would be to try and talk to her and be honest with her about everything. You wanted your friend to calm down and not shout at her because you like her and you didn't want her getting really upset (because she can get upset easily) and it worked as far as calming your friend down. I can understand why you would ask your best friend about what Jill heard him say. If someone had been saying something about me I would also want to know what it was. More so that it was someone who I liked that heard it. I do not think you are in the wrong at all in wanting to ask your friend what was said.

The thing here it seems is that you've just lost her trust and you need to work to try and build that back up. She may have difficulty trusting people. There's no shortcuts to trust - it takes a lot of time. That's pretty much how trust works though. It can take years to gain someone’s trust but only a second to lose it.

I think all you can really do is try to explain your side of the story (you asked your friend not because you doubted her but because you wanted to know what he had said about you) since I'm guessing she wouldn't tell you what it was that he had said about you? Also, you'll need to stop lying to her. Lies can't always remain hidden, eventually they do get found out and they can be the cause of a lot of agro afterwards.

I think once you manage to get her trust back and she sees things from your point of view the whole situation with the emailing and IM and such will fix itself. Since it is her mom who put those in effect in the first place she will be the only one who can lift them. Once her mom sees that her daughter trusts you again maybe her mom will do just that. I can't make any promises here though and this will take time and not happen over night.

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When you view your photos on Myspace, how do you get a background?

As far as I know you can only change the look of the front page (where the about me stuff is). You can't edit anything on the pics page but I am not entirely sure on this so it may be worthwhile seeing if someone else has it edited and asking them on myspace.

From the edit options I have seen though there is no way to enter any code or style sheets to change the look of the pics pages.

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Help!
I want to make my own song files with background music.
for background music i want to have the music in songs I have on my compute..
But the problem is that I dont know how to record a similar song file with me singing without having the voice of the background original singer( this kind of spoils my song clips cos its hard to distinguish who's voice is mine from the original singer's) .I want to know how to cut out the singers voice in a music file.is there a software for it? where can i download it

Depending on the song you are after there might be a instrumental version available for it somewhere on the Internet (also known as a karaoke version) which will be void of the original singers voice so you can happily record over it with your own.

To remove the original singers voice would be a very hard task and to be honest I currently know of no software that is available free that can do it. It may require a mix of specialist hardware/software to achieve the task which I would imagine would be a very expensive endeavour.

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hello, here in the UK none of the stores websites have the nintendo wii. everywhere has ran out! how long will it be before there wont be this instant cycle of putting in on shelves, then 20 minutes later, there being non left? thanks.

Nintendo Wii should be in shops in a couple of months or so, going by what I was told at my local Game store (and what I was told at various other game/console exchange stores).

Ebay is a good place but some sellers on there will use the fact that they are nowhere on sale in the UK currently to inflate the prices well above the retail price so it may take some time to get yourself a good deal.

Eventually when Nintendo release them again (which will hopefully be soon) the rage and demand will die down and then the Wii will be like any other console.

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ok, well when i did it, i like exed it all out, did i do it right?

Yup that should have done it As long as the program is closed the remote connection is usually severed and you should be fine. :]

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my boyfriend recently moved about 3 hours away. he comes back and visits every two weeks. and his next visit is on his birthday. i got him a nice shirt from abercrombie, a necklace, cologne and a little build a bear i made for him. i have everything i need i just need a cute way to give it to him i dont want to just be like oh here you go-his birthday is on april fools day if that helps any

I'm a comical type of person so I would use that it's April 1st to my advantage and probably give a fake present (an empty box, lol) and then later give the real present. :]

A cute way to give him the present. :/ You could hide it somewhere for him to find, that is usually always a really nice thing to do and has usually worked really nicely for me. Thing is since I don't know him I don't really know what he may consider cute and what he may not consider cute. You know him better than I so you would be in the best place to try and decide what way he would like the best.

I'm sorry I can't be much more detailed. :[

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Every time I eat or drink something, I always end up getting sick from it. Lately I have not been eating because I fear of getting sick again. I do know I NEED to eat, so I do go by small portions, but now my body is getting more and more sensitive to food, and I end up getting sick. Even water worsens it.

What could this be and what could I do besides going to a Doctor?

If food as well as water is making you this ill then you should seriously consider going in to see your doctor as soon as possible.

I'm not a doctor or qualified to make a diagnosis and taking advice on a medical issue such as this from someone who isn't qualified to give it (or finding some do-it-yourself way to try to fix what's wrong) is putting yourself and your body at risk.

My advice is, as much as you may be afraid of or not want to see a doctor, is to make an appointment to see one very soon or have your parents make the appointment for you.

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ok well my battery is low on my ipod so when i press the centre button it shows a low battery...i didnt use it the battery just got low... well then it starts getting lines on it like you know when your TV has lost the signal!!?? is there sumthin wrong or what?

PS i dont no if sum1 like snuck in and got it and used up all the battery

Leaving the battery charged over a long period also makes the battery lose its power as well. A good idea might also be to drain the battery completely (so it's dead) before recharging it again as that way it will be a fresh charge.

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