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Q: i got an assignment for english and one of the questions was this :

Why do people in the north of china eat noodles and dumplins instead of rice?

can someone supply me with some websites ASAP
as the assignment is due in two DAYSS!!!!!


HELP SOMEONE PLEASE!!


THANKS A BUNCH!
"China’s North

Region’s characteristics: geography, climate, agriculture

China’s North has two very long and distinct seasons (winter and summer) with short transitional periods in between. Winters are dry and cold, with temperatures often below freezing. Summers provide intense heat and rain. Its diverse terrain (hills, valleys and rivers) give variety to the region’s agriculture.
Due to the extremely dichotomous climate, the land’s produce is hearty: mainstays of wheat and corn, especially important to the Northern China economy, dominate the northerner’s dietary needs. Crops are then manufactured into wheat-flour for use in common cuisine: noodles, stuffed buns, dumplings and steamed bread are just a few of the wheat products consumed in the provinces of this region. Although little rice is grown in this region, other hardy plants such as barley, millet, soybeans, cabbage, squash and apples predominately appear in northern Chinese agriculture and cooking."

http://www.kas.ku.edu/chinese_food/regional_cuisine.html

Good luck on your assignment!

Q: I lost my virginity to my boyfriend about 3 weeks ago. he seems crazy about me, i never ever guessed that he would even think about kissing another girl. but last night he kissed one of my good friends, then grabbed her boob. and masterbated like in front of her.

i really dont want ot break up with him but if i have to i will.

what should i do?>
That definitely sounds like cheating to me. How did you find out about what he did last night? Did he tell you that? Props to his honesty but that does not mean you should be obliged to stay in the relationship. He may continue to do the same things in the future and you don't want that. It'll just cause more heartbreak and heartache. I think you should break it off while you are still hurt by this one incident before anything worse happens. If you found this out from someone else, it may be a rumor. Ask him. If your good friend told you about it then, ask him about it as well. Hear his side of the story too, just to be fair. Then take action. Seriously, he sounds like a scumbug. No offense to you.

Q: i was wondering what is the policy about early decision and early action. I've heard you can file both a early decision and a early action, because only early decision is binding. is this true? if so should i do this? will this affect my chances of being admited?
http://www.admissionsconsultants.com/college/earlydecision.asp

Q: This is my goodbye letter to my friend but im not good at english so can someone correct it for me please? and make it sad if you could and thank you so much =]and what do you think about this letter?



Damn I cant believe you’re moving….
I was hella shocked when you told me that around February or March
I seriously gonna miss you like a fat kid on a diet misses cake haha cheesy and also im gonna miss your perkiness and your sense of humor. I’m really really sorry when I tried to avoid you these days, like when I tried to keep distance myself from you, I was just upset that your leaving and I didn’t really wanna get close/attached or talk to you because of it (obviously you noticed it and you were right) but I kept denying that I was trying to drift away from you. But now, I seriously regret what I did and I thought it was stupid for me to do that because what I did was just wasted time and making myself more sad and yeah. Anyways, I just wanna appreciate for everything, you are one of the greatest person I ever met seriously and I remember how we met in 8th grade it was at lunch jessica said hi to me and you were like “Hi ericka I like you name” lol and guess what that’s when I first saw number 1(the guy i like) and I thought he was cute so I had a eye on him but I stopped and you know why wink wink* but damn I learned a lot of stuff from our deep talks hella expert on things like poetry, poems keep it up “love counselor” haha seriously though and “lucky charm”(number 1) I also enjoyed talking to you about guys sexiness and secrets and your interesting stories. Thanks for helping me whenever I had a problem you give out a good advice but I regret it when I don’t listen to your advice because it comes up true and all, and I just wanna say that thanks for being great friend, I hope you will find your happiness at Philippines and don’t forget that I’m here for you ALWAYS even though Im not good at advices and all that but I will try my best to help you out anytime also don’t forget to keep your head up and be strong I hope ill see you someday.

P.s I wish I could put knife in your luggage so you cant go to the Philippines haha



Sorry this letter is too long but Thank you so much =)

Here is an edited version of your letter. Read it over. I may have altered the meaning of it, but hopefully not. Your letter was heartfelt and sad.. I think I almost cried. :( Best of luck to you and your friend!

Dear _________,

Damn. I can't believe you’re moving..
I was majorly shocked when you told me that around February/March. I am seriously going to miss you like a fat kid on a diet misses cake. Haha, cheesy. Also, I'm going miss your perkiness and your sense of humor. I’m really, really sorry when I tried to avoid you these days. When I tried to keep distance between you and me, I was just upset that you were leaving, and I didn’t really want to get close/attached or talk to you because of it, (obviously you noticed it and you were right) but I kept denying that I was trying to drift away from you. But now, I seriously regret doing what I did and I thought it was stupid for me to do that because all I did was waste time making myself more sad instead of spending time with you on your last days here. Anyway, I just want to thank you. I appreciate you for everything. You are one of the greatest persons I have ever met, and I remember how we met in eighth grade. It was during lunch when Jessica said hi to me and you said, “Hi, Ericka, I like you name.” And guess what? That was when I first saw Number One (the guy i like) and I thought he was cute so I had a eye on him but I stopped and you know why. ;) I learned whole lot from our deep talks, we are so experts in things like poetry, and poems. Keep it up “Love Counselor” and “Lucky Charm”(Number One)! Haha. I also enjoyed talking to you about guys' sexiness and secrets and I enjoyed listening to your interesting stories. Thank you for helping me whenever I had a problem. You give out good advice but I regret it when I don’t listen to your advice because it comes out to be true, and I just want to say that you were a great friend, and I hope you will find your happiness in the Philippines. Don’t forget that I’m here for you ALWAYS even though I'm not good at giving out advice, but I will try my best to help you out anytime. Also, don’t forget to keep your head up and be strong. I hope I'll see you again someday.

Love,
Ericka

P.S. I wish I could put a knife in your luggage so you can't go to the Philippines! Haha.

Q: can someone supply me with some websites on -

coral reef statistics (e.g. coral reefs take up 0.2 percent of the earth's oceans), soil information and flora and fauna information.

river statistics, climate, main features, soil info, flora and fauna info.

coast statistics, climate, main features, soil info, flora and fauna info.


PLEASE SUPPLY WITH WEBSITES (HELPFUL WEBSITES) THAT CAN HELP ME WITH ALL OF THE ABOVE!!! THANKS HEAPS GUYS AAND PLEASE ANSWER ASAP AS THE ASSIGNMENT IS DUE IN 1 DAY!!!!
sorry, i dont know much about coral reefs, but here are some quotes that may be useful to you:

"In all, shallow coral reefs occupy only about 284,000 sq km (110,000 sq mi), or less than one-tenth of 1 percent (0.1 percent) of the world�s oceans. Yet in this tiny area, coral reefs house a quarter of all marine fish species. Reefs are highly productive resources for human beings."

"A coral reef begins to grow. Coral reefs grow upward at rates of 1 to 20 cm (0.4 to 7.8 in) per year."

"As of 2005 more than 660 coral reefs were being protected, including two of the world�s largest protected areas�the Great Barrier Reef off Australia and the coral reefs of the northwest Hawaiian Islands. The 660 protected reefs represent about 19 percent of the world�s coral reefs. However, the majority of protected areas only receive partial protection. Probably less than 5 percent of the world�s coral reefs are sufficiently protected at the present time. Some scientists estimate that strict protection for about 30 percent of the world�s reefs would be ideal."

http://encarta.msn.com/encyclopedia_761572186/Coral_Reef.html

Q: im tryibf to lose weight please tell me what vegetables are the best to eat
eat a rainbow - a colorful variety each day! 3-5 servings of...

look to these sites for help!

http://vitanetonline.com/forums/1/Thread/1024
http://www.weightlossresources.co.uk/diet/healthy_eating/5_a_day.htm

Q: My whole life I've been told and thought I'm stupid. Because I'm not school-book smart. I don't get good grades in the "smart subjects" like science, math and so on. I am so sick of believing this. I'm a different type of smart. I know I can make something of myself.

I am especially good at 3 things; public speaking & reaching out to people, languages (I know 4 different languages and intend on learning several more) and I sympathize, more than anything. People always turn to me because of that, I long to help. More than anything.

I've researched at least a hundred different professions in my attempt to find a major that will equip me with the right tools to help save the innocent from the corrupt and ultimatley change the world. I need a profession that will make me come alive. I have a picture of myself speaking infront of thousands of people, touching their hearts, or working at a homless shelter, somehow helping those who have been used, or anything of that kind. But in BIG levels, it wouldn't mean anything to me as a doctor or anything like that. It's not the kind of thing that would make me come alive, it wouldn't matter to me. I don't want to help one person at a time, I want to help thousands.. at once. I want to do something that would end homelessness and stimulate world peace!

I am compassionate and am able to provide stability in people's lives when they are shaken up. I am 16 years old, female, and more than anything.. I want to do something with my life.

No one believes in me, because I am not suited for the typical "good jobs" I will never have the grades to become a Lawyer, Doctor, Journalist or any of the sort.

Help me, what can I become? And how do I get there?

Thank you so much! And please, don't read this and think "what a dreamer, everyone thinks they'll save the world.. this one doesn't even have good enough grades.. she doesn't even know how to spell" Please, I have enough people thinking that way, if you can't help me, fine. But I'm begging you, don't think like that.
yes. there are a lot of kinds of smart. i'm not book smart. im not street smart because i dont live in the city either. however, helping people is what i would consider a great skill and you have just described how you can affect the world using your heart. there are social workers, translators, counselors, therapists, and other types of jobs and more you can look into, all very good jobs that involve compassion. but you want something bigger and better. i think that for example, a social worker, is just as good. in the long run you may help prevent crime in impoverished areas. im not sure what kind of job would run in the bigger levels. hopefully another user will provide more answers for you. doctors, lawyers, and journalists are jobs typically sought after and dreamed about, yes, but not all the options that are out there. not everyone is suited for those kinds of careers. your passion seems to be in helping people. i think it does take one person to save the world. that person may inspire others to do the same and produce a ripple effect that reaches out to the whole world. you never know!

Q: There's this song that goes like this:
"Lalalala... lalalalala lalalala lalalalalala can't get you outta my head, boy it's more than I think you think about. There's a night... a secret in me... " or something like that then it goes back to LALALALA'ing. Anyone know it? Thanks.
"Can't Get You Out Of My Head" by Kylie Minogue

La la la
La la la la la
La la la
La la la la la

I just cant get you out of my head
Boy your loving is all I think about
I just cant get you out of my head
Boy its more than I dare to think about

La la la
La la la la la

I just cant get you out of my head
Boy your loving is all I think about
I just cant get you out of my head
Boy its more than I dare to think about

Every night
Every day
Just to be there in your arms

Wont you stay
Wont you lay
Stay forever and ever and ever and ever

La la la
La la la la la
La la la
La la la la la

I just cant get you out of my head
Boy your loving is all I think about
I just cant get you out of my head
Boy its more than I dare to think about

Theres a dark secret in me
Dont leave me locked in your heart

Set me free
Feel the need in me
Set me free
Stay forever and ever and ever and ever

La la la
La la la la la
La la la
La la la la la

I just cant get you out of my head
I just cant get you out of my head
I just cant get you out of my head...

Q: im doing a health project on marijuana (weed) and i need to make a poster and a commercial thing. The poster has all facts why you shouldnt do it but for the video i need someone to pretend to be smoking pot so it needs to look realistic. anyone have any idea how to make it look like this guy is smoking pot? And how does someone act when they are high?

Thanks. I hope my project will wake up those stoners out there about the facts of marijuana.
how people act when they're high:

- some people feel paranoid or terror or can't sleep because they get insomnia, also can feel withdrawn, fearful, anxious or depressed
- drowsy/tired
- bloodshot/red eyes, dilated pupils, eyes glazed over
- hungry (get cravings) and thirsty (dry mouth)
- giddy so they laugh a lot at random stuff
- short-term memory loss
- clumsy because of impaired coordination and balance, rapid heartbeat
- heightened sensations, a feeling of euphoria, feel like they can see and hear better
- user's sense of time and space is distorted
- you can smell it on their clothes/hair

Q: So, i really want a change but idk what color i should do my hair, its shoulderlenth and blonde, i'm pretty pale.

i'll post a link to my pic

http://a1.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/62/l_c71937b7c0145ceb815dffb9f3679118.jpg
if you want to be bold, you can get a rainbow dye and each layer can be dyed to be a different color. it'll look pretty if you're into that kind of style. blue, purple, and pink are good colors if rainbow is not for you.

Q: i have a hairy bellly. like there is this long line of hair that is in the middle of my belly and it runs down. then there is also a bunch of hair around it. even though it is light, if it is in the sun, it is totally notacible. I really dont want to get a wax though because it is really sensitive. what should i do?

thx!!
its called a love trail. it runs down from your bellybutton to your nether regions. there are waxes with soothing gels to help ease the pain. you should get it professionally done. they will take care of you.

btw, what do you mean if there is light from the sun the hair is noticeable? are you blond?

Q: i have all this work to do for biology and i dont understand what they are asking and how to solve it. can anyone explain what they are asking and solve some if you can??thank you!

1. Give the SI Base Unit an symbol for:
a. mass
b. volume
c. length

2. Give the Relationship Between These Quantities:
a. 1 decaliter= ? liters
b. 1 hectometer= ? meters
c. 1 milligram= ? grams
d. 1 decigram= ? gram
e. 1 centiliter= ? milliters
f. 1 hectogram= ? kilogram

3. Give the Relationship Between These Quanities:
a. 1 dam= ? m
b. 1hL= ? L
c. 1dg= ? g
d. 1 daL= ? hL
e. 1cg= ? mg

4. Write the "name" meaning:
a. 0.1 gram=
b. 0.01 meter=
c. 0.000001 liter=
d. 100 liters=
e. 1,000,000 grams=
f. 10 meters

5. Write the 'symbol' meaning:
a. 0.001 L
b. 0.1 g
c. 0.01 m
d. 10 m
e. 1000 g
f. 1,000,000 L
look it up. for example, the first question is easy. SI is the abbreviated form of a French word, which is not important but means International System of Units in English.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/SI

For example, 5e's answer is milligram. 1000 grams = 1 milligram. and it's a lowercase m

Q: Well when i was in 7th grade i started to cut and have not been able to stop and i started because of my family my mom and dad always fought and my grandmother was always faking sick to get attention and i would lock myself in my room and would cut can anyone help me?
cutting can be addictive. you should ask for help from your parents. let them know that their arguing is hurting you.

Q: i told my friend that our realationship has deteriorated but now im worried she will blurt and it will get worse please help
after you told her, did you tell her how much you wanted to repair it and start anew?

Q: I know it's noot good, you know to not do anything to help, but is it really BAD? you can't call it BAD can you? Cause I mean BAD is when you do something bad - like LIE TO YOUR MOM - but then lets say your little sister knows your lying and doesnt do anything about it - that's not good, i know - but it's not AS BAD as what the actual BAD ACTION is, right? Or is it all equally WRONG?
equally wrong. is saying nothing at all over lying as bad? people generally agree yes. whether passively or actively.. like lack of action or wrongful action the act is still bad. if you watch your friend murder your other friend and you dont say anything to justify the dead friend, it would be just as bad because you could have done something to make the situation right.

Q: Let's say someone came to your class to tell you about World War 2 (while it was still going on) it was this woman, who would kill others and work at a concentration camp and when someone (like a classmate) asked her how she could do such awful things she answered "Me and my husband want nice neighbours and friends, and we havn't been able to buy a house until now. If we just work there for 6 more months we'll be able to keep the house and invite our neighbours and have a normal life! After that we'll quit!" you'd pretty much think the woman was selfish right? I mean she's killing people for a nice house! But then your teacher would say something like "hey you can't judge people before you've been in their shoes, how can you decide waht's morally wrong or right if you havn't ever proven that you can go against everyone, follow your conscience, even if that means losing your career, future, friends, money or anything like that?!" what would you answer to that? or like AGAINST that - to show that we actually do have a right to say what's wrong or right even if we havn't been in the exact situation! Cause I really believe we do, like I KNOW IT'S WRONG TO KILL, so why can't I make that judgment and say "she was wrong, because she killed" ?!
i understand where you are coming from. what she said was really disgusting, but morals are relative. everyone has a different definition of what is good and what is evil. not everyone agrees with all of society's standards. she may not think it's wrong while you (and many of us, im sure) do. in her mind, she is right for doing this. i guess she does not care either. or maybe she has a personal vendetta against jewish people (is that who we are talking about?) and wants revenge. on the whole race. because she thinks it will do her justice. hmm. or maybe she is a psychopath/sociopath or mentally ill.

there is something called moral relativism and in my LA class we are talking about judging people from a different time period and how like early settlers thought slavery was okay and how we today think it is very bad.

btw, are you talking about a female nazi?
"World War 2" (while it was still going on)"
"woman, who would kill others and work at a concentration camp"

Q: Hey what do y'all think this quote means? "Everything has a price, but only humans have worth" like i understand it, and like it to be honest, but i dont get what his point with the quote is, what was he trying to prove/say with it? Like is he talking about how if it costs a lot of money to save someone's life you should still choose to waste all tthat money cause the life has value? or what exactly is he trying to say?
who is saying this quote?

hmm. i guess an object can be duplicated and replaced, but humans cannot. we are all unique. also we are living and once we die we cannot come back. humans are not interchangable like material objects, however much they cost or mean to someone. an object only has meaning because someone give it meaning.

Q: Do you believe that people are evil because of some flaw they have, or a lack of something maybe, and they sort of project it on to others?
both nature and nuture determine how a human is. the circumstances they are born into/ their environment are just as important as their genetics and predisoposition towards certain things. you cannot tell for sure what drives a person.

personally, i believe that people are both capable of good and evil. it depends how they are born and raised, both. in other words, society does impact a person a lot, but people also come into the world a certain way. both things mold us into who we are.

i dont think evil is exactly a flaw. morality is relative. what is evil to you may seem okay to me. like.. theres philosophy and ethics you can research about this stuff and lots of great literature out there about it. :D ask me if you have any more questions!

Q: Does anyone here believe that movies these days are dangerous because they make evil out to be such a big thing that when we do small evil things (for example LIE) we dont think of it as a big deal anymore.. ?!?! Because movies potray evil as psycopaths or murderers or cheaters, you know? so small evil doesnt seem lik evil anymore, its just human, you know??
i think people need to stick to their own beliefs and think for themselves and stop getting influenced by the media.

also, education helps keeps things in check.

lying is definitely not a small evil. i guess it may not seem like it but it leads to bigger and worse things.

Q: 1. first of all, what is the difference between the two?

2. what is the point of going to a good college? is it because you have a better chance of getting a job than an applicant who graduates from a different, not as prestigious school when you both are going for the same position? do people who go to a "better" school earn more money just because they went to a "better" school? how often does this happen? or are people in it to brag about what school you graduated from? or do they offer a better education? is second-tier just as good as first-tier?

3. how do you explain the fact that some people who graduate with like a phd from harvard or wherever cannot find jobs? what is the point in that?
How does all of this impact the perceived prestige of the schools you might choose? Does this mean that an Ivy League degree does not provide a higher degree of learning or better potential for success than another college? Not necessarily. The point is that no Ivy League degree ever guaranteed anybody anything except short-term (and most likely long-term) branding of one's perceived quality or value as a person or an employee. There is no research that suggests a top-tier college degree provides more earning potential over a lifetime, more happiness, more insight, more knowledge, more self-worth, or more soulful quality living per-dollar-earned than any other school in the country.

Good site:
http://www.collegeconfidential.com/college_search/second_tier.htm

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