ok i have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years on and off....i am 16 years old..we really love eachother...are parents know and everything...today i went to a physic and she said we have no future wat so ever together...and it was so weird cause he told me not to go cause i will start basing my life on her...and hes right cause now its making me think am i wasting my time...but me n him always plan r future together even though we r young...do u belive in physics wat should i do? how can i overcome this
Don't trust the psycic. Even your boyfriend doesn't believe it. If the both of you want to be together and love each other, then keep living like that. Don't start to doubt your relationship just because of what some psychic says to you. Maybe your relationship wont last forever, but you seem like you have a really great thing right now, and I don't think you should ruin that just because of what someone, who doesn't even know you says. Psychics are just over payed horoscopes writers. Astrology(horoscopes and stuff) is not a real science so don't believe it.
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Is being sheltered a bad thing? And is it a turn off?? Is it bad and considered "shelted" if I've never vacuumed, and I don't know what a garbage disposal, mop, and wrench are??? And what does this make me?? Stupid?? Cute?? Funny?? I'm always the one giving the advice.. this is different.. anyways, PLEASE COMMENT!!!
I wouldn't call that sheltered. I would call that spoiled. Sheltered is when your parents, guardians, or even yourself, stop you from doing anything like going out with friends or going to parties or anything. Being sheltered means that you are missing out on life. Never vacumming and not even knowing what a mop is is being spoiled. You need to learn those things because your not going to be able to depend on your parents to clean your house when you get older. Do you really think guys will get turned on if they see a really dirty house?
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Ok guys, here's ,y question! I'm turning 18 soon so I can legally pierce anything I want. When I was 16 I got my belly button pierced on the top. For some reason something went wrong and i got very infected and I had to go to the docotrs n take it out. Now I have a scar there. When I squeeze the scar tissue it hurts. And my doctor said yesterday that it would be difficult to repierce through it. Anyways I guess my question is do u think it would look dumb or hurt if i got it pierced from the bottom??? I heard people say it hurts more but maybe thats just a rumor? Thank You guys so much for your help!!!
I have heard of people getting the bottom pierced, but I'm not sure how it would look. You could always try hanging, or clipping something there for a while to see if you like it, and if you think it looks good.
But, since the top already got infected, I would worry a lot more about the bottom getting infected. Sometimes the skin just doesn't accept the metal going through it, and since it's so close to the other piercing, that might happen again. If you do get it pierced there then clean it ALL the time, like before and after touching EVERY time you touch it. Clean it like 7-10 or more times a day, it can never be too clean. Use a piercing solution, and if the solution dries it out too much then put a tiny bit of vaseline on it, but make sure the vaseline doesn't touch the ring, just put it around the dry skin.
So, you might as well try it out but absolutely make sure you clean it.
If you want to get your belly button pierced because you think it looks sexy, You could always get your nipples pierced. They actually don't hurt too much. And they heal faster than your navel does. About a month, instead of the six or more months it takes your belly button to heal completely.
so, good luck.
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I live in North Carolina and my mom and dad got divorced 3-4 years ago. He doesn't pay for much, and I know he won't pay for college. I'm 16...a Junior in High School and have 2 more years left for college. I really want to go to Boston University or University of Massachusetts because I love those schools and it's my home state. My mom said that I should go to college in North Carolina so it will be cheaper but I don't like many colleges here. The ones I do like (Duke University and Wake Forest University) are private and will still cost more. I told her I'd pay for law school and 4 year college but she wanted to pay for that. She said if I go to college up there then she'll only give me the amount a year that she would pay down here. What should I do? Should I go down here or up there or should I say something?
I would definately try your hardest to go to the school that you really want to go to. Try to explain to her that you need to go to a good school, and one you'll be happy at in order to suceed in life. It really is very important. I went to a tiny college way up near canada (I live in Maine) my first year just because it was cheaper. I ended up having a terrible time and didn't get to take any classes that helped out my future at all. So, basically, instead of spending a little more money on something that would benefit my futre tremendously, I wasted about ten thousand on a crappy college that didn't teach me anything useful except how to get across the border without seeming too drunk after coming home from the bar in canada.
If you can't get your mother to see how very important this decision is, then you should think about getting a part time job. You could save some money now, and also get a job near your college choice set up before you get there. That way, you'll have money set up when you get there. It's usually cheaper to get an apartment with some other people, rather than living in the dorms. A lot of people are usually looking for roommates near the start of each semester in college towns. It will be hard, but trust me, it's worth it to go to a good college.
You could also talk to your guidance councelor, or the financial aid councelor at your college choice and talk about extra loans, or any kind of federal grants or scholarships you could get.
Good luck with college.
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I think you need to try spelling your words properly. It's very annoying to try to read a question that is full of misspelled words, 0's for o's and one letter replacing a whole word. I'm not trying to be mean, but I think you would be more likely to get good, intelligent advice from more people if you spelled out your words correctly.
These types of questions are likely to get deleted, and I'm not just picking on you. A lot of people do this and your question might be good, but a lot of people will look at the spelling and not even bother reading it.
Just thought I'd give you this advice.
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I belive in God, but i was wondering, if God created us, and all the earth, how was he created and how did he create everything, what was it it all like w/o God, how can he just appear from thin air when there is no thin air, were does he appear from if there's nuthin to appear from, how did he create the universe and beyond, if there was never anything to create it from, if there was once no such thing as the universe, where did he create it from, was there sumthin before God, and if so how did he/she make stuff, where did God come from????????
if it helps, i belive in Christianity, and I'm a catholic (my parents are catholic, and i was brought up in a catholic church, but when i moved, i started goin to a non denominational church, i haven't been to church in about 7.5 months, and im thinkin about goin back to church so i wanted info)
if u don't know how to answer this, please just put ur input, like even if all u said was unexplainable i'd still rate ya a 3, unless i get a rude remark, i'll rate you a 3,4,or 5 usually i rate 4s and 5s tho!!
i've asked my really religious nayber, and she said God was always there, ALWAYS WHERE?
I've always had these kinds of thoughts, and it has lead me to not know what I believe. I'm torn. I believe in evolution, that all species on earth, plants, animals, humans, evolved from micro organisms over millions, (or is it billions) of years. But how would god fit into this.
When I was a teenager I went through this stage where I thought I was agnostic, not quite anti-christ, but just agnostic. I thought that I didn't believe in god and never would.
Now I don't say that I believe in god, but I don't say that I don't believe. I say this because I wasn't raised in a religious family (my mother was "spiritual", but didn't like organised religion or something) and I just don't know enough about any kind of religions to say whether or not I can believe in any.
My roommates are really religious, one of them being the son of a preacher, or priest, I'm not sure which you would call him. anyway, they have always believed that they need to "save" me. They think that since I don't believe in god, and therefore, don't beleive in heaven, then I will go to hell. But if I don't believe in god or heaven, then that means I don't believe in satan or hell, so where am I sopposed to go? I guess I will be a lost wondering ghost forever. I don't know.
But another thing about the "you don't believe in god, then you go to hell thing". I'm a really good person, I have morals, I care about all living things, so why should I be labelled as a bad person just because I don't know what to believe?
There's just so many things about religion that seem very sketchy. Maybe if I knew more about it then I would come to believe for certain, but at this point in my life I have not been convinced. I've always wondered, if god created us, then where did god come from... I have no answer to that question, because, like I said, I don't know. It's good that your wondering about these things and you can still keep your faith.
Sometimes I think that religion is still around because people need something to give them hope. They need to know that there's someone watching over them. And, even if it's not true, there is no god, and there is no heaven, I think that just having people believe in something, anything, gives them hope. Sometimes even I like to believe that theres someone watching over me, loved ones who have passed on or something, It just makes me feel a little better and a little safer... Even though, logically, and scientifically, it just doesn't seem like it could be true.
Sorry this is so long. But I hoped it helped.
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I took your advice on shaving my pubic hair...I used conditioner. And it did work, I don't have quite as many razor bumps. But... I'm so itchy and it feels so weird. I don't even know if I got all of the hair. I'm afraid that I'm going to get real irritated. What should I put on there? I might just grow the hair back, how long do you think it will take?
It's going to be real itchy, especially since you first started. I'm assuming this is your first time. Well, Just use lotion every day, maybe a couple times a day, maybe try some baby oil also. And continue to use conditioner every day to keep the skin and hair soft. Even if it doesn't look like there's any hair growing up yet, still use conditioner because once it does start to grow back it will keep the hair much softer. I'm not sure how long it will take, but if you just let it grow back then it will probably stop being irritated once the hair is a little less than eyebrow length, maybe sooner. If you decide to still shave, then you might want to wait until it stops being as irritated anyway. It will probably still be itchy for the first three or four times you shave, but after that it should get better. Your skin will get used to you doing it and wont hurt or itch.
And just to let you know, I don't shave everything. I tried it a few times but never did it enough to get to the part where it didn't itch and hurt. I don't know if this is too graphic to tell you, but what I do is shave the lower area, mostly just around the lips and on the sides near my bikini area. I've found that those spots don't get nearly as sensitive. It didn't take long at all to get used to it.
Good luck on the whole thing.
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Hey~
You told me to ask you about different kinds of crunches and stuff....can you tell me? lol thanks~!!
Ok.
1.Theres the normal crunch. You lay down like doing a sit up, keep your back straight, bend about half way up, hold for three seconds, then go back down. Either cross your arms at your chest, or hold your hands behind your chest.
a variation of this is to bend all the way up to your knees, then go half way down, then back up. This is good because your never resting, so there's more strain on your stomach muscles.
2.There's also some side crunchs. Start out the same way, with your back on the ground, and your arms on the back of your head. Only this time when you go up, start with your left elbow and lift it toward your right knee. Then start with your right elbow and lift it toward your left knee.
3.Then theres another kind of "crunch" that helps your lower stomach muscles. This is a bit weirder. Lay down flat, bring your legs up perpendicular to the floor. Hold your arms down on the floor on your side. Lift your butt up, keeping your legs straight up. This will only be a very small lift, but hold it for a few seconds, then relax, and repeat. Do this on an exercise matt, a couple towels, a blanket, or something to make it more comfortable on your back.
I also like to do some butt exercises.
1.Lay down, with your legs bent like a sit up position. Lift your butt up, hold for a few seconds, then let back down. Repeat.
2.Start this one on your hands and knees. Relax your neck, and lift one leg behind your, straight out behind you. I usually lift it a little further to put a little more strain on the muscles. Repeat this with the other leg.
3.Now, this involves a chair, and maybe something to balance yourself on. Stand a little in front of the chair, and rest one leg on it behind you. The chair should be knee high, so your leg is making a right angle. Now bend down on the other leg, and lift yourself back up. Keep your body straight while doing this. Again, repeat with the other leg.
I usually do one set of about 20 crunch #1, then about 20 butt #1. Then do a set of crunch #2, butt #2, and the same with #3. Then I start the whole process over again. Doing those things two, maybe three times is a good workout. It will give you a tight stomach and butt if you keep a good workout schedule.
I also do a yoga exercise in between each workout. The yoga exercise that I know is a lot harder to explain, especially without pictures, but it helps with flexability, and, it will make you feel soo rejuvinated and alive.
Anyway, I hope you can understand how to do these, it's a lot harder without seeing pictures, but I hope I explained them enough.
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this is jazi14 and i am on smilihunz sn and my cuzin has a ?. she wants to know what 2 do about this prob she is having. see here is the thing.....she likes guys and she thinks she likes gurls..what should she do? she is worried that if she says somthin to her friend that they will not like her and she is only in the 7th grade. she said that she has had lots of boyfriends but yet she finds gurls attractive. what should she do? she does not have one of this things so she asked me to do it for her.... so can u give me some advise to give ti her @ jazi14 thanxs my cux really would like yo help.
I don't think she should say anything to her friends until she's completely ready. High school is really hard, and it will be even harder if some immature teenagers decide that they want to make fun of her because of her sexual orientation.
That said, if her friends are good friends then it shouldn't matter whether she's gay, bi, or straight. It's good that she has you to talk to about this, since she doesn't think anyone else would accept her. Just let her know that it's no big deal and you'll love her no matter what. To bad her friends couldn't be more accepting.
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can women fall pregnant by a man who is 20years older then them
Yes. Women become infertile when the get past menapause, but men will constantly Produce sperm. As long as a man has healthy sperm, then a 90 year old man can get a 20 year old women pregnant. The only way a man can't get a woman pregnant is if the woman has already gone through menapause. This usually happen in your late 40's or early 50's.
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I have been going out with this guy for 9 months(2 years unofficially) and we have had sex more than 80 times. I'm only 17 and I'm afraid that this feeling I have, like we are meant for eachother and are going to get married, is just an illusion. Other times, I can see myself marrying him. He's my bestfriend, lover, and the only man I have ever trusted. So is this feeling just "puppy love" or do you think it could be real?
It's hard for me, or anyone to tell you whether or not your in real love or not. I don't think you should worry about it too much. You might only think that this feeling is an illusion because of what everyone around you thinks. It seems like the entire US, maybe world is against love lasting. I would say you should go with it and take everything day by day. Theres nothing you have to worry about today, you seem happy and in love, so be happy and don't worry about "what if it does't work out in the future" Just worry about the hear and now.
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okay. well i just moved out into my own apartment and i'd like to get a pet. the problem is i don't know what kind. i'd like something that doesn't require a TON of care, but something that i can also play with..can you help?
I'm sorry for this answer, you might not like it, but I volunteer at an animal orphanage and work at a kennel and also a veterinary clinic. I don't like it when people ask what kind of pet to get that doesn't take a TON of care, because ALL pets take a TON of care. If any animal is cared for properly then they take a ton of care. There are so many responsabilities that people just don't realize, and thats why so many pets are sent to animal orphanages. I see so many dogs, cats, birds, hampsters, rabbits, and lizards come into the orphanage because people got the animal thinking that there wasn't a whole lot of care involed. Later, after finding out that these animals needed too much time to take care of, they sent them away.
Birds need a LOT of socialization if you want them to be nice to you, that means holding them, playing with them, spending time with them, cleaning them almost constantly. The same goes with lizards and small pets like hampsters and guiney pigs, and also rabbits. You probably know that dogs need a lot of time and care and training, but so do cats.
It will be so sad if you get an animal, and don't have the time to socialize and tain him/her, and then that animal gets sent to an orphanage because of bad behavior problems.
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Does anyone else have flashbacks about things they regretted doing or things other people did that unnerved you? I have never done LSD or anything like that. I know they aren't real. It doesn't keep me from doing things, but it makes me shrug sometimes in reaction to it.
Yes, all the time. Sometimes I think it helps me not make those same mistakes again. Sometimes it doesn't help me. Sometimes it just makes me feel really shitty. But the, sometimes I have flashbacks of some really good part of my life and it makes everything all better.
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One of my very good friends is 14 and she is having sex with her boy friend. I don't think it's right, but who am I to judge. I highly doubt that they'll stay together and she say she likes it a lot... Do you think it's a little slutty of her? And should I tell her I think they should stop? Help me... please! Thanks! much
I don't think it's slutty of her. She might not stay with her boyfriend forever, but she likes him now, and she likes to have sex. There is nothing wrong with liking sex. As long as she is being mature about it, mainly, using protection, and not having multiple partners, then I don't see anything wrong with it. I don't think it's your place to tell her to stop, but you could always talk to her and tell her how you feel about the situation. Don't make her feel like a slut, because she is not being a slut. She is doing what she likes to do. Just be there for her and, if anything, make sure she is being responsible and using protection.
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My boyfriend really really wants to do stuff with me like really bad when ever I kiss him he tries to do all this new stuff and I want to and everything but I am afraid of going to far... what should I doo? My dad is going to New York for a month and then we are suppose to move there because his new job and I don't want too!!!
Right now my Best frined has MONO! from kissing another guy and her mom is flipping out!! Help me What should i do with everything!
If your not ready, then don't do anything that you don't want to do. It's good that your worried about diseases, because there are too many people who aren't worried. About a month ago I was reading a web site about stds and it was a real eye opener. There are so many people out there who could have something and not even know it. You don't have to have sex to get something. As you know you can get mono from kissing someone. I've had friends who have gotten mono from drinking from a bottle after someone else. I know you can get stds from kissing, oral sex, and actual sexual intercourse.
So don't do anything that your not ready for unless your going to be completely responsible about it.
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okay, i have this friend,and we're going into 7th grade,but she still acts like we're going into like,3rd! and i talked to her,but i dont know if she listened.the same problem is going on with my other friend.but worse!she plays with her food at lunch and everything!i'm the only normal one of the bunch,and i hate it,it holds me back from the "popular people" which, i know i could be apart of,if they wern't so weird,you know? help me fast so i can try it before summer ends!!!!!
You shouldn't worry about what other people say too much. I think your friends sound like fun, easygoing people. You should have fun with them and not worry about what the popular group is thinking about you.
If that advice doesn't work and you still want to be in with the popular group, then you should just go hang out with them. If you know that you could be apart of that group then you should have no problem.
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I just wanted to let everyone know that I had been asking lots of questions about what I should do since I had broken up with my boyfriend and I wanted him back. Well, we are back together!! =) =) YaY!! Anyways, my mom doesnt understand anything about me and why I still love my boyfriend but you just cant stop loving someone so fast. She's making me go out of town for a WHOLE week and I wont be able to see or talk to him and she says its for the best when its definitly NOT! My boyfriend is so good to me and is a very nice person, why doesnt my mom like him? How can I get her to accept us and let me do what I want to do?! Thank you for answering! Sorry its so long!
My mother is the same way. I guess she doesn't want me to settle. I have tried to tell her that I will make my own decisions, and if they turn out to be mistakes, then I need to make them on my own.
A WHOLE week wouldn't be such a bad idea. If you really like this guy then spending a whole week away from him will only make you want him more. The same for him, he will only miss you and want you more when you come back, so her plan of getting you away from him could completely misfire on her.
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I've decided that I would really like to go the Advertising route after I finish school. The problem is that I'm having difficulty pinpointing what kind of advertising I'd like to be involved with. I know that I don't have any artistic talent, so that's out of question. But I would really like to be one of the creative minds behind the actual catchy slogan creating, if you know what I mean. If you've ever seen What Women Want, then you know I'm talking about the job both Mel Gibson and Helen Hunt have. If anyone could tell me what this job is specifically called, it would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks in advance for any advice given :)
I have gone to school for art for two years, and my last year, I took a 2D design class. This class had a lot of people that were looking into going into advertising. My advice would be to go to the art department at your school/college and ask what you can do to get into a job like that. Although you say you don't have artistic talent, you would probably be taking a lot of art classes because the classes mainly teach you how to use different colors and shapes and tints to make a "good" piece. My 2-D design teacher focused a lot on advertising and what makes a good advertisement. Mainly what colors, shapes, pictures, etc. attract different people. It's all about learning who you want to attract, and what these people might be looking for.
Hope this helps.
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u answered a question about shaving. u said to shave againdt the grain. your supposed to shave with the grain.
On the first stroke shave with the grain, on the second stroke, shave against the grain for super smooth skin.
And this still isn't a question.
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Are crunches or sit ups better for you?
They're both good for you, only for different parts of your body. Do a set of crunches, and a set of sit-ups, then start all over again. There are different types of crunches also, I know a few that really help different parts of your stomach. Ask me about them if you want to find out how to do a good stomach/butt/lovehandle workout with crunches and stuff.
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