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shud i stay.. shud i go.. i dunno..
im 16/f. and i met this guy a few weeks ago. lets call him E, well we chilled a few times and eventually i found out he had a daughter. i asked him exactly how old was he and he sed 23! ..he asked back and the next thing i knew i was "18". well.. later, we had sex. and the next day i found out he was still living with his babymama. he sed he's not with her thoughh.. but i dont know. we have a date on friday.. and i dunno what to do. shud i just leve him or pretend like it all doesnt bother me. i mean .. i like him and all.. and im just reallie confused..
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You should still go out with him on friday, but when he finds out your really 16 then you guys probly wont see eachother again. If it really really bothers you and you cant stop thinking about it then just dont even bother..but atleast give him a shot. Hope i helped!
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Well, if you really like him i would go on the date and then just see how it goes. Follow your instincs. You know...and just follow your heart. If you begin to feel uncomfortable and it feels like to much just move on.
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to be honest.. if you guys cant be honest with eachother this soon in your relationship your gunan have nothing with problems. You already are gunna have problems with him having a kid, and living with his daughters mother. Hes gunna have to deal with that lady forever since he had a kid with her. but as i said, your already lying to eachother..this isnt gunna go anywhere good. you can find another guy who you can be comfortable enough with to tell him how old you really are, someone who has alot more to offer and less responsibilty.
good luck dear (:
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If he is living with her, he is with her. That is BS. You lied though when you failed to give your real age, of course it's worse because you turned him into a child molester. Just leave, don't even try to talk about anything or admit any truth. You got used sweetie, but you are playing with more fire then you know because you are so young.
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He is living with her but isn't "with" her? He is lying. You are 16 and say you are 18...you are too.
This was wrong from the start. Lies in a relationship are a big sign it isn't right.
He isn't a good guy any way you look at it. He isn't married to the woman who had his child. He lives with her and screws around on her...don't think for a minute you are the first. Is that really the kind of guy you want to be with?
My advise is get out before you get hurt. It may upset you now but it isn't near what you will experience if you let the relationship grow. He has no intentions of leaving his family, he just wants some on the side. Don't be that girl.
He may give you a different story...don't believe it for a minute. :)
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