ok well me and my b/f we at this dance thing and we were dancing then out of nowhere another girl comes up to us and was like hey ur hott to my b/f then right there he just lefted (i thought he saw one of his friends or somthing)well moments later me and my friends were walking around then when a slow song came up i saw my b/f dancing with the girl that called him hott i really didnt mind at first but then later he came up to me and broke up with me for the other girl.so then right after he broke up with me he asked that girl out butt she said no because she already had a bf but he wasnt there soo she had no 1 to dance wiht soo she just asked a random person to dance with her(my b/f) well then my b/f came up to me again and asked me out again but all my friends told me not to go back out wiht himm but i honestly still love himm but i dont no wut to do??plzz help
summerGIRL_xo answered Wednesday June 28 2006, 3:15 pm: in my opinion, do not go back out with him. he treated you horribly & he's acting like your his "back up choice" to that other girl. don't reward him for his bad behavior, punish him. i'm sorry but he's a jerk; you'll find someone new eventually but if he continues to act like that he'll only have flings & nothing meaningful. i know its hard, but its what you should do. if you go back out with him, he'll think its okay to treat you like that and may continue to do that. go for a guy that treats you like your worth something. =) good luck [ summerGIRL_xo's advice column | Ask summerGIRL_xo A Question ]
xXJeSsiCaXx answered Wednesday June 28 2006, 2:48 pm: You really shouldnt go back out with him. I kinda went through the same thing, i heard that my bf was flirting really badly with his ex, but i found out they were rumors and didnt break up with him. but your situation is different, very different. He basically just showed you that he isnt very loyal and he would just dump you right on the spot for any other girl. Im sure you do love him just be careful, if you want to give him a second chance then go ahead but i would make him beg for forgivness and prove that he really wants you back and that he will never do this again. its your choice. Hope i helped! [ xXJeSsiCaXx's advice column | Ask xXJeSsiCaXx A Question ]
tushortylinda answered Wednesday June 28 2006, 2:41 pm: hi in my opinion even though you love im I think you should first think before you go back out with him.to me I think he does not really love you because a true boy that has a girlfriend would not brake up with for a nother girl and then ask his girl to go back out with him just becuase the other girl told him that she has a boyfriend i think you should talk to him and tell him how you felt or feel about what he did to you [ tushortylinda's advice column | Ask tushortylinda A Question ]
karenR answered Wednesday June 28 2006, 1:25 pm: Its up to you of course but I think he let you know the kind of guy he is. I think you know it too.
Soon as some other girl shows him some attention he will be gone. He is probably just using you until someone he considers "better" comes along.
I know that isn't what you want to hear, I'm sure that is what your friends are probably telling you already though. You can do what you want, just beware of what may happen down the road. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
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