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hey! well im 15/f
and allright so ive been having boy troubles lately..i was kinda crushin a little bit on this guy and we were flirtin alot until i find out he just got a girlfriend so that went down then drain and now i feel like i cant flirt with him anymore. so i just sit there but he kinda still flirts with me! i mean i spilt somethin on my shorts lol and so i was changin into my boxer shorts in my friends room and i guess he told my friends sister to open the door and pull down the towel i had because supposively he wanted to see my ass and i dont know i didnt start flirting with him because i backed off since i found out he had a girlfriend but he still kinda flirts with me! he is so adorable and sweet and we can have such good talks and i was talkin to him on AIM and hes like jokin around sayin ohh didnt this boy look sexy today and i was like haha real funny! and hes like just kidding but we'll find you a boy dont worry. hes just sooo sweet!! but he really likes this girl and i guess has liked her for awhile but then why does he do this with me?! and like for stuff on AIM or whatever hes always like i love you lindsey?!
soo im just so confused... (link)
Big no no. if he has a girlfriend steer clear of that crap. if he's saying this to you, you must think of the facts, he may be saying it to someone else too! Just because he says he loves you doesn't mean he actually means it. I know this is mean to say but it could be true. Ask him straight out. "If you love me why are you with her? Dump her if you really love me cause I don't wanna be second best." simple as that. If he gets pissed at you? he wasn't worth the gum on your shoe ;-P

Kris.


so there is this one guy!! and he is really really cute and seems really funny. ive always had my eye on him since like winter but ive never talked to him because i didnt know how to approach him. well a couple nights ago he I/M my friend and said somethin but she was gone so i was like this is kristen ..shelly is upstairs so then hes like asking me all these questions like what school do you go to..do you know these people? and hes like are you hot? lol and im like uhh..and so my friends brother goes up on his computer and shows him my myspace link and i guess this guy was like shes "aight" soo that kinda lowered my confidence but then i was like wait you play on this baseball team right? and hes like yeah and i was like yeah i was at your game tonight! and hes like yeah we suck but im the catcher..and im like ohh you did good! and then hes like yeah but i got to go take a shower so then he left and i was like allright cya. and how can i somehow talk to him again? i wish he would get my screename from someone and I/M me first because that way i would know he was interested or whatever! i mean ive had my eye on him forever and now i finally got to talk to him! i dont want to request him on myspace or I/M him first because i dont want to feel like a stalker or like him being i dont really even know you?...ive talked to you only once?..

i just dont know! do you guys have any suggestions? and i guess that he doesnt really talk to my friend much they dont hangout at all so i dont think she could help me!

also im so shy and always worried of what people think of me...i know i shouldnt i wish i wouldnt but i cant help it! thats why i dont want to approach him first. but lately this kid is all i can think of!? hes kinda popular so i dont know if he would go for me..since he said im "aight" looking..but i think i could maybe get him by my personality or something??

thanks so much. (link)
you should ask your friend to get the IM from her brother and then get her to big you up to him. If he does like you it won't take much for her to do so, if he doesn't like you then I'm sorry, but I'm sure you'll find someone.

In relation to shyness. it's the internet. act yourself and no one could hate that. Act as if you are talking to a friend!
It'll be easier then

Kris.


which is better an Ipod or an Mp3 player and y? (link)
id get an ipod, because a lot of ppl have them, and so they can help you with them, and theyre just better in general. that is my opinion though


We are moving this summer and my parents told me I could get a dog. I want a small dog that I can carry around with me everywhere. I've thought about getting a bichon frise for quite some time, but I found out that they can get fairly big sometimes. Any ideas on some small, full bred dogs I could get? And some of the positives and negatives about them? (link)
i have a chihuhaua, but id suggest a pomeranian or a papillon if you dont want a chihuahua. but i like chihuahuas


which is better an Ipod or an Mp3 player and y? (link)
i think Mp3 players are better because some of them can do exactly what an ipod can do if not more. plus, theyre a little cheaper because theyre not extrememly populart like ipods. for example i was goin to get a nano with 1000 songs and i found something cheaper that holds 3000 songs. but it really depends on whos buying it. Mp3's are kinda bad only because the battery but other than that i think theyre a lot better then ipods.

hope i helped


ok i'm the kind of girl that loves punk and just about anything besides the opera and classical scene. what are some really great bands that are punk? indie? ska? yeah just stuff like that would be great. please & thank you (link)
The Beatles. I'm just like you, and so is my "group."


which is better an Ipod or an Mp3 player and y? (link)
I think MP3 Players are better. But that's just me. iPods are mainly for fashion; it's what "in" right now.


I'm in this acting camp, and this week is Spirit Week. The past three days haven't been too hard (Monochromatic Day, Twin Day, Goth Day) but tomorrow, Nerd Day, I don't know what to wear. If I could have some ideas, that would be greatly appreciated. (Also, along with clothes, please give good accessory ideas, and hairstyles). Please, if you could, answer by tonight. Thanks in advance! (link)
Hehe, wear plaid shirt, highwaters, tall socks, and sandals! lol.. maybe a weird belt too.


My friend said the first time she smoked a cigarette, she got "high" and she felt jittery and light-headed. Is that true? I mean, can that happen with a cigarette? I'll rate high for good answers. Thanks (link)
They already told you why, but here's my advice. You don't need to know. DON'T SMOKE. If there were no more people in the world, you wouldn't even THINK about smoking? Because you're just doing it to impress other people. It causes lung cancer and SO much more. I would rather see someone with pretty white teeth (smoking causes yellow teeth) rather than know that you smoked. Doesn't impress anyone but bad people. I've got a grandpa that smoked when he was younger, and so much is going wrong. Please listen to me, even if you weren't thinking about smoking. I'm not trying to be rude! Just facts. Bye!


ok well me and my b/f we at this dance thing and we were dancing then out of nowhere another girl comes up to us and was like hey ur hott to my b/f then right there he just lefted (i thought he saw one of his friends or somthing)well moments later me and my friends were walking around then when a slow song came up i saw my b/f dancing with the girl that called him hott i really didnt mind at first but then later he came up to me and broke up with me for the other girl.so then right after he broke up with me he asked that girl out butt she said no because she already had a bf but he wasnt there soo she had no 1 to dance wiht soo she just asked a random person to dance with her(my b/f) well then my b/f came up to me again and asked me out again but all my friends told me not to go back out wiht himm but i honestly still love himm but i dont no wut to do??plzz help (link)
i think you should break up wiht him. he apparently doesnt care for you if he roke up wiht your for another girl. and then since she's already taken he come back to you. tell him that your not a backup and he shouldnt of left your in the first place. i know it might be hard to get over him but he doesnt deserve you.

hope i helped / good luck


i took piano lessons when i was 9 years old,and then because the teacher was so strict and i cried after sessions,i quit.and now i wanna study piano again but i don't think my mom would let me.i'll really stick to it,be strong,and work real hard on it.i just wanna learn how to play the piano again....13's not "too late" age,right??how do i convince my mom???tnx in advance (link)
13 is so not too late. you are nver to late. my moms friend started piano, and she was 32!

my sister's piano teacher started piano at 14, but wishes he had started earlier. he was seriuos player though, and got good.

basically, you cant really be too old/late


ok, how much should i charge for cars or trucks? (link)
depends on how long you take

1 hour: $12
45 minutes:10
30 minutes: $8
15 minutes: $5


it really shouldnt take mroe than 15 minutes though


I'm going to a nail salon for the first time. I want to have tips put on, like the complete full acrylic nail, so my nails look longer, and have the french manicure look. I was wondering approximately how much will this cost? Do I have to include a tip also? Do I have to scheduale an appoitment? (link)
different salons mean different rules and prices. you may have to schedule an appoitment, so call and ask anyways. tips normally should be given, about 2-5 dollars (normally 3) acrylics cost about 25-35 dollars, but normally 30


about a year and a half ago i did something so stupid. i cut a strand of hair in front of my head thinking it was no big deal because i just wanted it gone. then i realized it would grow back. so i shaved it but then i let it grow for awhile..then i couldnt take it and tweezed it.. that lasted for awhile but then recently i couldnt stand the random baby hairs i had in the front of my head from tweezing it so i shaved them off. you think i wouldve learned after one time..but no. so now im stuck shaving this area of stubble in the front of my head 2 times a day..which gives me razor burn and since its on my head it looks like acne. i just dont know what to do anymore. any suggestions of how to undo this mess? (link)
stop shaving it, you have to otherwise it will get worse. just let it grow out, but part your hair differently so you dont notice the baby hairs.or gel them down or use clips.


I need to find a part time summer job in Toronto.
Promblem is that I'm only 13 years old. (link)
i dont see why you NEED to, do you mean you want extra money, because if so, you can offer babysitting, helping around the house (whether its yours or someone elses), and yard work


What is 'grinding' in comparison to sex? (link)
grinding is when a girl rubs her ass/pussy against a guys dick. its more of a turn on dance. so rubbing of the privates together is like sex with clothes on in a way


Okay what is a "poster girl" like in the song
"Still falling with the right now poster girl" what does it mean? I rate!! (link)
oh god i LOVE that song :) i think it means someone in ads, like maybe a commercial. if not, she DRESSES like them, like nicely


ok i'm the kind of girl that loves punk and just about anything besides the opera and classical scene. what are some really great bands that are punk? indie? ska? yeah just stuff like that would be great. please & thank you (link)
blink 182 or good charlote and my chemical romance I know that this is not alot of bands but I used to listen to them when i was punk but know i'm hard core rock lover so I really don't know any others sorry and GOODLUCK !!!


i hope this helps


my best friend is scared of the dark. i can't get to sleep when i spend the night at her house because she keeps all the lights on in her room and i just cant fall asleep. so when she hits the hay... i quietly go to the light switch and turn the lights off. as soon as i do that she wakes up and starts crying! what to do???
thanks in advance
Frenchy♥
(link)
You should bring a night lite and tell her that you are right there and you would never let anything happen to her.Just comfort her ler her know that she's safe and tell her that you can not sleep with lights on and ask her if it's ok that you turn of the lights off when she falls asleep.Well GOODLUCK !!!


i hope this helps



Ok,I'm 18/F and the other day I caught my brother he's 16 dressed in my clothes,I mean everything bra,panties,mini-skirt the works when he saw me he started crying,,,,too make a long story short he told me he has been wearing my clothes for a while and that he wants to be a girl. He said that he's sick of pretending and asked if I would help him shop and teach him about makeup,I love my brother an told him I would but I find this very weird. What should I do ????? (link)
I think that you should help him and while your out ask what makes him feel that way. And you should what you could do to help after all he is your brother and he might hold it against you if you don't tale him out and help.Also while your out tell him how you feel.I know it's easier said then done.Well GOODLUCK !!!


i hope this helps




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