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no trust
14/m okay well it started a while back when me and my friend 14/f were walkin about the school grounds, we were really close and i liked her and she knew, and i heard that she kinda liked me but wasnt sure, and that she couldnt go out with me because of her religion(jehovahs witness) now we went inside under the stairs and well i said open your mouth and close yer eyes and i will give u a big suprise, now i was gunna kiss her then but i chickened out wen she opened her eyes i made out that i was gunna put a pencil down her throat(jokily) and i said that is a little mean, close yer eyes so i can think of somthing mean to do 2 u(in a sort of flirty way) and she closed em and said back with a smile go on, do somthing bad(note: she really trusted me) and i kissed her then just a quick peck on the lips and she open her eyes and burst out laughing and later said she didnt like it, and that she trusted me and that i broke it things have been weird with me and her ever since, and this was quite a few months back last year. ive tred talking to her about it and she just keeps saying i brk her trust and i dont know what to do please help!
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This is a very sticky situation indeed and a common thing when it comes to taking a friendship to something more because it will either work out okay or the friendship will never be the same again.
I think your best course of action would be to try and sit down with her and talk it out with her and explain your side of things. If she refuses to talk to you tell her you're really sorry about what happen and you just ask for 5 mins of her time to talk to you. From there you may have to tell her the truth - that you liked her (more than friends) and it was why you did it but you didn't think it would cause so many problems or didn't think it would make her to angry at you.
She will either forgive you (in which case you will need to start working on gaining her trust back which will be a slow process) or she won't in which case I'm afraid you will be left with a harsh lesson which many others go through as well, in the same situation. Try not to blame yourself though, as I said it happens a lot and to a lot of people who are friends where one of them want something more than that.
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