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I got him back!
I just wanted to let everyone know that I had been asking lots of questions about what I should do since I had broken up with my boyfriend and I wanted him back. Well, we are back together!! =) =) YaY!! Anyways, my mom doesnt understand anything about me and why I still love my boyfriend but you just cant stop loving someone so fast. She's making me go out of town for a WHOLE week and I wont be able to see or talk to him and she says its for the best when its definitly NOT! My boyfriend is so good to me and is a very nice person, why doesnt my mom like him? How can I get her to accept us and let me do what I want to do?! Thank you for answering! Sorry its so long!
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well if u really lyke this guy... then u should tell him about ur mom n then u should have ur boi meh her maybe she will change! she may be upset bout it bc she may be over protected but u got to understand its not that she dont want u to be un happie she is juss loving.. tell u that u understand that!
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You should maybe have a talk to your mom and tell her no matter what shes does we will be 2gether! Just tell it strait up sister! Let your feelings out!
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First off, a week isnt that long. My boyfriend is gone for an entire month. It's ok. If he's a goodboyfriend he'll still want you when he gets back. I think you can manage a week w/ out your loverboy.
Ok, your mom. She might actually NOT hate your boyfriend...she might just not like the fact that you're dating, or is uncomfortable w/ it. Tell and explain to her that you are mature enough to handle it. And you might want to explain to her why you like this guy so much.
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Maybe shes just worried that your going to get hurt, like the past relationships. It might be that she has actually talked to him. You could invite him over for dinner or lunch so she can actually talk to him. I know it sounds dorky but it works! Also remember that your Mom can pick your who you like and go out with its you life your world! Hoped I helped! rate me plz!*
--Julie
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Your mom might not accept him because she knows how it feels to be hurt from past experiences and she doesnt want you to get to attached and go threw the same thing she did? You should bring him home with you one day and have him actually talk to her and have a conversation, maybe after taking time to talk to him she will realize that he isnt such a bad guy and she might approve...
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Your parents may not know him very well, and that can be one reason for them being sort of uncomfortable about it.
Confront your mother about this and ask her what she has against him, and reassure her that he (your boyfriend) treats you well.
What you want to do and what your parents want you to do can be (and often are) entirely opposite things. Parents love molding children, and when the child gets in his/her teens, they start being incapable of being molded by their parents, so the parents try to reaffirm this 'power' by not allowing you to do certain things. Now if she doesnt let you go to a party that she knows nothing about, thats very understandeable as she is thinking about your safety. But something as judging a boyfreind before she gets to know him is a little strict.
So my advice is to sit your mother down and talk to her about your boyfriend. Hope I helped.
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Well first off Congratulations on getting back with your boyfriend, you seem very happy!!! =D When it comes to their daughters going out with a boy they seem to be very protective. She's just looking out for you and doesn't want you to get hurt. But you should try talking to your mom and tell her why you like him and stuff like that. And then you should introduce your boyfriend and your mom. So your mom can see what a great boyfriend he really is to you!!! I hope that helps! Good luck!
xoxo Kourtney
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Maybe the reason why your mom doesnt like his is because she doesnt want to see you hurt again. Shes just looking out for you even though its not the best thing she could be doing right now. i think you need to talk to your mom and tell her how you feel about him, Let her know the feelings you have for him and how you want her to accept him. Listen to her reason why she doesnt want to and maybe come to an agreement. Good luck i know its hard
-holly-
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My mother is the same way. I guess she doesn't want me to settle. I have tried to tell her that I will make my own decisions, and if they turn out to be mistakes, then I need to make them on my own.
A WHOLE week wouldn't be such a bad idea. If you really like this guy then spending a whole week away from him will only make you want him more. The same for him, he will only miss you and want you more when you come back, so her plan of getting you away from him could completely misfire on her.
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your boyfriends a jerk and ur just delaying ur break up... its gonna get harder and harder to break up and when u do its gonna be the worst break up ever
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